Hello pals, I will try as much as possible to make this brief.
I met this friend of mine, Ayo during our school days in one of the schools in ondo state, that was in 2005. Infact, we got along with eachother immediately we met when doing our course registration, since we were admitted into same Accounting dept. Afterwards, we got so closed to a point where we had to share the same room till our final year. So, while in 200l, I was dating a 100l girl, which happened to be the only babe I was dating in school, even though I had one other I was dating in Lagos before I got admission. There was much love between us that almost everyone on campus knew about our relationship. It was just like we were married. I dated this babe till our first semester, 400l before I began to observe some changes about her which I never knew and understood the cause till we finished from school, went for service and all go out different ways. Ay, on the other hand used to be those serious type that would read and study on their own after lectures, spend most times in the library, which made his social life bored, that he only managed to have only one particular girl and their relationship never seems to last. But that never changed the fact that we were good friends who helped eachother in all manners of ways, financially, spiritually, educationally all through our stay in school, and even till present. Now, here is the point....After school, I lost contact with this said girl and she became the past but Ay has been there as my usual friend, even though we base in a different state. We are used to travelling to attend any special occasion of ours. I'm married with kids and he is married too with kids, and life has been fair to us, atleast.
But last month, this my ex sent me a request on FB and we got each other's contact, so after so much conversation thereafter, there was a confession and revelation from her about my friend. In a nutshell, Ay told her about the girl I was dating in Lagos, that each time, I say I want to travel to Lagos to go see my parent and fetch some money, it's a lie, that it's my Lagos gf I was missing and going to check upon. Well, which was truely part of the reason I do travel then, as I will always tell my friend about my Lagos gf. That he further told her I never loved her and was playing on her. And this my babe was always comfortable staying and sleeping in our room then even when am away as she is just so fond of our side. Laslas Sha, that my Friend took advantage of her n they bleeped. That it was because of that she gave me and "us" distance, as she couldn't look both of us in the face, that she was ashamed of herself. Lol, A scene of over 15years got fresh in my memory and got me wondered. She asked abt him, that do we still talk? I told her Yes! And she begged me not to tell him, that I should just forget it, since we all are happily married now. Cos she is married too with her own kids. I had to call Ay and ask because, he was and still a good friend to the best of my knowledge. To my surprise, even before I asked him, he already had a hint of what I wanted to ask him, because I first asked him if he remember her(mentioned her name) and he said yes, that did I come across her somewhere, I said yes, that she reveal some things to me, lol. He immediately start begging that it's been long he had wanted to tell me himself and apologized. I told him it's okay....that I genuinely forgive him, just that i was surprise and never believe. Even, If he had deny that she lied against him, I might probably be forced to believe him. So I told him it's cool, that have forgiven him. But the question is, till date, if he has any business in Lagos, he still come to my house to pass the night, even when am on night shift. Is it advisable to still trust him 100%? Note: Aside this stain, Ay is a nice guy and would do anything within his capacity for me as a friend!!!

I was following through until I saw the mention of the other gender. Smh

Keep the friendship but don't trust him with your wife and kids, when that guy get good money or power, then we can understand him more better

Inside life

Damnnn niggar

Ogbeni op...there is nothing brief in this write up na

Anyway...you owe us apology for this long write up

Then for that your niggar.....forgive and forget..

After all you nor even marry the girl again self

But nor leave am with your wife for house this time around
once bitten, twice shy

How can a sane man allow another man to pass the night with his wife and family in his absence?


The best way to manage risk is to avoid it.

So why is the girl telling u? Is she feeling guilty? I don't understand. U were not married to her either, so what u had with her was illegal too so I don't see why she is telling u. In fact, if there is anyone she is supposed to tell, it should be her husband. OK, now I know, she may be feeling guilty that Ayo might have told u. Seriously, I don't like the part she said Ayo took advantage of her, they both did what they did because they wanted to. Regarding ur question, never u trust Ayo, especially with ur wife, imagine if u had married ur school gf? That means Ayo go de come collect anyhow from ur wife.

Okay

that gender is the stupid creator of God...he took advantage of her,she de sleep when the guy remove her pant and open her leg....trust no nigga bro!

Akuko mike ejeagha.

Dont lose a good friend because of a lady some friends are meant to be kept at arms length though.

What i see here is u were cheating on your babe and she wanted to cheat back so ay used that advantage to chop clean mouth some of this girls deserve such treatment if she truelly loved u she should have confronted u rather than keep her distance

Bro your question makes you a weak man, what ayo did na Normal cos he knew you ain't serious wif the babe,na person weh you dehvuse cure konji so he ma wan cure konji so he will lie against you to bang her,but sometimes even after lying The babe still fit no gree bang the list,,,,, trust your niqqa,na school life e deh sweet well well,I stayed for school hotel for 2 year's na normal for hostels, niqqas go bang one girl before she founds out what's going on is too late

Life goes on. Keep the friendship. Just that u shud be watchful. Don't keep secrets with him.

Exkandayee:
Bro your question makes you a weak man, what ayo did na Normal cos he knew you ain't serious wif the babe,na person weh you dehvuse cure konji so he ma wan cure konji so he will lie against you to bang her,but sometimes even after lying The babe still fit no gree bang the list,,,,, trust your niqqa,na school life e deh sweet well well,I stayed for school hotel for 2 year's na normal for hostels, niqqas go bang one girl before she founds out what's going on is too late

SIMP! What AY did ain’t normal, stop capping carelessly. That means you can do such. I seriously hate niggars like you.

Thou shall not bleep a fellow niggar babe be it side chick or main chick unless you both agree to runs the girl together.

Guy just put one eyes on ay. Him fvck your babe for your absence...he was even the one that instigated the act by telling her of your movements in lag which means he wanted to ramm the babe.... Ay no be loyal G. Just be careful...he come keep am away from you all these years haba... Not even when una dey drink or dey run side banny he no tell you...

Ay na still your G but just be careful... handle with caution...

Although i come reason am say..you guys were both young... probably grew up from the stuff was why he kept mute but still ......

@OP You said he still comes to pass the night in your house in Lagos while you're away at work on night shift and you're married.. what for if I may ask? hotel or guest house no dey where he can lodge??

Guy, talk to your wife o.. this your friend go fit toast and knack her in your absence.. that's if he hasn't done it already.
Seems his eye is always entering anything that is yours.. some people dey like that.

Lol nigga Don cut him share lock up, u u dey here dey seek for advice...op Use ur head

Omor i no wan know weda na dey banny gree for my guy or na him put her pressure bang her, wetin i know be say i dey keep both of the modafVkers at arms-length.

Cuz if den fit fVck for my back e mean say dem fit join hand kee me too

I don't trust anyone 100% cos devil fit use anybody ...so, don't & stop trusting people 100%...

Emmydarsy:
Hello pals, I will try as much as possible to make this brief.
I met this friend of mine, Ayo during our school days in one of the schools in ondo state, that was in 2005. Infact, we got along with eachother immediately we met when doing our course registration, since we were admitted into same Accounting dept. Afterwards, we got so closed to a point where we had to share the same room till our final year. So, while in 200l, I was dating a 100l girl, which happened to be the only babe I was dating in school, even though I had one other I was dating in Lagos before I got admission. There was much love between us that almost everyone on campus knew about our relationship. It was just like we were married. I dated this babe till our first semester, 400l before I began to observe some changes about her which I never knew and understood the cause till we finished from school, went for service and all go out different ways. Ay, on the other hand used to be those serious type that would read and study on their own after lectures, spend most times in the library, which made his social life bored, that he only managed to have only one particular girl and their relationship never seems to last. But that never changed the fact that we were good friends who helped eachother in all manners of ways, financially, spiritually, educationally all through our stay in school, and even till present. Now, here is the point....After school, I lost contact with this said girl and she became the past but Ay has been there as my usual friend, even though we base in a different state. We are used to travelling to attend any special occasion of ours. I'm married with kids and he is married too with kids, and life has been fair to us, atleast.
But last month, this my ex sent me a request on FB and we got each other's contact, so after so much conversation thereafter, there was a confession and revelation from her about my friend. In a nutshell, Ay told her about the girl I was dating in Lagos, that each time, I say I want to travel to Lagos to go see my parent and fetch some money, it's a lie, that it's my Lagos gf I was missing and going to check upon. Well, which was truely part of the reason I do travel then, as I will always tell my friend about my Lagos gf. That he further told her I never loved her and was playing on her. And this my babe was always comfortable staying and sleeping in our room then even when am away as she is just so fond of our side. Laslas Sha, that my Friend took advantage of her n they bleeped. That it was because of that she gave me and "us" distance, as she couldn't look both of us in the face, that she was ashamed of herself. Lol, A scene of over 15years got fresh in my memory and got me wondered. She asked abt him, that do we still talk? I told her Yes! And she begged me not to tell him, that I should just forget it, since we all are happily married now. Cos she is married too with her own kids. I had to call Ay and ask because, he was and still a good friend to the best of my knowledge. To my surprise, even before I asked him, he already had a hint of what I wanted to ask him, because I first asked him if he remember her(mentioned her name) and he said yes, that did I come across her somewhere, I said yes, that she reveal some things to me, lol. He immediately start begging that it's been long he had wanted to tell me himself and apologized. I told him it's okay....that I genuinely forgive him, just that i was surprise and never believe. Even, If he had deny that she lied against him, I might probably be forced to believe him. So I told him it's cool, that have forgiven him. But the question is, till date, if he has any business in Lagos, he still come to my house to pass the night, even when am on night shift. Is it advisable to still trust him 100%? Note: Aside this stain, Ay is a nice guy and would do anything within his capacity for me as a friend!!!

keep the friendship but be extremely careful.

Why are you bothered about an incident that happened over 15 years ago when you guys were still immature?