DrFunmisticGlow:
dear christian women, if you follow this op's today, you will be so unhappy and miserable, that you will be begging for divorce. The scammer of a pastor you will run to for help will only give you bible verses without any assistance, condemning you to hell on earth.

Submission comes naturally when your man loves and respects you. If your husband hasn't done that, you are under no obligation to be scammed. Pursue your happiness first because marriage will definitely not provide it, neither will children.

Look at the gospel singer that sang 'Ekwueme', the current news is that she died due to domestic violence.

chiommy123:
So a Godly wife should just behave like a robot? Well that's a lie. You don't treat people anyhow and expect them to treat you like a king. You guys always highlights the submission part and total ignore the love part

maureensylvia:


I've been married for 7years

oyinmykel:



Another problem in marriage is lack of total understanding of scripture.
The Bible never says “women, submit to your husbands when he loves you” and neither did it say “husbands, love your wife when she is submissive towards you”.

Woman submit is an admonishment because an average woman lacks submission. But talking about love, women can love to a fault; that was the reason Apostle Paul was admonishing them to add the missing ingredient (submission) in their perfection to it.

Likewise, an average man has no problem with submission. That is why majority of men will naturally go for women that are younger than them. Submission is not a challenge for a man; it is in his default setting. But love is not part of what a man does by nature. It takes extra grace and determination for a man to genuinely love his wife to the extent of giving his life for her. That was the message the Apostle was giving to the people of Ephesus

maureensylvia:
I possess all qualities

DrFunmisticGlow:
dear christian women, if you follow this op's today, you will be so unhappy and miserable, that you will be begging for divorce. The scammer of a pastor you will run to for help will only give you bible verses without any assistance, condemning you to hell on earth.

Submission comes naturally when your man loves and respects you. If your husband hasn't done that, you are under no obligation to be scammed. Pursue your happiness first because marriage will definitely not provide it, neither will children.

Look at the gospel singer that sang 'Ekwueme', the current news is that she died due to domestic violence.

godwinstringed1:

I love your contribution. I personally can't date a lady who can't criticise my actions

oyinmykel:
Another problem in marriage is lack of total understanding of scripture. The Bible never says “women, submit to your husbands when he loves you” and neither did it say “husbands, love your wife when she is submissive towards you”.

Woman submit is an admonishment because an average woman lacks submission. But talking about love, women can love to a fault; that was the reason Apostle Paul was admonishing them to add the missing ingredient (submission) in their perfection to it.

Likewise, an average man has no problem with submission. That is why majority of men will naturally go for women that are younger than them. Submission is not a challenge for a man; it is in his default setting. But love is not part of what a man does by nature. It takes extra grace and determination for a man to genuinely love his wife to the extent of giving his life for her. That was the message the Apostle was giving to the people of Ephesus

Yimmicks:
This post shouldn’t be taken serious.
It takes two to work on a marriage.
Submission is not the same as not interrupting him when speaking.. that’s a communication etiquette. Submission also doesn’t mean you should not have an opinion or never disagree with your husband ( not in a rude way though)..
Also, respect is a mutual.

manehtech:
If you are married, or if you aspire to be married, the Lord calls you to be submissive to your husband. Your husband is called by God to lead your family. As his wife, God has placed you under his authority and has given him the responsibility of leading and caring for you. He must answer for how he leads and cares for you before God. You must answer for how you submit to your husband’s leadership before God.

A godly wife does not talk back to her husband or argue with him in public. She does not try to control her husband or tell him what she thinks he should do (Proverbs 21:9). She does not try to change him (Proverbs 27:15-16). She does not tell him how things should be done (Proverbs 9:. Rather, a godly wife is submissive to her husband both in speech and in action (Ephesians 5:22-24; 1 Peter 3:1-2; Colossians 3:18; Titus 2:5).

A Good Wife is God-conscious
A God-conscious woman recognizes that there is a creator of the universe who has authority over every aspect of her life. She follows his guidelines and respects his will for her life.

A good wife honors, loves and cherishes God because she knows that he first loved her. As she knows him, she desires to please him in all things by being a doer of the word and not just a hearer. Her prayers are powerful as she faithfully prays for those around her and always gives thanks to the Lord for everything (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

She respects her husband
Respect is an important part of a marriage because it helps your husband feel confident in who he is and in his role as the head of your household. Respect him for the leadership that he provides, for his parents, for his friends and their opinions, for his dreams, for his authority, for the decisions that he makes, and even for the time that you spend with him.

You can show respect to your husband by:

Listening to what he says without interrupting or becoming distracted
Acknowledging his accomplishments (i.e., thanking him when he fixes something)
Letting him know that you need help around the house so that you don’t burn out
Giving a word of encouragement when he needs it most

She serves the Lord
God’s Word has much to say about women who are preparing to become wives and mothers. The qualities of a good wife in the Bible exist both within the pages of Titus and Proverbs, where we learn what we can expect from faithful women in God’s Kingdom. Women who are exemplary often possess many characteristics, like a godly trustworthiness and generosity. They also manage resources wisely, have a good reputation within their community, and are kind to others.

https://churchgists.com/qualities-of-a-good-wife-in-the-bible/

MrLondonder:



one babe call Nmezor say I should stop toastin u coz her yansh is 8time bigger than yors....can u imagine she as no respet. Anyways was yor nomba again please i have moiney?

chiommy123:
So a Godly wife should just behave like a robot? Well that's a lie. You don't treat people anyhow and expect them to treat you like a king. You guys always highlights the submission part and total ignore the love part

God1000:
Humility and submissiveness

Enemyofpeace:
Mynd44, vickyrotex, ajepako, folake4u, fatymore and funkybabee have them all, but bola146 even one she no get

oluwaseyi0:


So what if he wasn't much of a bully before marriage

Or even if he's, you are already married

You should just stay there and accept your upcoming death like ekueme singer, not asking for divorce till he finally beat you to death in the name of the father, son and holy Spirit

Darkseidxx:
Add she must know how to suck deek
Very important feature of a good wife

maureensylvia:
I possess all qualities

DrFunmisticGlow:
dear christian women, if you follow this op's today, you will be so unhappy and miserable, that you will be begging for divorce. The scammer of a pastor you will run to for help will only give you bible verses without any assistance, condemning you to hell on earth.

Submission comes naturally when your man loves and respects you. If your husband hasn't done that, you are under no obligation to be scammed. Pursue your happiness first because marriage will definitely not provide it, neither will children.

Look at the gospel singer that sang 'Ekwueme', the current news is that she died due to domestic violence.

PaulOtl:

NAHHHH....!
... and here's why. A good "Christian wife" will not blower her own trumpets aloud for men to hear. She will let the angel (could me Uriel, Michael, Gabriel Alias Gabo1, or whoever is on the duty roster that day/night)
...Now , I hope you see why you don't have all the qualities. Do try again next year, Tsankyou.

maureensylvia:


Lol
My hubby told me so
Also, what's happening next year

PaulOtl:

" If you follow this OP's today , you will be so unhappy, yada yada..."

So, serving God and the other point he listed about a good Christian wife loving her God and desiring to please Him, are all to make her unhappy? You must know more than God who made you, and who authorised those scripture verses to be included in his holy book.

Anyways....He said it that in the end times people all be lovers of themselves and not like to take heed to sound doctrines. He said we should expect these things and more. So, I expect most women here to be vexed in their spirit about the Bible verses and the instances or enumerations the OP wrote.
It has to come to past.

DrFunmisticGlow:
you sound so brainwashed.

Kobojunkie:
If God Almighty taught it important for you to find these so-called godly women, this after He cursed marriage Himself in Genesis 3 vs 16 - don't you think He would have given you instructions on how to?

But neither God nor Jesus Christ sent any of you out looking for your illusive godly women or men.