Kriss216:


This is what you said in your previous thread, and I still stand with you on this.

Its a party, coming to your table to say Hi shouldn't be rocket science even when her father is around, unless you're dating a teenager.

Don't fall for these manipulations from her. Be wise.

Seems most of your friends are not OG. Arranging meeting with your girl behind your back without giving you hints shows they're still growing up. Be careful with them.

Shup up! You are probably someone that has never dated, dishing out foolish advise.
The girl said one of his friends was smoking in their table and the op confirmed it, still yet you are spewing trash. African parents and labelling, who would want to have a smoker (to an African dad, if your friends smokes, u definitely are a smoker ) as a son in-law?
Op better apologize, not because u need to salvage ur half dead relationship but because it is the right thing to do.
I really pity all these nairalanders taking advise from Bleep boys and single motherfuckers on here in the name of redpill, sorry is your name

Sisora:
Try vomit some pills sha. As a lady she doesn't know why you are angry.

Don't beg her instead just try blame that she could have informed you there or called you outside and talk there to make you understand.


Let her know why you are angry and what she could have done in such a situation.

If she no apologize, you may be on a long thing.

See as u fine like twelve half a dozen with a resemblance to the THE GREAT MOTHER of wahan tribe (saya) in the series ARTHDAL CHRONICLES



Back to TOPICS...@OP raise your hand up..(e get why)
U were quick in switching of your phone, which made her unablethe to reach. U are short tempered


but she too has the biggest share of the blame,,,her reasons are genuine but she could have done better, she was been childish and immature

She cant come over because of her reasons, at thesame time, she could have have text or call to acknowledge your presence...

Damn niggar

Slimdan360:

Shup up! You are probably someone that has never dated, dishing out foolish advise.
The girl said one of his friends was smoking in their table and the op confirmed it, still yet you are spewing trash. African parents and labelling, who would want to have a smoker (to an African dad, if your friends smokes, u definitely are a smoker ) as a son in-law?
Op better apologize, not because u need to salvage ur half dead relationship but because it is the right thing to do.
I really pity all these nairalanders taking advise from Bleep boys and single motherfuckers on here in the name of redpill, sorry is your name

leave that Kriss216, na small boy him be...his own na jump on every thread with stupid remarks to label people simp.
we don pass him stage..

KiNg0G:


leave that Kriss216, na small boy him be...his own na jump on every thread with stupid remarks to label people simp.
we don pass him stage..

This thread and your previous thread shows you're not up to 21. Get wisdom while growing up.

Kriss216:

This thread and your previous thread shows you're not up to 21. Get wisdom while growing up.

we don pass your stage...nor worry when you don reach my age.. you go come here to seek from advise from elders

Kriss216:

This thread and your previous thread shows you're not up to 21. Get wisdom while growing up.

.

KiNg0G:

we don pass your stage...nor worry when you don reach my age.. you go come here to seek from advise from elders

Elders wey friends dey set up meeting with em babe?

I rather remain a toddler than to be a foolish elder.

Kriss216:

Elders wey friends dey set up meeting with em babe?

if you get sense and you dey dine with men 24/7 you go understand say them fit call you for any location at any time... normal routine enjoyment.

OGs them know Wetin I dey talk, see down your mama house dey make eba...as for me na my last response to you be this.

Hayee:
K

Anyways Nigerian men don't like good women

Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers

Reasons Redpillers will continue giving them hot hot...

Well the deeds has been done, You know your girl more than anybody advising you what to do on this street...Unblock her on all social media but do not beg her, let the chat flow freely, if she comes around fine, if she doesn't fine...!!

You cannot just invite me to a party where I don't know anybody and ignore my existence, it's a party for God sake and different species of humans should be present without her imaginary father knowing who invited who, her father won't kill her if she had identified with you guys for atleast a minute...

Hayee:

Please who is this baboon na you I dey talk to

Expected of a typical clownish illiterate.

"Mumu go to school"

BigRocky:

Expected of a typical clownish illiterate.

"Mumu go to school"

E pain am
Baboon I don't talk to you mind your fucking business owkay

Waytin be all this long episode for?
I said it before theses folks are too young to be dating, they are not matured enough, they are still children in the eyes of their family members respectively.
Let's let them be.

I know for sure Nairalanders contribute meanifully for other topics/issues. But it is a wrong place to bring your relationship matters to. They will just scatter everything..

My own na be say she no try......Na small children dey play hide and seek relationship.......Like myself,na through the front door I dey pass enter... Whether her parents dey chop bottle or not..I no care


Moreover, walking up to say hi to the op and his guy shouldn't have been a difficult thing for her,no matter how she wor paint am . Even people wey dey lash big and strict men daughters for area self no dey reason like this..

Make una get out abeg

Stallionhorse:
Guy.. She is a loose end.. Dating her doesn't bring out the you in you. And if you have to continue then you have to let go of your friends.. Society has grown pass the whole stigmatization of smokers, right now 90% of Nigerian youths smoke weed.. If her dad has that type if impression then he will never accept you as a son in law.. Move on bro!! Freedom is priceless.. If you marry this type of girl she will control you till you loose your mind.. Use ur upper!! Nobody holy pass no.let them judge you.

@bolded,
You must be high at the time you typed that kind of crap.

KiNg0G:

we don pass your stage...nor worry when you don reach my age.. you go come here to seek from advise from elders

You really fall my hand bro.

Shuuu, why create a thread about this openly when you can just post it in the redpill thread and Pillers will sort you out. Then the manner of your approach to the whole thing is not redpiller-ish at all. What's the first thing about a redpiller, if you still remember? It's that you should be cautious of every manipulation, at all times and maintain your own frame.
It doesn't matter if your friends are smoking or not. If she couldn't come over then why not text you at that venue to tell you or even form a pretext to go to your table and just try to greet generally? It's not rocket science. Her parents won't kill her, would they? So in as much as I think she may be right about her strict Dad, the facts don't lie. She erred. If she can't afford to be seen around you in public, then...go figure mudafucker.

Then, what's up with these friends of yours? She used them to get you to the party, used them to get you to the reconcilation centre (except there was no reconciliation, just her posturing) and I hope she won't use them to lure you to somewhere harmful. You are the man, she couldn't come to your house to sort stuff out and had to go through them again? That's a red flag weakness bro.

Lastly, she didn't apologise or beg or whatever, she just dropped her reason and left. That's classic Manipulation 101. She flipped the script on you and made it seem like you are the crazy, unbalanced nigga. To make it worse, she dropped a reverse psychology bait titled 'for you to block me means you already don't care bla la bla' and bounced off. That's what's called rope-a-dope in redpill psychology. She left a hook dangling in front of you...and it seems a part of you is so eager to grab and swallow that bait. One part of me is happy you didn't swallow it YET. But for how long. She is shit testing you and if you unblock her to apologise ..you have LOST. She would forever use that tactic against you as it's your confirmed weakness.

I can go on and on about subzeroes and subtypes and attendant consequences and all that jazz ..but why go through all that stress. You are a redpiller(at least you claim to be one), now prove it. Not to me or these NL clowns, BUT TO YOURSELF.

Kriss216:


This is what you said in your previous thread, and I still stand with you on this.

Its a party, coming to your table to say Hi shouldn't be rocket science even when her father is around, unless you're dating a teenager.

Don't fall for these manipulations from her. Be wise.

Seems most of your friends are not OG. Arranging meeting with your girl behind your back without giving you hints shows they're still growing up. Be careful with them.

Good view...

I will always share hint of such meeting with my friend, then tell him to act along. It's no snitching, he's my buddy !

OP, give her a second chance. Spill out the pill.

I pray you lose that girl, amen! As you no wan gree get sense.

luminouz:


You really fall my hand bro.

Shuuu, why create a thread about this openly when you can just post it in the redpill thread and Pillers will sort you out. Then the manner of your approach to the whole thing is not redpiller-ish at all. What's the first thing about a redpiller, if you still remember? It's that you should be cautious of every manipulation, at all times and maintain your own frame.
It doesn't matter if your friends are smoking or not. If she couldn't come over then why not text you at that venue to tell you or even form a pretext to go to your table and just try to greet generally? It's not rocket science. Her parents won't kill her, would they? So in as much as I think she may be right about her strict Dad, the facts don't lie. She erred. If she can't afford to be seen around you in public, then...go figure mudafucker.

Then, what's up with these friends of yours? She used them to get you to the party, used them to get you to the reconcilation centre (except there was no reconciliation, just her posturing) and I hope she won't use them to lure you to somewhere harmful. You are the man, she couldn't come to your house to sort stuff out and had to go through them again? That's a red flag weakness bro.

Lastly, she didn't apologise or beg or whatever, she just dropped her reason and left. That's classic Manipulation 101. She flipped the script on you and made it seem like you are the crazy, unbalanced nigga. To make it worse, she dropped a reverse psychology bait titled 'for you to block me means you already don't care bla la bla' and bounced off. That's what's called rope-a-dope in redpill psychology. She left a hook dangling in front of you...and it seems a part of you is so eager to grab and swallow that bait. One part of me is happy you didn't swallow it YET. But for how long. She is shit testing you and if you unblock her to apologise ..you have LOST. She would forever use that tactic against you as it's your confirmed weakness.

I can go on and on about subzeroes and subtypes and attendant consequences and all that jazz ..but why go through all that stress. You are a redpiller(at least you claim to be one), now prove it. Not to me or these NL clowns, BUT TO YOURSELF.

You just dey talk nonsense bros. Redpill ko, orange pill ni. You're one of the reasons this country isn't moving forward with your redpill bullcrap.

Hayee:


Please what is a redpiller doing with girlfriend

Just because we call women out on their bullshit doesn't mean we hate women.

KiNg0G:
https://www.nairaland.com/7105598/girlfriend-ignored-me-party-she#112427323

lalasticlala
Seun

sometimes we need to listen to other side of the stories, I acted rash which I admit and this might be the end of our relationship, i don't care they are several options available. but still she knew I deserve an explanation, but she couldn't reach me because I blocked her on whatsapp and call.... so she spoke with my buddie and they had to set me up on choprite this morning, I thought I was going for a free meal..(normal sponsoring..who dey buy, that kind thing).. instead I went to meet them both there with lots silent tears and squeezed face.

according to her

* Her dad was there, same with some matured relatives of hers, for her cousins birthday


*she noticed one of my homie was Smoking from where we sat.

yes she was right, even though I Don't smoke, they are some guys that just can't move without lighter and you as a friend can't stop them.

*she knew if she came to meet me her dad will get the impression one of us is her guy at that time, because I was the only she invited from outside.. her dad doesn't like smoking and anything that has to do With hoodlism...her sister confirmed it on voice call

She didn't kneel, she didn't beg.. just some tears.. she told me her reasons and walked out on me.

The dead simp in me is telling me to unblock her and probably throw in one or two words, but the pills have been swallowing that had kept her glued to me is telling me...To let go, what will be will be .

even though they are other options, man's getting old..biko help me make a decision.

Next time, don't judge a book by it's cover.

KiNg0G:
https://www.nairaland.com/7105598/girlfriend-ignored-me-party-she#112427323

lalasticlala
Seun

sometimes we need to listen to other side of the stories, I acted rash which I admit and this might be the end of our relationship, i don't care they are several options available. but still she knew I deserve an explanation, but she couldn't reach me because I blocked her on whatsapp and call.... so she spoke with my buddie and they had to set me up on choprite this morning, I thought I was going for a free meal..(normal sponsoring..who dey buy, that kind thing).. instead I went to meet them both there with lots silent tears and squeezed face.

according to her

* Her dad was there, same with some matured relatives of hers, for her cousins birthday


*she noticed one of my homie was Smoking from where we sat.

yes she was right, even though I Don't smoke, they are some guys that just can't move without lighter and you as a friend can't stop them.

*she knew if she came to meet me her dad will get the impression one of us is her guy at that time, because I was the only she invited from outside.. her dad doesn't like smoking and anything that has to do With hoodlism...her sister confirmed it on voice call

She didn't kneel, she didn't beg.. just some tears.. she told me her reasons and walked out on me.

The dead simp in me is telling me to unblock her and probably throw in one or two words, but the pills have been swallowing that had kept her glued to me is telling me...To let go, what will be will be .

even though they are other options, man's getting old..biko help me make a decision.

Oga u r still a simp

Hayee:


E pain am
Baboon I don't talk to you mind your fucking business owkay

Pained?lol
Go educate your illiterate mind and dump brain.

Redpill is my business.
Nairand rogues like u won't tk a swipe at the movement and go Scot-free.

Stallionhorse:
Guy.. She is a loose end.. Dating her doesn't bring out the you in you. And if you have to continue then you have to let go of your friends.. Society has grown pass the whole stigmatization of smokers, right now 90% of Nigerian youths smoke weed.. If her dad has that type if impression then he will never accept you as a son in law.. Move on bro!! Freedom is priceless.. If you marry this type of girl she will control you till you loose your mind.. Use ur upper!! Nobody holy pass no.let them judge you.

According to NBS?

People should be rated by the content of their character but there is a thin line here because sometimes the use of substances like weed, loud, cocaine maybe excluding cigars do affect that character which is to be x-rayed.

In synopsis, everyone should be allowed to hold his views and ideologies , when their isn't in tandem you take your leave.

czarr:
Just because we call women out on their bullshit doesn't mean we hate women.

Big lie redpillers don't need women

BigRocky:


Pained?lol
I will educate my illiterate mother and sisters and dump brain father.

Redpill is my business.
Nairand rogues like my mother and sisters won't tk a swipe at the movement and go Scot-free.

hahaha

I can see

Hayee:
hahaha

I can see

Lol
You don't even know how to go low.
Am BIGROCKY and nobody has ever survived exchanging pleasantries with me on nairaland nobody!loser pro max.

I was raised with love and care+discipline.
I don't insult people's parent (at least not the dead parent of an orphan).

Let's go head to head,am yet to deploy my full arsenal

Yourbager:
BIGROCKY

BigRocky:



Lol
You don't even know how to go low.
Am BIGROCKY and nobody has ever survived exchanging pleasantries with me on nairaland nobody!loser pro max.

I was raised with love and care+discipline.
I don't insult people's parent (at least not the dead parent of an orphan).

Let's go head to head,am yet to deploy my full arsenal

Yourbager:
BIGROCKY

None of my business

I Troll redpillers with the most joy

E even sweet me as you dey reply in pains

Continue to reply ooo na your grandma and generation next

Hayee:
None of my business

I Troll redpillers with the most joy

E even sweet me as you dey reply in pains

Continue to reply ooo na your grandma and generation next

The ikorodu virgin now admitted been a troll
Like u troll for a living
Nal am done with u .
Jobless pussy holder

BIGROCKY no dey tire Sha
Just in case u wanna ride

Bitch

BigRocky:


The ikorodu virgin now admitted been a troll
Like u troll for a living
Nal am done with u .
Jobless pussy holder

BIGROCKY no dey tire Sha
Just in case u wanna ride

Bitch

I'm rolling on the floor

E pain baba

Anyways Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers

Hayee:
I'm rolling on the floor

E pain baba

Anyways Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers

Nothing lack of gud dicking will not cause lol .

Get a man to fu*ck you real good and watch ur depressed self happy again.

BIGROCKY u too get bad mouth self