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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Asswipemod: 10:50pm On Apr 21, 2022
HardMirror:
Yet another video of a boy and girl rocking each other and guess what it was the aunties that asked them to do it and they were excited and recording this little children. Can you ever see a man making such video and wont be arrested?

Ọmọ this is crazy! Infact, it's a crime. How could grown up females do this to this innocent children? Like you rightly wrote, if this was done by a man, he would have been arrested and charged with child molestation and child porn. Very useless gender.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by 6ixT8: 10:51pm On Apr 21, 2022
Lamanii22:
When there was no internet there was access to vcd porn…. Some of my friends had it in their house, they would bring it over to another of our friend’s whose parents are not always around, we would all watch it… but I never practiced lol, I have this fear in my heart and maybe cause I have a strict mom but I watched porn at a younger age…..

Your mom is someone who is an expert in installing fears in your heart as her basic form of training i guess.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Kobojunkie: 10:51pm On Apr 21, 2022
dukeo:
what is your source? Where did you get this fact sef?
I grew up in that Nigeria and attended school there and knew some of the kids who were involved. undecided

That there are no sex tapes to show does not mean these things haven't been happening in that very Nigeria. undecided

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Way4orward: 10:51pm On Apr 21, 2022
In terms of discipline and manner older generation is far better.


Copy copy from the white have made some parents become foolish and stupid.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by dukeo(m): 10:53pm On Apr 21, 2022
Kobojunkie:
I grew up in that Nigeria and attended school there and knew some of the kids who were involved. undecided

That there are no sex tapes to show does not mean these things haven't been happening in that very Nigeria. undecided

Fact grin

Anyway I don't deny that stuffs didn't happen back then but whether you agree to it or not, it's way worse now and the camera doesn't even capture half of what goes on nowadays
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by moneyissweet(m): 10:54pm On Apr 21, 2022
HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Niwdog(m): 10:54pm On Apr 21, 2022
Na hypocrittes full naija
During my age cell phone wasn't popular but we were already engaging in sexual activities as of 8/9 years
So why shouting this generation this, this generation that. why we know more about this activities is cause of these same internet we are blaming
I have been caught severally but it didn't cross my compound
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Nobody: 10:54pm On Apr 21, 2022
HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved
Well said , especially the ones that their elder sisters are dating yahoo boys

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by TOPCRUISE(m): 10:54pm On Apr 21, 2022
A 10 year old twerking on Instagram having up to 5 Instagram accounts and tik tok. This shows that majority of our girls twerking their bum on social media have started riding dicks at a very tender age.
If you can't discipline your children before 10 years old they will misbehave when they get older.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by oxsyoo9: 10:55pm On Apr 21, 2022
Good point made, parents should pay much attention to what their children do at their absence ,even the type of friends they keep,sex education should be started as early as 3 years. If you take time to watch some of the girls exposure on the internet, nobody ll tell you that the girl had gone far long ago. All these things boiled down to the laxities of the parent. The deed has been done,we all should learn from it.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by jaxxy(m): 11:02pm On Apr 21, 2022
It's very simple bad parenting bt don't get it twisted bad parenting didn't start 2day it only got more exposed cos of the advent of the Internet and social media which create mores exposure and awareness.

The Internet and social media can be good or bad. It gives u All information so it depends on how u navigate or monitor it.

kids sadly are exposed to these choices too early and not prepared or equipped with the truth by their parents so they err and make mistakes.

Modern parenting is more challenging in our era bt 1 simple solution can fix parenting in any era.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Levinas: 11:02pm On Apr 21, 2022
Niwdog:
Na hypocrittes full naija
During my age cell phone wasn't popular but we were already engaging in sexual activities as of 8/9 years
So why shouting this generation this, this generation that. why we know more about this activities is cause of these same internet we are blaming
I have been caught severally but it didn't cross my compound

What is your argument really? People shouldn't criticize juvenile delinquency because it has been happening before? So if a thief is caught red-handed, his defence should be 'why arrest me when others have been stealing before. It is just that you have not caught them? grin

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Kobojunkie: 11:03pm On Apr 21, 2022
dukeo:


Fact grin

Anyway I don't deny that stuffs didn't happen back then but whether you agree to it or not, it's way worse now and the camera doesn't even capture half of what goes on nowadays
Again, it isn't way worse. The population of Nigeria has grown to more than 5 times of what it was back in the 80s meaning that we should expect to see more of these occurrences too. Now with cameras in most every hand out there now, it means more of these cases are bound to be recorded making it all appear, to the uninformed out there, that it is worse today than it used to be. undecided

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by onatisi(m): 11:04pm On Apr 21, 2022
the major problem nowadays is that everyone has gone " inside " , gone are those days when children relied on the older ones and their parents for wisdom , directions, teachings and instructions . now they have all the answers right there on their palms , all they need to do is just press a button and they will get all the information they need ,
And the most disturbing aspect is that many parents instead off seeing the danger in this trend , actually do encourage it because they feel they are been relieved of pressure . instead of kids asking their parents or guardians questions , they rather ask the internet , and we all know how probing kids brains are and when their bodies start changing into adolescent , we can imagine the result of this .

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by ArewaNorth: 11:12pm On Apr 21, 2022
Why do u expect when u watch BBN with kids?
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by ike007(m): 11:13pm On Apr 21, 2022
HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

The yeye girls mother came out to say nonsense. That made her daughter the target simple. The blame was on the school and the parents apparently.

Nothing has changed. It's just more freedom and Access to the internet has made the world a global Village. And bear in mind also that bad news travels a thousand miles before good news even buckle up it's shoes. So with that in mind, things like this can easily be recorded and will surely go viral.

Our generation and theirs are not so different.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Yusman316(m): 11:14pm On Apr 21, 2022
According to rumors going around, there is another video of the chrisland school girl threatening to expose one of her classmates who she said has slept with many boys in their class. This happened after the said classmate mocked her because of her leaked sex tape
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Bfly: 11:15pm On Apr 21, 2022
This whole sex shit is going rampant all because some messed up people keep creating sexual contents on the internet and some careless parents who can't monitor their kids still hand sophisticated phones to the kids.
We corrupted the internet to seek recognition now the internet is corrupting our kids.

Being braless, showing cleavages, shooting dirty buttocks up and down and praising mediocrity will only mess our kids up. And it will torment us.

Your child without developing the right talents wants to be the next Rihanna, Kim, Amber etc cos this are the people you admire.

This is just today's zeitgeist and we can't do much about it. Worst things are happening we only say the ones we see. And people like to talk especially on the internet.

And this is another Talk.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Obagofixxy: 11:17pm On Apr 21, 2022
Everybody Don spoil for this country, I remembered one port Harcourt girl telling me na only for belle virgin dey and I believed her wholeheartedly

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Tonytonex(m): 11:17pm On Apr 21, 2022
Parental failure. Some foolish ones give their teenagers android phone or iphone.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Selfmotivated: 11:18pm On Apr 21, 2022
Rotten society trace to poor parental upbringing
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Bimpe29: 11:20pm On Apr 21, 2022
From Adam till the last of the mortals, evil must be committed and prevalent. However, the rate of such evil will be relatively higher successively.

So, to sustain the sanity globally, when higher evil is committed, same must be condemned and comparison as well as justification of the newer evil shouldn't be our concerns.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Advancedman(m): 11:20pm On Apr 21, 2022
HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

Only foolish and irresponsible institution will be bias towards this serial abuser of a gender, police also do same if you need to carry a gun pass a checkpoint just give it to a female and the evil has successfully advance and until the country get serious in dealing with evil they will keep dancing to the tune of murdering the nation's future by daughter of eve.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by dukeo(m): 11:23pm On Apr 21, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Again, it isn't way worse. The population of Nigeria has grown to more than 5 times of what it was back in the 80s meaning that we should expect to see more of these occurrences too. Now with cameras in most every hand out there now, it means more of these cases are bound to be recorded making it all appear, to the uninformed out there, that it is worse today than it used to be. undecided

Me uninformed? Because I have a different opinion than yours? Guy chill o, my opinion is mine and it is a fact based on your kind of source and yours is yours, I've rested
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Leo4matic: 11:24pm On Apr 21, 2022
That's why raising a female child could be a harder task than a male, because every man need to learn farther from his past n ensure he lives a pious life worth emulating. This is yet a message to the male youth, teenagers n elders, so we don't answer 21Questions on the last day... cool
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by FKMagazine(m): 11:28pm On Apr 21, 2022
HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved


Thanks for this write-up

That's it (we must all face the reality)
Parents (especially women/ladies) are to show or display or be (only) good examples to their household, especially their children (male & female), who they've been saddled with a great responsibility to care for, correct and also put in the way of God while they're still tender/young, because, when they're growing up, they won't depart from it.
So, it is of utmost importance to handle our children/wards with wisdom, prayer and close monitoring with some certain ages, which they are forming behavior, due to peer pressure.
The other time, an SS 2 female student, I was told, was sexualized by a male co-lover, who's from same class, and was being set up outside the school, televised live and recorded with phone camera by other (students) friends present, all in the name of dis-flowering her? What a wasteful & morally decayed generation coming behind us!
But note, charity they said begins at home.
Train a child the way he/she shud go, and when he/she grows up, he/she won't depart from it... Bad or Good way, he or she won't depart.
The parents will weep & bleed in their old ages, if they refuse to do the right thing, which is best for their children/wards.

Those who have ears, let them ear what the spirit is saying
The children of this world are smart like sapent, wants to lure all the children of the kingdom of God to fall and fail
I know God won't allow it, but let's be guilded and pray, let's always do the needful when it comes to our children's culture.

Thank you all
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by NigerianAngelo(m): 11:28pm On Apr 21, 2022
HardMirror:


The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex...

SUPPORTED.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by grandstar(m): 11:31pm On Apr 21, 2022
The Bible already foresaw the moral decay of our day (Read 2 Timothy 3:1-5,13). As verse 13 says, things will go from bad to worse. Why? Because the devil knows he has "a very short period of time." (Read Rev 12:9-12)

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Omodua(m): 11:31pm On Apr 21, 2022
HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved
You hit the nail on the head. Very valid.
Kudos!
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by armyofone(m): 11:32pm On Apr 21, 2022
topboss:
OP, NOTHING DEY WRONG, CHRISLAND IS NORMAL BODY SWEETING, THAT IS TREATED WITH FLOGGING.



THE PROBLEM IS AFRICANS ARE NOW FOLLOWING EUROPEAN SCRIPT AND BETRAYING THEIR ANCESTORS.



OUR ANCESTORS WILL NOT ASK SUCH STUPID QUESTION AS, WHERE DID WE GO WRONG, THAT IS THE QUESTION A BLACK MUMU COPYING WHITE PEOPLE WILL ASK.


OYA, LET ME SHOCK YOU, WITH YOUR god AND COLONIAL MASTER. ccCococandy

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