Are you one of the very rare species of men out there that want to treat their wives right? Do you want to cherish, love, and treat her like a queen?
If so, the article below is for you.
Below are five things you can do to show that you truly cherish your wife.

1.Listen to her.
This is the first step to cherishing your wife. Listen to both what she is saying, what she is not saying, and what she is implying. You can only cherish and make her happy if you listen to her and pay attention to her wants and needs.
Also, when listening to her, really listen. Don’t interrupt, don’t dismiss her, listen to her concerns and fears. Don’t be in a hurry to proffer solutions. Most times, all she needs is a listening hear. At times she is really crying for help be attentive and act accordingly.

2.Understand her love language
Gary Chapman, in his book “The 5 Love Languages,” among others, mentioned that there are five ways everyone yearns to be loved. These five ways are referred to as the “5 love languages” and they are quality time, physical touch, gifts, acts of service, and words of affirmation.
Everyone responds to at least one of these love languages.
So think about it: which love language does your wife speak?
Is she the type that wants you to spend quality time with her? That believes in being together and receiving your undivided attention?
Or is she one of those who enjoys being touched affectionately, being kissed, being held?
Perhaps she enjoys it when you do things for her. Things like washing the plate, cleaning the house, or cooking for her and probably her kids.
For some, it’s gifts; that is, those who believe that receiving thoughtful, albeit sometimes cheap, gifts is a way of expressing love.
Maybe she’s the type that revels in hearing words like “I love you,” “I miss you,” and other sweet and meaningful words like that.
The onus is on you, as the husband, to identify her love language and speak it. A lot!

3. Inquire about her day.
Never let a day pass by without inquiring how her day went. This should be done whether she’s a stay-at-home mom or not. Before you go into the details of how you spent your day-how your boss was on your neck and how you spent hours in traffic on your way home-find out about her day first. Let her express herself. This tells her that she’s cherished, respected, and loved.


A husband that cherishes his wife will look for ways to assist her develop herself financially, professionally and personally

4. Take an active role in her personal, financial, and professional development.
More often than not, your wife has given up a dream or two in order to become your wife and the mother of your kids. Why not reciprocate by taking time out to see that she is making progress too in her life?
Is there a course that will help her in her chosen career? Why not assist her to enroll for it? Is there a grant or information that could help her in her business? Can you dig it up and share the information with her? Or perhaps you can as well give her money to establish a business or expand an already existing one.

5. Surprise her
Have you ever met a woman who hates a pleasant surprise?
I am yet to meet any. It is one way to show her that you really cherish her. So occasionally take her out to eat at her favorite meal, at her favorite restaurant. Throw her a surprise party. Plan a surprise get-away weekend. All these are things that will tell her that you cherish and love her.

In all, no one walks up to a lady and says, “Hey! I want to spend the rest of my life maltreating you. ” We all promised to make them happy forever. Let’s keep our word, guys.
Source:
https://carvedapples.ng/2022/04/18/5-things-every-man-can-do-to-cherish-his-wife/

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