A critical evaluation of the Black community in America will point to the fact that black love especially between black men and black women is on a downward spiral. There is a very deep chasm between the average black man and the black woman spread over years and years of abuse and neglect culminating in the resultant hate and dissatisfaction between both parties. The reason for this is not far fetched at all.

While we may argue otherwise, women are quite emotional creatures who have a tendency to give as much love as they receive in time. The average african American man is usually emotionally unavailable, raised in homes where there is hostility, they learn to fend for themselves from an early age. They are brought up in a world riddled with strife, racism and dysfunctional relationships and this unsavoury reality affects their psyche. The US educational system states that African American men are the least educated in the demography, very few of them attain college degrees, with the majority turning to lives of drugs and crime. The black community makes up only about 20% of the entire American population but inversely, they account for 50% of the crimes. While this is a bad thing, in their defence, they have been conditioned to think the world is against them and most of them develop an attitude of resistance and spite against the oppressive system, spite and resistance which subconsciously may also be directed at their wives and mothers.

Their romantic relationships are not exempted from this maladjusted subconsciousness. The women in their lives are treated without the care and affection needed to flame any kind of fire and the relationships are bereft of any real commitment, hence we have a lot of them abscounding at the slightest provocation leaving behind a trail of fatherless children and "baby mothers". Infact, an article states that 70% of Black children in the United States grow up without a father figure and more that 63% of black women are raising children with absentee fathers. Besides the emotional unavailablity of the black men to the black women, there is also the issue of domestic violence, increased education of the black girl child and most importantly,Feminism.
Black women are one of the most domestically abused and violated women in the world.
Due to feminism, more interest has been invested in the education of the girl child including the african American girl child, this has resulted in black women having more college degrees than their male counterparts and consequently becoming much more employable and financially independent. A move that has opened the eyes of the African American woman to the years and years of neglect and abuse in the hands of their men and a strong desire for retaliation and possibly compensation.
Hence the tussle between both parties.

The HATE is palpable as more African American men cannot deal with the Arrogance of the average African American woman anymore and are opting for more interracial relationships. Conversely, more African American women cannot condone the sense of irresponsibility, financial instability and volatilty of the african American male and are content with being single and raising their kids alone while making money and hating their men to an alarming degree.
The scourge of feminism is the fuel that has fired the embers of this hostility between both parties for numerous reasons.
While feminism preaches women empowerment, sexual liberation and independence, it makes sure to also make women the percieved victims at the hands of a brutal predator that is man and to enforce a society that robs men of these same privileges and for the black women in America who have had to endure years of abuse, this ideology is the spark needed to start a bon fire.
The system is winning.
Make black men as homeless and jobless as possible
Use the media to voraciously re-sculpt the image of the black family, painting every black man as a potential woman beater, drug lord/junkie, rapist or child molester.
Empower Women on a radical scale
And what do yoy get? A disgruntled, dissatisfied black family and a desire to squash the black unity to it's barest minimum.

In the long run, the strength of the black community is weakened as we have more and more interracial relationships, more fatherless children and strong independent mothers and a demonisation of the black man who has refused to step up and reclaim his glory.
So the African American woman is filled with hate for her black man and the black man is done with her arrogant, insufferable personality.
Feminism and white supremacy wins.

So why is it so hard over here in Africa? Precisely Nigeria for feminism to be as widespread and powerful as it is in the west?
Simple.
Like earlier noted, women will give only as much love as we receive and as much hate as we receive too in the long run and as we know, feminism uses the spite and struggles of women to launch a frontal attack, magnifying it and blowing everything out of proportion till there is blood and teeth everywhere but this is not really applicable to Nigeria because try as much as you can, Nigerian women are generally in love with Nigerian men.
Why?
Nigerian men take their duties as lovers and providers VERY seriously.
Stay with me. I will explain.
Nigerian women are being brought up to understand that they are to be taken care of by their men and men are being trained to know they Should put their woman's needa before their own. Nigerian men value the domestic family and Nigeria boasts a record of having very low incidents of single mothers compared to other countries in the world.
There is so much emphasis in marriage and marital unions, majority of Nigerian Children are raised in homes complete with both a mother and father devoted to giving the best to their kids.

Feminism will lie to you that marriage is a choke hold on a woman's liberty and an oppressive system that must be done away with but it has been proven that Children fare better psychologically in home complete with their mother and father. A proof of this lie is the dwindling rates of marriages in the US and an alarming rise in dysfunctional children and dissatisfied women and men who have biled stored up for absentee fathers, disgruntled mothers and emotionally available spouses.

Nigerian men will spend millions just to woo a woman, pamper and take care of a woman they care about and since most Nigerian men are well educated and hustle oriented, they have no problem being providers. This is not the case with the black male in the US who are mostly unemployed and largely undate-able from the stability and financial point of view, thereby easy for feminism to turn the women against them. A move that will be difficult to orchestrate in Nigeria as many men prefer to cater than be catered for.
Women loved been cared for
Women loved been wooed.
Women loved been pampered.

This is why feminism is a huge hoax. Nigerian men will make a woman very comfortable just because she is pretty and when a woman is loved, it is difficult for her to completely lose interest in her object of affection
Feminism needs more irresponsible men to be able to thrive and since Nigerian men are not irresponsible by a long shot, it is having a hard time convincing the women to be rebellious.
The truth is - Feminism needs you men to be deadbeat fathers, rapists, drug dealers and murderers for it to be successful. It needs the narrative to strive. It needs for you to be a disappointment so it can work on the psyche of the women and ruin the family unit in it's entirety.
wonder why any singular rape case gets blown over the top? With the wanton generalization of every man as a potential rapist? Because the desperation to villianize men is more acute than ever.
Men. There is nothing wrong with loving your woman flawlessly.
There is nothing wrong in training her in school.
Spending recklessly on her and being her able provider and lover.
It is the only reason we still believe in marriage, love and family.
The only reason we still have patriarchy princesses like me ready to defend you anytime feminism rares it's ugly head.
Take all these away and feminism will win in a couple of years and you would have millions of bitter women hating on you and threatening the total dissolution of the black family and in the long run, the destruction of the black race.
White supremacy wins again even in Africa.
Point of the post? Continue being a good man. Don't let feminism cause you to hate women.
That is what the movement wants. That is what it thrives on. HATE.
Only when the Nigerian man starts treating the Nigerian woman with hate will feminism take control and totally becloud every single black Nigerian woman in all 36 states.
You think a few bitter feminists is annoying? Wait till you have millions to deal with.
N/B - Don't cater to entitled women though and most importantly, don't be a SIMP.

Ngozi Janet Akalonu

This long write up because of women, wow women are really taking over.

virginprincess:
This long write up because of women, wow women are really taking over.

Na woman write am

iTroll:

Na woman write am

how sure are you? might be a male hidden under a female moniker.

Long post like Master Thesis.

Real feminism can only work where there's free money and people are heavily taxed.

Abeg summarize anybody wey read am finish

virginprincess:
This long write up because of women, wow women are really taking over.

taking over the kitchen and the other room.

One just got married at 46

Tried but couldn't read this entire sh1t.

I don’t really care how women turn in the future, I just want to live my life seeing beautiful places, listening to good music and minding my business.

Feminism is really just bitter females against men

virginprincess:
how sure are you? might be a male hidden under a female moniker.

Even when she wrote her name under the article, you are still doubting it. Anyway, she is my friend on Facebook, I really know her very well. You can search her name on Facebook and read more of her articles. She is a brilliant woman.

The main reason why feminism Will not work in Nigera is poverty and greed.
In western world, they have low level of unemployment from both males and females.Their women are financially independent that's y they can't take shit from any man cos they can comfortably handle their bills.
Here in Nigeria where poverty level is high, a woman's biggest goal is marriage cos that's where she know she can get free food, medical care and the rest bills. So she don't have option than to tolerate a man. Even here in Nigeria, all our financially independent women are feminist cos they can't take any shit from a man just that their number is very low(i doubt if 5% of their population can comfortably pay all their bills without a man).
In the aspect of greed, a Nigerian woman can be working or doing business that she can comfortably pay her own bills but she Will rather choose to rely on her man's money cos they said a man's own tastes sweeter while her own is bitter. With this kind of mindset how can they achieve feminism. No man on earth can be the one paying ur bills nd u drag shoulder with him.