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A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by Sotland: 9:42pm On Apr 24, 2022
A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my
marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than me.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE

.# Copied#.

This may not be important for those who the devil has marked for destruction. It may look like a fiction story, Yet, there is one or two lessons to learn from it

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Re: A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by TheMensch(m): 10:38pm On Apr 24, 2022
Op you sure say no be you cook up this story??
Where is your source??

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Re: A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by Lalami3232(m): 10:40pm On Apr 24, 2022
Hmmmmm
Re: A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by kelspinall(m): 12:03am On Apr 25, 2022
educative

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Re: A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by Kobojunkie: 12:34am On Apr 25, 2022
Sotland:
SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE

.# Copied#.

This may not be important for those who the devil has marked for destruction. It may look like a fiction story, Yet, there is one or two lessons to learn from it
This story has made several rounds on the internet for some years now with no real trace found of the woman whose story it supposedly is. Can we all agree to give it a rest at this point? undecided

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Re: A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by MrCamron(m): 12:52am On Apr 25, 2022
"Acrimony" kind of.

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Re: A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by Austinbiggy(m): 6:19am On Apr 25, 2022
sorry about that
Re: A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by LoudlyMouthed: 11:06am On Apr 25, 2022
Na today breeze dey blow open fowl yansh?

Shamelessly tweaking ½ Naked on TikTok but can't do lapdans with hsbnd cos of their stupid pride. Meanwhile wants to extort everything from the honest guy becos of the kids.

Lazy, Distrust and Arrogant Fools
Ders no glory in frustrating your husband
Ders no glory in shouting at your husband

Could hv gone to the Lab for A/I to get pregnant by bots with coronavirus in your womb with defective product and maggot eaten womb

Instead they want a hardworking, good, nice, honest..godly guy to f*ck n then dump him afterwards cos they can't ever change!!

Re: A Divorced Single Mother Wrote: by 1000Capacity: 11:10am On Jun 12
This is what women wants. They want men to beg them

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