rayparlour:
Good evening house.

Let me summary and kindly wait for your input.

i married my wife barely 2yrs now, and we have a daughter.

I have a decent job that pays me well on 6figures, and i shoulder 99% of finances in my home. Now the issue is my wife, i will break the issue into 3 parts;

1. She complains a lot that i don't help her with house chores, which I've advised her to get a house help, paying for help isn't my problem. but she will always insist i have to be the one helping not a house help..

2. With the fact that i provide for all the money @ home, my wife sees all i do as nothing anytime we have a bit altercations...as she always use my pain points during her abusive period, but will later say she was only joking as she doesn't mean those words. I'm i the one giving her these effrontery? because i like staying quiet during most fights or leave the home to cool off..

3. Finally, she's so loyal to her family @ the detriment of my own family mostly which i do complain about at times.

Mind you, I'm not good with chores, and i do hire external helper a lot while i was still single..

Now the main part, I'm to relocate to Europe this year with her and my daughter, but I'm a bit worried due to Western government overprotectiveness of women.

What if her verbal abuse continues over there, and that puts me in trouble with authorities (we all how worse women with bad mouth can be) OR I should just ignore and hope for the best..

Please advice !

OnionBandit:
Marry a third one! It's not possible for all of them to be too bad. A man should at least find peace with one of the three..if he doesn't, it means he is the one with the problem

JoyousFurnitire:


Not the way to go, it could lead to murder

Kriss216:

How long will he ignore a nagging wife? A nagging wife is assistant devil.

Jossyfine:
Dunno why good men end up with wrong women and vice versa.

Me that can even worship my hubby but they take us for granted despite all my perfections. When I mean perfections I mean every word of it.

@ posted, you have to manage cuz marriage is not for the chicken hearted. Kpele

rayparlour:
Good evening house.

Let me summary and kindly wait for your input.

i married my wife barely 2yrs now, and we have a daughter.

I have a decent job that pays me well on 6figures, and i shoulder 99% of finances in my home. Now the issue is my wife, i will break the issue into 3 parts;

1. She complains a lot that i don't help her with house chores, which I've advised her to get a house help, paying for help isn't my problem. but she will always insist i have to be the one helping not a house help..

2. With the fact that i provide for all the money @ home, my wife sees all i do as nothing anytime we have a bit altercations...as she always use my pain points during her abusive period, but will later say she was only joking as she doesn't mean those words. I'm i the one giving her these effrontery? because i like staying quiet during most fights or leave the home to cool off..

3. Finally, she's so loyal to her family @ the detriment of my own family mostly which i do complain about at times.

Mind you, I'm not good with chores, and i do hire external helper a lot while i was still single..

Now the main part, I'm to relocate to Europe this year with her and my daughter, but I'm a bit worried due to Western government overprotectiveness of women.

What if her verbal abuse continues over there, and that puts me in trouble with authorities (we all how worse women with bad mouth can be) OR I should just ignore and hope for the best..

Please advice !