aleyi:

hey friends pls help someone out.i started a relationship before i gained admission into the university, this is the 7th yr of dating my gal friend.somehow she got admission into the same university and i had to sacrifice every other thing i was doing for US.we are virtually known in the whole school,i know her family so well and she also became part of my family.in my final yr in school i lost my mum and it was very difficult for me,a month after then while i was still recovering from the shock,something happened.MY GAL FRIEND TOLD ME SHE WAS BEEN SENT TO THE MOTHER IN THE VILLAGE TO DELIVER A MESSAGE BY THE SISTER IN LAGOS,I TRIED CALLING HER LATER IN THE EVENING TO CONFIRM IF SHE GOT DOWN SAFELY,E WAS SWITCHED OFF TILL THE NEXT MORNING.I CALLED HER ELDER SIS TO CHECK AND SHE WAS SURPRISED. SAYING SHE DIDN'T SEND HER, SHE CAME BACK THE NEXT DAY SAYING THE CAR BROKE DOWN AND SHE SLEPT IN HER COUSIN'S PLACE,I DID SOME INVESTIGATION AND KNEW SHE DIDN'T SLEEP THERE,AFTER MUCH THREAT SHE LATER CONFESSED TO GOING TO SEE A MAN THAT HAS BEING ON HER NECK FOR A RELATIONSHIP(A 65 YRS OLD MAN)I COULDN'T BEAR IT BECAUSE DEEP DOWN IN ME I KNEW WHAT TRANSPIRED.I TOLD HER I DON'T WANT HER AGAIN BT ,SHE SAID SHE WAS GOING TO KILL HERSELF AND ALL THAT.I HAVE DONE SHITS BEFORE AND SHE FORGAVE ME SO,I DECIDED TO GIVE HER A CHANCE.I TRIED BT I NEVER LOVED HER LIKE BEFORE,I STARTED SEEING OTHER GALS BT IT STILL DIDN'T HELP ME.During my service yr she came to vist and i told her to move ahead if anyone comes seeking her hands in marriage.she got an angry and said i was chasing her away again,shortly after that she told me about a guy that came and want to marry her bt that she is not intrested,i got to know letter that she was actually collecting money from the guy thru a text the guy sent to her telling her that, IS SHE ANGRY BECAUSE HE HAS NOT SENT THE MONEY COMPLETE? i asked her and she said she was demanding to chase the guy away.the guy actually went ahead and got married to another lady and he was telling pple how much he has spent on my gal friend.from my intelligence report am getting she still goes to Abuja to vist the guy even after the guy was married,he lodges her in a hotel.I HAVE STOPPED BLEEPING HER FOR THE PAST NINE MONTHS.this gals has VOWED NOT TO GET MARRIED UNTILL SHE HEARS AM MARRIED,I'AM 28YRS SHE IS 28 YRS.I HAVE FINISHED MY SERVING AND MANAGING A JOB NOW.AM STILL STAYING WITH MY ELDER BRO,PPLE ARE SAYING ALL SORT OF THINGS ABOUT ME THAT,AFTER DATING THE GAL FOR SO LONG I WANT TO DUMP HER NOW.MY FAMILY ARE NOT HELPING ISSUES BECAUSE SHE HAS GOTTEN INTO THEM SO MUCH,SHE HAS BEEN BEGGING CRYING AND SAYING SHE IS READY TO DO ANYTHING I WANT BT,ANYTIME I THINK ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT HAS HAPPENED I JST START HATING HER.I DON'T WANT TO MARRY A WOMAN I DONT LOVE.FRIENDS,YOU CANDID ADVICE WILL BE APPRECIATED PLEASE.THANK YOU