Hello All,
I am sorry to bother you with my problem, but I am watching my life slip away before my very eyes and it is really pathetic because I apparently have the power to stop it but can't.
I first time I masturbated was in my SS1 about 17 years ago.
I am 31 years old and I have been trying to stop this habit for the last 10 years or so.
Though I have been able to go like 3-4 months clean at different times, I always fall back and relapse
I have never had sex with a woman before and I have never had a serious relationship before too.
I am not really interested in a relationship because I need to fix my life first.
I have a good job as a software developer and I am an introvert, though I am good-looking as I do get compliments from ladies. In fact, two different ladies have asked me out before but I don't really have any interest in them, I tried to love one of them but I ended up ghosting her.
The most painful part of this is that this has cost me my relationship with God as I was born again before I backslid after watching porn and I keep on rising and falling. I have installed porn blockers on my PC and mobile phone (for which I have to pay almost 100 USD subscription per annum) but I will always find a way to get around the porn blocker and watch porn and masturbate. I don't masturbate except I watch porn. Please don't tell me that masturbation is not a sin or anything like that. It is a sin to me and I want to stop it.
I think if I don't stop, it will cost me my job as I am literally struggling to meet up with my job demands though I still get tasks done.
Do you know that one time I watched porn all through the night and masturbated like three times that I wasn't able to go to our office the following morning. I had to lie that I wasn't feeling strong and I worked from home that day.
I am tired my people, please someone should reach out to me. If you know any therapist or anything like that in Abuja that I can talk to please let me know.
Many people admire me and see me as a genius because of my God-given intelligence and brilliancy but I feel so ashamed of myself. I just finished masturbating this morning before coming to work and I am sitting here in my workspace staring at my monitor!!! I am having a brain fog.
I will stop here...
Don't mind my inchorent writings as I am losing my mind.

Bro, your story reminds me of myself . I was once like you but I give God the glory for delivering me from that yoke . Now you may ask how I was able to do it ,but let me be honest with you and tell you that it takes two things to accomplish this : prayer and persistent devotion in the study of God's word(aka the bible ). If you can devote yourself to these two, I can assure you that by the grace of God, your addiction will become a thing of the past.

You can reach me on 08127584659 if you need accountability regarding your commitment. Stay blessed and have a nice day

If you are tired then stop bro
When the thoughts of doing it starts popping up then start thinking of what the after effects of doing it will be. Think of how dirty and depressed you will be after it. Then shout at the top of your voice "I refuse to watch porn and masturbate "
Its your body, its your desire bro, make a decision to quit and work towards it

Well I don't have any experiences regarding these cause I just have natural hatred for the two. But I advice you get a girlfriend.

I was once like you brother. I spent 17 years in that bondage. I graduated with 2.2, made me spent another 11 years before I got a Job. I fasted 21 days, prayed like I will die but nothing happened. I thank God that I met a true man of God that told me the root of the problem. My brother you need someone to deliver you. My own was from my village people, I don't know your source. Till you discover the source only then will you be free. Be careful of fake prophets who will fleece your money. You can call me on 09028696980

Na person wey belleful dey m*sturbate..

This I have seen!

Nyascobar1414:
Na person wey belleful dey m*sturbate..


This I have seen!

Not true .

why do you guys masturbate ?

Jashub:
Not true .

I dont see any need of you watching something that you will never get... I just tire 4 una...

Just get busy, that one of the ways out...
Power to control the mind; and the shii is gone..

Nyascobar1414:


I dont see any need of you watching something that you will never get...
I just tire 4 una...


Just get busy, that one of the ways out...

Power to control the mind; and the shii is gone..

Bro, I know people who are filthy rich and have a busy schedule, yet they struggle with masturbation and pornography. One of my friends complain about how it ruined his marriage , and eventually had to seek counsel from a psychiatrist. Now you may argue about this , but from my experience, masturbation is linked to pornography and it comes as a result of demonic activities

worried222:
Hello All,
I am sorry to bother you with my problem, but I am watching my life slip away before my very eyes and it is really pathetic because I apparently have the power to stop it but can't.
I first time I masturbated was in my SS1 about 17 years ago.
I am 31 years old and I have been trying to stop this habit for the last 10 years or so.
Though I have been able to go like 3-4 months clean at different times, I always fall back and relapse
I have never had sex with a woman before and I have never had a serious relationship before too.
I am not really interested in a relationship because I need to fix my life first.
I have a good job as a software developer and I am an introvert, though I am good-looking as I do get compliments from ladies. In fact, two different ladies have asked me out before but I don't really have any interest in them, I tried to love one of them but I ended up ghosting her.
The most painful part of this is that this has cost me my relationship with God as I was born again before I backslid after watching porn and I keep on rising and falling. I have installed porn blockers on my PC and mobile phone (for which I have to pay almost 100 USD subscription per annum) but I will always find a way to get around the porn blocker and watch porn and masturbate. I don't masturbate except I watch porn. Please don't tell me that masturbation is not a sin or anything like that. It is a sin to me and I want to stop it.
I think if I don't stop, it will cost me my job as I am literally struggling to meet up with my job demands though I still get tasks done.
Do you know that one time I watched porn all through the night and masturbated like three times that I wasn't able to go to our office the following morning. I had to lie that I wasn't feeling strong and I worked from home that day.
I am tired my people, please someone should reach out to me. If you know any therapist or anything like that in Abuja that I can talk to please let me know.
Many people admire me and see me as a genius because of my God-given intelligence and brilliancy but I feel so ashamed of myself. I just finished masturbating this morning before coming to work and I am sitting here in my workspace staring at my monitor!!! I am having a brain fog.
I will stop here...
Don't mind my inchorent writings as I am losing my mind.

Òmó, we plenty for this wanking Whatsapp group oh ... Lemme share mine briefly... Started h'offishally in ss1, 2007 or thereabout (was the first time I saw blue feem), was bou 13 or so.,... Been in the game for 14 yrs+ (not proud of it tho, but hey, ITWII... the addiction heightened severely in yr2, 2015, esp with bb sub 3G for 1K ... Dah shit literally doesn't finish ... I'll stream and beat off from night till daybreak bfr going for lecture ... Even inside hall of residence when niggas dey inside room, would go to one corner to stream it, and then stylishly put my hand inside my shorts and shoot my load on my knickers (it was that bad)..... Even in 2019, I'll go as far as borrowing credit from network providers, just to stream blues, then do vigil till daybreak ,
Sote, preeq go dey ache me.. dayummn.

How did i stop?
Òmó, I don't even know sef, I just realized that the urges to watch it reduced on its own, and like play, started going 1 -2 weeks without it .... Porn dosent interest local man anymore, prolly cuz I've seen all there is to see in all available genres (esp those Brazilian carnaval, dayummn.. dope af )... Now, I'm semi retired. I still shoot porn and jerk off tho, but not like bfr again, na like once in a blue moon if I just feel like... Sometimes, once in 3 weeks sef.. it's not an addiction anymore.

Prayers epped sha, cuz at some point, told sky Daddy to remove that nonsense URGE, that always made me thirst for it, and it kinda worked.... Prayers should def work... And take your fucking mind of that bullshit.... Allah subwanatallah is your muscle.. peace morafoka.

Jashub:
Bro, I know people who are filthy rich and have a busy schedule, yet they struggle with masturbation and pornography. One of my friends complain about how it ruined his marriage , and eventually had to seek counsel from a psychiatrist. Now you may argue about this , but from my experience, masturbation is linked to pornography and it comes as a result of demonic activities

Yea... I get it...
Someone said some of the videos b4 its uploaded in the Internet..some demonic Incantations are made to get people hooked up to the videos...


I think someone that can control the his/her mind can get through porn/mast...

Many have been in your shoe, and they made it out with ease. The journey of a million miles, starts with that bold step.

Quiting porn and masturbation is easy I swear. Just tell yourself that.

Masturbation does no good. It will kill your self esteem and confidence.

Masturbation weakens your spirit and soul. And you know that, the Metaphysical rules over the physical.

The more you give into your flesh, the more your spirit weakens. And your spirit need to be strong in order to achieve your life goals with ease and on time.

I have a simple solution for you;

Go to YouTube and search for these two guys: MarcTheMessenger and Donta Young

They both preach Semen Retention and the benefits of staying away from Masturbation and porn. They were once masturbators and porn addicts but today, they are pulling many men away from Masturbation and Porn addiction.

Watch their videos with interest and dedication. Follow their advices.

They have enormous videos with super content to safe you.

I swear your life will never remain the same. Just give it a try.

I watch their videos every day. My life has never remained the same too.

By the way, I was once an addict too but today, the hatred I have for Porn and Masturbation knows no boundaries.

Konji is stubborn, so the energy you use in masturbation, you gonna need to channel it to something more self beneficial like Exercise, indoor work out, gym. Because, Masturbation utilities your energy and drains it. So, channel the energy to working out.

Don't be lazy bro!

Over all, you gonna need to activate your WILL POWER! very important.

Dis Masturbation matter for NL na wa! OP, Don't give up! Just delete ur porns and tell urself u can quit. Since u have a paying job, why don't u go have a GF? If you start fvcking p*ssy, u won't think of wan.king again!

I am a professional counsellor with specialization in addiction recovery.

You can send me a mail

Jeon:
why do you guys masturbate ?

Basically Biology! The raging hormones, overdevelopment of sperms and heightened sexual urges causes young teenage boys AND GIRLS too to stumble upon masturbation! I dont tink anybody starts masturbates from 22yr and above! It is largely a TEEN CANKERWORM!

Eyahh, receive grace to masturbate No more

Socratiz:
I am a professional counsellor with specialization in addiction recovery.

You can send me a mail

Are you in Abuja?

I really feel yuur pain bro.. The same thing happened to me exactly.. I masturbated for good 16 years and went through hell bro but I thank God that am fighting and still fighting it till now.. I haven't masturbated in over 5 weeks and I feel better and great overall... It's all in your mindset bro... If you need someone to talk to... We can always talk 07012682986... Mine was kinda spiritual so I had to do some things to able to have enough confidence to say no to the habit... I keep reminding myself of the disadvantages and I keep saying no to the thoughts and got a gf when it became so bad and I strongly believe that you can overcome it bro... You really have to develop a very strong resistive mindset... It worked for me... If you want us to talk chat me up... You can do it bro... Trust me... You can overcome this.. No matter how long you might have been in the Bondage..

Kingoflotto:
I really feel your pain bro.. The same thing happened to me exactly.. I masturbated for good 16 years and went through hell bro but I thank God that am fighting and still fighting it till now.. I haven't masturbated in over 5 weeks and I feel better and great overall... It's all in your mindset bro... If you need someone to talk to... We can always talk at 07012682986... Mine was kinda spiritual so I had to do some things to able to have enough confidence to say no to the habit... I keep reminding myself of the disadvantages and I keep saying no to the thoughts and got a gf when it became so bad and I strongly believe that you can overcome it, bro... You really have to develop a very strong resistive mindset... It worked for me... If you want us to talk chat me up... You can do it, bro... Trust me... You can overcome this.. No matter how long you might have been in the Bondage..

Thanks, bro, I will definitely reach out to you

Vinnie2000:
Dis Masturbation matter for NL na wa! OP, Don't give up! Just delete ur porns and tell urself u can quit. Since u have a paying job, why don't u go have a GF? If you start fvcking p*ssy, u won't think of wan.king again!

I know that this might sound funny but the reason why I don't want to have a girlfriend is that I don't want to indulge in pre-marital sex. But then I have been masturbating right? That is why I lose my mind whenever I think over my life. I am really losing my mind!!!

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spuknik:
I was once like you brother. I spent 17 years in that bondage. I graduated with 2.2, made me spent another 11 years before I got a Job. I fasted 21 days, prayed like I will die but nothing happened. I thank God that I met a true man of God that told me the root of the problem. My brother you need someone to deliver you. My own was from my village people, I don't know your source. Till you discover the source only then will you be free. Be careful of fake prophets who will fleece your money. You can call me on 09028696980

Please can you explain more on the village people; how did it happen?

I know of a manual or logic way out to dis problem.if I share it freely people wont value ir.but am ready to share it with people who show seriousness in it.by contacting m

spuknik:
I was once like you brother. I spent 17 years in that bondage. I graduated with 2.2, made me spent another 11 years before I got a Job. I fasted 21 days, prayed like I will die but nothing happened. I thank God that I met a true man of God that told me the root of the problem. My brother you need someone to deliver you. My own was from my village people, I don't know your source. Till you discover the source only then will you be free. Be careful of fake prophets who will fleece your money. You can call me on 09028696980

Brother, I thank GOD for you. You are right , OP needs deliverance because something that one has been doing for 15+ years needs serious attention. The addiction won't go away on its own except he deals with it spiritually

Op, this addiction can be fought. Your victory is near, forget the amount of time spent on it. It has been happening and it will keep happening.

The bible says 'with GOD nothing is impossible' .
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spuknik:
I was once like you brother. I spent 17 years in that bondage. I graduated with 2.2, made me spent another 11 years before I got a Job. I fasted 21 days, prayed like I will die but nothing happened. I thank God that I met a true man of God that told me the root of the problem. My brother you need someone to deliver you. My own was from my village people, I don't know your source. Till you discover the source only then will you be free. Be careful of fake prophets who will fleece your money. You can call me on 09028696980

You people are just using masturbation to lie up and down. My roommate back at the university didn't have a gf from start to finish so he was chronically masturbating whereas I had a gf I always brought to the one room apt we shared and banged her at night, in the dark, in his presence.

We both graduated with 2'1, both got jobs within 2 months after service. Both married. So masturbation isn't the cause of your failures in life

worried222:
Hello All,
I am sorry to bother you with my problem, but I am watching my life slip away before my very eyes and it is really pathetic because I apparently have the power to stop it but can't.
I first time I masturbated was in my SS1 about 17 years ago.
I am 31 years old and I have been trying to stop this habit for the last 10 years or so.
Though I have been able to go like 3-4 months clean at different times, I always fall back and relapse
I have never had sex with a woman before and I have never had a serious relationship before too.
I am not really interested in a relationship because I need to fix my life first.
I have a good job as a software developer and I am an introvert, though I am good-looking as I do get compliments from ladies. In fact, two different ladies have asked me out before but I don't really have any interest in them, I tried to love one of them but I ended up ghosting her.
The most painful part of this is that this has cost me my relationship with God as I was born again before I backslid after watching porn and I keep on rising and falling. I have installed porn blockers on my PC and mobile phone (for which I have to pay almost 100 USD subscription per annum) but I will always find a way to get around the porn blocker and watch porn and masturbate. I don't masturbate except I watch porn. Please don't tell me that masturbation is not a sin or anything like that. It is a sin to me and I want to stop it.
I think if I don't stop, it will cost me my job as I am literally struggling to meet up with my job demands though I still get tasks done.
Do you know that one time I watched porn all through the night and masturbated like three times that I wasn't able to go to our office the following morning. I had to lie that I wasn't feeling strong and I worked from home that day.
I am tired my people, please someone should reach out to me. If you know any therapist or anything like that in Abuja that I can talk to please let me know.
Many people admire me and see me as a genius because of my God-given intelligence and brilliancy but I feel so ashamed of myself. I just finished masturbating this morning before coming to work and I am sitting here in my workspace staring at my monitor!!! I am having a brain fog.
I will stop here...
Don't mind my inchorent writings as I am losing my mind.

Your brain will be the end of you. Sorry to say, but you are driving yourself into a guilt tunnel that will forever tear at your soul and make you the most unworthy person you can think of. If I tell you now that it's all in your head, you won't believe me. Religion has created an unrealistic world for you that will eventually drive you insane. Watch your psychological health, oga. Your mental health. This is more important that whatever it is you are doing. Anyways, na you know.

Having said that. There are lot of introvert software developers around the world who masturbate. It's their thing. Incels and co. Many of them are well-adjusted and have even created billion dollar companies. You, you are still here driving yourself to the ground with your brain. Kwatinue..

Masturbation is healthy. In fact, it is much healthier than having sex itself. One of the best things a man can do to abstain from STDs and to keep his head straight is to masturbate. Same thing applies to a woman. It's a pleasant experience that actually helps your body immesaurably. If you ask a doctor, they will probably tell you that you should masturbate at least 5 times a week. Instead of you guys to follow the scientific evidence and do this, you will be following pastor and church and living in regret because you are doing something very natural. Some of you have no problems sleeping with ashawo o, or with having raw sex and exposing yourself to all forms of dirty diseases. Yet, when it comes to masturbation, you will be regretting and driving yourself insane with your religious calculations. I just pity una.

Learn to love yourself first and foremost.

well, stop seeing masturbation as something really bad only then will you reduce or stop it , also cure that addiction with another alternative... find one of those girls ASAP and bang her brains away..

worried222:
Hello All,
I am sorry to bother you with my problem, but I am watching my life slip away before my very eyes and it is really pathetic because I apparently have the power to stop it but can't.
I first time I masturbated was in my SS1 about 17 years ago.
I am 31 years old and I have been trying to stop this habit for the last 10 years or so.
Though I have been able to go like 3-4 months clean at different times, I always fall back and relapse
I have never had sex with a woman before and I have never had a serious relationship before too.
I am not really interested in a relationship because I need to fix my life first.
I have a good job as a software developer and I am an introvert, though I am good-looking as I do get compliments from ladies. In fact, two different ladies have asked me out before but I don't really have any interest in them, I tried to love one of them but I ended up ghosting her.
The most painful part of this is that this has cost me my relationship with God as I was born again before I backslid after watching porn and I keep on rising and falling. I have installed porn blockers on my PC and mobile phone (for which I have to pay almost 100 USD subscription per annum) but I will always find a way to get around the porn blocker and watch porn and masturbate. I don't masturbate except I watch porn. Please don't tell me that masturbation is not a sin or anything like that. It is a sin to me and I want to stop it.
I think if I don't stop, it will cost me my job as I am literally struggling to meet up with my job demands though I still get tasks done.
Do you know that one time I watched porn all through the night and masturbated like three times that I wasn't able to go to our office the following morning. I had to lie that I wasn't feeling strong and I worked from home that day.
I am tired my people, please someone should reach out to me. If you know any therapist or anything like that in Abuja that I can talk to please let me know.
Many people admire me and see me as a genius because of my God-given intelligence and brilliancy but I feel so ashamed of myself. I just finished masturbating this morning before coming to work and I am sitting here in my workspace staring at my monitor!!! I am having a brain fog.
I will stop here...
Don't mind my inchorent writings as I am losing my mind.

we're in the same condition boss.
same age as you, started masturbating same age too but I was in 200 level then.
till now bro I've still not overcome it.
Also having a rise and fall Christian Life and my career too at stake, no woman in my life, i can't even have sex again due to the damages porn and masturbation wrecked in my body.
May God come to our aid.

Bro I ll advice u to get a relationship. Find some girl not just for sex but to also keep u company so that u take your mind off this.

EngrGeorge:
we're in the same condition boss.
same age as you, started masturbating same age too but I was in 200 level then.
till now bro I've still not overcome it.
Also having a rise and fall Christian Life and my career too at stake, no woman in my life, i can't even have sex again due to the damages porn and masturbation wrecked in my body.
May God come to our aid.

Amen