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Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by olibeans: 2:37am On Apr 25, 2022 |
How can you get help when your complaints are so vague..? First, you didn't state your village or state so we don't know your tribe and therefore any suggestions are really not that helpful. Last time I checked, burials are fixed by the bereaved in conjunction with the community, i.e if you're from the East, otherwise you don't count. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by koolaid87: 3:59am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Thread carefully son. Unless you have a real spiritual backup, don't pick a war you can't win. Have a dialogue with them, invite other respected elders for your community and settle things amicably. You no go die before your time oo RIP to your Dad |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by dettolgel: 4:16am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Brownshoe: Guy leave that thing. Since he claimed his father left him inheritance he should sale and use the proceed to run his own voodoo campaign. This life whom ever say you should live will live as well whomever is plotting your downfall should be pushed down no time to be timid and hiding from evil people. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Elidrisy20: 4:33am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Most you wait for them? |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Obiorahpcfg: 5:25am On Apr 25, 2022 |
My dear, am yourself with prayers oh first. Then don't u have martnernal home? If yes, go to them. Since ur kings men and the chief supported you, o boy their own na jara. U can bury ur dad without them. Court case can prolong matters. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by West2019(m): 5:41am On Apr 25, 2022 |
My brother sorry for the lost, some issue like this always happens in same family where is no love and understanding. if you can share some of the property with them it would be fine, You most buried your late Father nobody will stop you for that . How can a group of bloody civilian stop you from giving the last respect to your father, if its Lagos I promise you from the inner of my heart and give you 10 soliders. ,Look for solider in that state you are . if its 3Army fine . don't go to court its a long process. some useless uncle need strong hand . |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by kus4fame(m): 5:42am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Dear op, your father ceased to be the first son the moment he gave in to the demands of death. The former second son becomes the first son. The Isi-Obi that your father occupied is to be vacated by your mother, you and your siblings as the next first son inherits same. This goes on until all your uncles join your father. The raw truth is that you are a grand child and cannot drag anything owned by your grand father with your uncles. At the instance of your father's death, he becomes the last born so that his sons can inherit something if your father treatedjis siblings well when he was in power. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Drdes79: 5:43am On Apr 25, 2022 |
The selfishness your father exhibited to his siblings is practically wrong And you think your father is right. Listen Those property belongs to there father and every child of your grandfather have a right in it but your father confiscated it all due to greed and forget that one day he will die,Today the game is playing.For your own good, Let the elders in the community share the property and let peace rain.Am from same place with you(The East) And I understand the cause of the friction even as a First Son.I can't claim ownership of everything our Father have for no reason. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by paulo220(m): 5:59am On Apr 25, 2022 |
You knew about this situation before Ur father's death? Why will Ur father inherited all the properties and you couldn't talk to him? 2 Likes |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Asquare84(m): 6:14am On Apr 25, 2022 |
TheOldGods: 38 years |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by SmileDance(f): 6:15am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Ejiakusmith:I'm sure he has sisters and also doesn't think they have any right to their fathers properties. OP Is no different from his uncles |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Wannabenz: 6:26am On Apr 25, 2022 |
questionanswer: The properties of your grandfather that was inherited by your father is not yours son. It belongs to the oldest male in that family. But Your fathers properties are yours as the first son plus your brothers too. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Mcreloaded(m): 6:46am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Pk01: You meant Ishan and not Benin. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by alyarmouk(m): 6:57am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Yo have the igwes' backing already....gather youths n police and go bury your dad. Share the property n leave some for them n their kids. Do it fast before dey waste you too. (Nwatakiri n'akalaka na Acho ihe mere nna ya, ihe mere nna ya e me ya) |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by ChybuzzDD(m): 7:31am On Apr 25, 2022 |
questionanswer: Maybe, you no too get money, bros. If you have money, you don't need anyone's permission to bury your own father. Fill the entire street with police, civil defence, army, miscreants, agberos, cultists, UGM, etc on that fateful day. You'll see that those so-called ''supper power'' uncles won't step out of their rooms that day. I don't think anyone can stop me from burying my father, unless it's the government. Every discussion about land or any other property whosoever must be from at least 6 months after the burial. And this is an order, and not negotiable! The dead man must be respected. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:47am On Apr 25, 2022 |
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Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by THEREISGODINHEA: 7:57am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Get yourself prepared for the battle,if possible look for a Man of God to pray with you |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by chatinent: 8:14am On Apr 25, 2022 |
dettolgel: So that after the burial, his will be next? |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Bishopceo: 8:22am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Bro in my own culture your father is dead and if there is any family properties in his care it has to shift to his brother next to him and if all of them died then the grandchildren will share everything please get it right before they kill you be careful on this. 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by arazanbal: 8:54am On Apr 25, 2022 |
even if the late man acquired those properties with his own blood and sweat i.e not herited from his own father?? honestly I don't understand how igbo culture works but in bini's it a taaboo already. when a man dies and has left properties behind his first son automatically hierete those properties without any uncles interfering, now what the the elders of the deceased man will do is to make sure the eldest son shares to his younger siblings (male children mostly before female Children are considered) . but if the man has more than one wife before his death then the properties will be shared amoung the houses (wifes first sons) dough the first wife son is still entired to some advantages JONNYSPUTE: |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by okoroemeka(m): 8:56am On Apr 25, 2022 |
questionanswer:you are moving on dangerous grounds,they will not allow you to do the burial because if you bury your father you have inherited the land traditionally,call your father's brothers to a meeting,they cannot possibly want all the land themselves they just want a share,it must be shared between all of you but you will get the lion share,try and compromise,if you try to force the issue it may backfire,land issue in igboland is better handled with extreme caution and carefulness |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Obynolee(f): 9:06am On Apr 25, 2022 |
questionanswer: What exactly are you going to court to do?,I believe you father has his own house, did they enter your father's house to stop you from burying your father?. Since the kindred and the King are with you,what other support do you need?. How exactly did they stop you from burying your father?. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by luluosas(m): 9:35am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Forget about the English he spoke, he didn't tell you he was from Harvard. So spare him that please. Thank you. higgs: 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by TYCO77: 10:52am On Apr 25, 2022 |
[color=#000099][/color] chatinent: The above statement is true in Igbo tradition, and to add to it if your late father had not shared your grand father's property with his siblings prior to his death then it is unfortunate that you will inherit nothing from your grand father property. The reason been according to Igbo tradition, grand children do not partake nor get anything in the sharing of their grand father' property. Only the immediate male children do inherit their father's property. However, if your uncles are kind, they might allow you get what your late father would have inherited had he been alive. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by drnoel: 11:28am On Apr 25, 2022 |
questionanswer:There is nothing in the Igbo tradition that says the first son gets everything. Besides it seems that the hand your uncles are using for you is the same their brother used for them. Be careful here 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by TheGift: 11:44am On Apr 25, 2022 |
yanabasee: How does the Father being buried or not affect their inheritance or not? Are they expecting the Dead father to rise up and decide in their favor, after all these years? |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by starlingbawa(m): 12:35pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
duduade: PLEASE TAKE THIS ADVISE VERY SERIOUSLY IF YOU DO NOT WISH TO DIE MYSTERIOUSLY!!! Most importantly this is the time more than ever to draw closer to God in fervent praying and fasting... 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by shantti(m): 1:00pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Antyxx: It's not so. They r wrong. Am a first son myself 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by CDCEO001: 3:03pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
yanabasee: I don't know any other better way to say it. I love your reply to this post. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by leofab(f): 1:39am On Apr 27, 2022 |
purejustice36:na only op sabi where dem Dey carry soldier ? Imagine your cousin using soldier to intimidate your father ? 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Blue3k(m): 8:07pm On Apr 29, 2022 |
questionanswer: Update us what did u end up doing? |
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