Please I Need some advice.

I meet her 2yrs ago at my villag., some one intrudused her to me. We exchange number and started talking. I made my intentions to her that am coming to her for marriage, I also told her that we needed to know each other very well before any thing. I also asked her if she is in any relationship and she said NO.
We started dating.
I wanted to see her people on Apirl this year and I asked her to come back home. She came back.
On that faithful day, a call came into my phone which I did not know the person, it was a guy , he was asking me my name and some questions which I answered. I told my girl what was going on if he know the person,she said no but łater said she used the person number to call me one day and why is the person call me .I said ok, May be the person might call back.
After so mins the guy called back and ask me If I know a girl called.....that my girlfriend I told him YES that she is my wife to be. The guy now told me that she have been playing games to both of us..that she told him that am his brother. That he have been dating her for 4yrs now , also both of them even made love before she came back to see me. The guy said a lot of things.
I later ask her to tell me the truth on what is going on, at the begining she denied but at the end she accepted.
I asked her to go home and promised her I will not tell any body. She went home crying and told her brother who later called me .
To cut the whole story shot.,she pleaded and promised it will not happen again that the guy was threaten to kill her if she leave him. That she was not doing all those things with her mind.
I later forgived her .

But the question is , should I still trust her again?

should l tell you the truth...Nothing but the truth?..... Don't trust her and you need to upgrade yourself.

Did the guy call off the death threat

Come on, my guy, be a man na...

There are so many lots of plenty uncountable fishes in the river...

Is dat typographical errors or grammatical errors up there??

You suppose to should shall trust her.
As e be like say u get head wet u no wan use make I kuku help u scatter am. Ndi ara !

I struggled to read your writeup but I got your story.
At this time, you don't need to believe any side of the story because both of them are desperate at the moment. The guy don't wanna loose your girl and the girl don't wanna loose you so they would make up stories to achieve their aim.
I suggest you investigate and if truly he threatened her, then forgive her but if he didn't, then she has never valued you and it's time to leave her so you don't become another used to be married.

Easier to list what you did right than to list what you did wrong... You did zero right and everything wrong. Why stop now; forgive her, buy her a wedding present, and pay the asking price for her hand in marriage.

Don't forget to update us

see this guy!!!
You just found out you're a side boyfriend to a girl who lies and cheats on you, and you're asking if you should trust her?

My.only Joy here in spite of all this your grammatical errors, is that you forgived (forgave ).So whether you trust her again or not, is none of my business.

what you don't know is that when you catch a lady cheating and she apologises and begs you to accept her back, she will forever be loyal to you



so to your question, you should have more trust in her and put her name on everything you have, make her your next of kin, beneficiary to all your money if anything happens to you and also buy something very expensive for her.

Abort mission I repeat abort mission code black trust is missing, she's sly as a fox, Report to base over and out.

mezarddinny:
[s]what you don't know is that when you catch a lady cheating and she apologises and begs you to accept her back, she will forever be loyal to you[/s]



so to your question, you should have more trust in her and put her name on everything you have, make her your next of kin, beneficiary to all your money if anything happens to you and also buy something very expensive for her.

That's not true. She will always go back to the same dude she cheat with when everything has been settled. I have a girl then who had a bf but she was messing with me. The guy found out and was mad at her. She cried so much to the extent that she doesn't want to see me and blame me for everything. She went back to her guy and pleaded for forgiveness and the guy forgave her. After a week that she settled with her guy, she came back to me for sex again. So, women that cheat do not change.

Op, your gf will never change and you can never trust her again

English suffering from chronic epilepsy
I later forgived her
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Pukes

OP, ex boyfriend na bad market oh. Free the babe oh. She go always use that guy take dey cheat on you oh. Even if you marry her, she go still dey cheat on you with that guy. The best thing for you to do is to upgrade yourself.

Seriously speaking, I don't really know what's wrong with people nowadays. You already know what to do, yet you come here seeking for an advice that does not exist.

2special:
should l tell you the truth...Nothing but the truth?..... Don't trust her and you need to upgrade yourself.

He should just go get another girl, a better one at that......that girl dey smell lies all over her body....

iTearHerToto:
English suffering from chronic epilepsy
I later forgived her
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Pukes

You are mad ni.....leave the guy alone, English is hard now

mezarddinny:
what you don't know is that when you catch a lady cheating and she apologises and begs you to accept her back, she will forever be loyal to you



so to your question, you should have more trust in her and put her name on everything you have, make her your next of kin, beneficiary to all your money if anything happens to you and also buy something very expensive for her.

You are a devil.....common advise you cannot give, are you a bittch nigga?

How exactly did the guy get your number? Threatened? She's stupid and does not deserve that your ring jor. Freaking liar.

See brother, brother wey ...

Trust Her At Your peril Breakup Everything with her. Broken Relationship is far better than broken marriage.

Yugoteey2k:
Please I Need some advice.

I meet her 2yrs ago at my villag., some one intrudused her to me. We exchange number and started talking. I made my intentions to her that am coming to her for marriage, I also told her that we needed to know each other very well before any thing. I also asked her if she is in any relationship and she said NO.
We started dating.
I wanted to see her people on Apirl this year and I asked her to come back home. She came back.
On that faithful day, a call came into my phone which I did not know the person, it was a guy , he was asking me my name and some questions which I answered. I told my girl what was going on if he know the person,she said no but łater said she used the person number to call me one day and why is the person call me .I said ok, May be the person might call back.
After so mins the guy called back and ask me If I know a girl called.....that my girlfriend I told him YES that she is my wife to be. The guy now told me that she have been playing games to both of us..that she told him that am his brother. That he have been dating her for 4yrs now , also both of them even made love before she came back to see me. The guy said a lot of things.
I later ask her to tell me the truth on what is going on, at the begining she denied but at the end she accepted.
I asked her to go home and promised her I will not tell any body. She went home crying and told her brother who later called me .
To cut the whole story shot.,she pleaded and promised it will not happen again that the guy was threaten to kill her if she leave him. That she was not doing all those things with her mind.
I later forgived her .

But the question is , should I still trust her again?

Non go die notop woman matter she will mourn you for a month and move on; someone threatening death and you are still there.

Yugoteey2k:
Please I Need some advice.

I meet her 2yrs ago at my villag., some one intrudused her to me. We exchange number and started talking. I made my intentions to her that am coming to her for marriage, I also told her that we needed to know each other very well before any thing. I also asked her if she is in any relationship and she said NO.
We started dating.
I wanted to see her people on Apirl this year and I asked her to come back home. She came back.
On that faithful day, a call came into my phone which I did not know the person, it was a guy , he was asking me my name and some questions which I answered. I told my girl what was going on if he know the person,she said no but łater said she used the person number to call me one day and why is the person call me .I said ok, May be the person might call back.
After so mins the guy called back and ask me If I know a girl called.....that my girlfriend I told him YES that she is my wife to be. The guy now told me that she have been playing games to both of us..that she told him that am his brother. That he have been dating her for 4yrs now , also both of them even made love before she came back to see me. The guy said a lot of things.
I later ask her to tell me the truth on what is going on, at the begining she denied but at the end she accepted.
I asked her to go home and promised her I will not tell any body. She went home crying and told her brother who later called me .
To cut the whole story shot.,she pleaded and promised it will not happen again that the guy was threaten to kill her if she leave him. That she was not doing all those things with her mind.
I later forgived her .

But the question is , should I still trust her again?

Intrudused her to me

What is making guys weak these days

Yugoteey2k:
Please I Need some advice.

I meet her 2yrs ago at my villag., some one intrudused her to me. We exchange number and started talking. I made my intentions to her that am coming to her for marriage, I also told her that we needed to know each other very well before any thing. I also asked her if she is in any relationship and she said NO.
We started dating.
I wanted to see her people on Apirl this year and I asked her to come back home. She came back.
On that faithful day, a call came into my phone which I did not know the person, it was a guy , he was asking me my name and some questions which I answered. I told my girl what was going on if he know the person,she said no but łater said she used the person number to call me one day and why is the person call me .I said ok, May be the person might call back.
After so mins the guy called back and ask me If I know a girl called.....that my girlfriend I told him YES that she is my wife to be. The guy now told me that she have been playing games to both of us..that she told him that am his brother. That he have been dating her for 4yrs now , also both of them even made love before she came back to see me. The guy said a lot of things.
I later ask her to tell me the truth on what is going on, at the begining she denied but at the end she accepted.
I asked her to go home and promised her I will not tell any body. She went home crying and told her brother who later called me .
To cut the whole story shot.,she pleaded and promised it will not happen again that the guy was threaten to kill her if she leave him. That she was not doing all those things with her mind.
I later forgived her .

But the question is , should I still trust her again?

My candid advise is for you to let her go, she's an unrepentant liar and she can't change, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage though is painful please let her go

ednut1:
What is making guys weak these days

I swear the thing tire.

ednut1:
What is making guys weak these days

I swear the thing tire.

Guy trust her more now that you know she is a cheat in fact give her your ATM and pin and fast forward the wedding to this Saturday cos you never see woman before right Nawa for you!!!

AwkaetitiBabe:
How exactly did the guy get your number? Threatened? She's stupid and does not deserve that your ring jor. Freaking liar.

she used the guy's phone to call the OP, I guess the guy saved the number.

nuelyoyo:
she used the guy's phone to call the OP, I guess the guy saved the number.

Why do such in the first place?

Yugoteey2k:
Please I Need some advice.

I meet her 2yrs ago at my villag., some one intrudused her to me. We exchange number and started talking. I made my intentions to her that am coming to her for marriage, I also told her that we needed to know each other very well before any thing. I also asked her if she is in any relationship and she said NO.
We started dating.
I wanted to see her people on Apirl this year and I asked her to come back home. She came back.
On that faithful day, a call came into my phone which I did not know the person, it was a guy , he was asking me my name and some questions which I answered. I told my girl what was going on if he know the person,she said no but łater said she used the person number to call me one day and why is the person call me .I said ok, May be the person might call back.
After so mins the guy called back and ask me If I know a girl called.....that my girlfriend I told him YES that she is my wife to be. The guy now told me that she have been playing games to both of us..that she told him that am his brother. That he have been dating her for 4yrs now , also both of them even made love before she came back to see me. The guy said a lot of things.
I later ask her to tell me the truth on what is going on, at the begining she denied but at the end she accepted.
I asked her to go home and promised her I will not tell any body. She went home crying and told her brother who later called me .
To cut the whole story shot.,she pleaded and promised it will not happen again that the guy was threaten to kill her if she leave him. That she was not doing all those things with her mind.
I later forgived her .

But the question is , should I still trust her again?

In simple and clear terms,,,,dump her as soon as possible...This almost happened to me...when the guy called and told me everything..that was the end.
be wise bro