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'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Znation(m): 11:33am On May 05, 2022
Hello nairalanders;

Sometimes, i wonder why we tend to compare our exes with our partner in a relationship. We're fund of doing this, even when we know it's not good.

Mostly, men does this more in a relationship. I think we should understand that 'A and B' are two different letters, & are not thesame. Same also applies to our exes and our current partner, as they're also different in the way they do things or think.

We should learn to love our partner for whom they are and not compare them with others. Some person we be comparing their partner with their friends wife or friends boyfriend/girlfriend. And this is what is ending most relationship in our time.

Imagine your partner telling you words like;

* i wish you were more like my ex.
* i love my ex more than the way i love u,
* i prefer to go back with my ex than being with you, and lots more.

Note, that this things makes your partner worthless, they starts to see themself as not the right person for you, and they won't feel being loved

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Nyascobar1414: 11:35am On May 05, 2022
Problems for men that wanna marry non Virgins...
Na so she go dey compare everything...

Simps shall taste the cold hands of b!shes..

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Porngirl(f): 11:39am On May 05, 2022
If you talk about this, i will tell you that all men are useless. That's how my boyfriend will be telling me, my ex was this, my ex was that, my ex bla bla.. And it makes me worthless.

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Ladymogana(f): 11:45am On May 05, 2022
I can't remember how many times i cried because of this. Imagine my then boyfriend telling me i'm in no level compared with his ex. Oh my God!

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by virginprincess(f): 11:52am On May 05, 2022
Wahala for people were no get ex,but honesty some people are just too senseless,if you know your ex was that good then why did you leave him/her.

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Radionigeria: 11:54am On May 05, 2022
I've done that to my love, and i always regret it later. She's my world and shouldn't be compared, but when ever i'm angry, i say a lot.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Maryjane11: 12:02pm On May 05, 2022
My partner will use his ex pictures as screen saver and i keep asking myself, what am i doing in this relationship. This is just men for you, they don't know which one is better for them.

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Thestormisover: 12:13pm On May 05, 2022
This is very bad, and anybody that does that is a fool. That is how a woman was shouting at his husband in a public gathering to look at how other men are treating their wifes, and was calling him a lazy man. Even though it was not me, i was very embarrased.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:23pm On May 05, 2022
It is rather selfish and inhumane to drag anyone into your cage , a past you aren't ready to let go is your cage.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Abc125: 12:24pm On May 05, 2022
Well said. This the problem of most persons today. I see no reason why someone will be comparing his or her ex in a relationship. It shows you don't love your partner.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by fikayormi(m): 12:25pm On May 05, 2022
How far Znation about that your issues with your gf mom , how una take resolve the issue ? Make una update us ?

Omo if my gf dare compare me to her ex , make she dey follow am go nio?

Since she sabi say e better than me then why leave him in the first place

Omo I no dey take nonsense as I can’t compare her with my exes either

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Abc125: 12:27pm On May 05, 2022
Porngirl:
If you talk about this, i will tell you that all men are useless. That's how my boyfriend will be telling me, my ex was this, my ex was that, my ex bla bla.. And it makes me worthless.
and you are a useless woman. Why won't they compare you when all you thinks about is porn, idiot...
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Abc125: 12:31pm On May 05, 2022
Maryjane11:
My partner will use his ex pictures as screen saver and i keep asking myself, what am i doing in this relationship. This is just men for you, they don't know which one is better for them.
shocked shocked shocked
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Lionking4321: 12:38pm On May 05, 2022
When you as a man go marry girl when don date yahoo boy finish, waiting you dey expect. cheesy cheesy

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Lionking4321: 12:41pm On May 05, 2022
Persephone1:
It is rather selfish and inhumane to drag anyone into your cage , a past you aren't ready to let go is your cage.
sometimes, there's a need to do so.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:42pm On May 05, 2022
Lionking4321:
sometimes, there's a need to do so.
Explain.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Pnorh(f): 12:43pm On May 05, 2022
Why date him/her then??,... Abi you guys didn’t pass through talking stage??
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Candiladymylove: 12:52pm On May 05, 2022
You go Mr. A party, and they served you rice with meat. The next day, you go Mr. B party only for them to serve you rice without meat. How you go feel, you go compare them abi you no go compare them?
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Lionking4321: 12:58pm On May 05, 2022
Persephone1:
Explain.
what if your're that person that love sex very well, and you ex always give it to you anytime anyday. And then, your new partner is someone who dosn't even want to hear the word sex. What will you do?
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Lionking4321: 1:01pm On May 05, 2022
Candiladymylove:
You go Mr. A party, and they served you rice with meat. The next day, you go Mr. B party only for them to serve you rice without meat. How you go feel, you go compare them abi you no go compare them?
Bad guy grin grin definately, you will remember Mr. A
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Lionking4321: 1:05pm On May 05, 2022
Porngirl:
If you talk about this, i will tell you that all men are useless. That's how my boyfriend will be telling me, my ex was this, my ex was that, my ex bla bla.. And it makes me worthless.
are you not worthless before. cheesy
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:07pm On May 05, 2022
your exes are life experiences and as much as its a different r/ship, there is nothing wrong with comparing your present r/ship with the past ones.... what you certainly shouldnt do, is talk about your exes all day long and saying how better they were bla bla bla.

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Notyourtype: 1:11pm On May 05, 2022
I don't think it is okay, because people are different in their own way. I wouldn't do that, but most people does it.

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Notyourtype: 1:14pm On May 05, 2022
Candiladymylove:
You go Mr. A party, and they served you rice with meat. The next day, you go Mr. B party only for them to serve you rice without meat. How you go feel, you go compare them abi you no go compare them?
taah!! shut up.

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:23pm On May 05, 2022
First off sir OP...
The issue of comparing your present lover with your past lover is not a gender thing, both men and women do it undecided....

Secondly...
If your partner is always comparing you with his/her past lover, please dump that person immediately, cause you can never be good enough in the eyes of a person who compares you with other people, don't bother trying! undecided....

Thirdly...
If you're fond of comparing your lovers, you need help, please kindly go to the psychiatrist and have your head checked undecided....

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Fakealart930: 1:23pm On May 05, 2022
If i no compare them, waiting i gain. Beside, i still love my ex more than my current love now. I'm looking for tips on how to get my ex back.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:24pm On May 05, 2022
Lionking4321:
what if your're that person that love sex very well, and you ex always give it to you anytime anyday. And then, your new partner is someone who dosn't even want to hear the word sex. What will you do?
You love sex, that's a fact to be established to your partner without necessarily involving an ex. It's that simple, you don't compare people. It kills one's self esteem.

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Dagger111(m): 1:24pm On May 05, 2022
Ladymogana:
I can't remember how many times i cried because of this. Imagine my then boyfriend telling me i'm in no level compared with his ex. Oh my God!

Them go don yansh u tire... sorry, i understand your pains.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Notyourtype: 1:31pm On May 05, 2022
Favfables1:
First off sir OP...
The issue of comparing your present lover with your past lover is not a gender thing, both men and women do it undecided....

Secondly...
If your partner is always comparing you with his/her past lover, please dump that person immediately, cause you can never be good enough in the eyes of a person who compares you with other people, don't bother trying! undecided....

Thirdly...
If you're fond of comparing your lovers, you need help, please kindly go to the psychiatrist and have your head checked undecided....
Gbamm!!!

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Choilila: 1:53pm On May 05, 2022
I advice you to stay away from such person[s] that likes to compair individuals to another. Its a setback and can kill you emotionally and results to mentally issues.

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Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Merlinseason7: 2:12pm On May 05, 2022
I wish my love was a nairalander to just read this topic. This is just the problem i'm facing now.
Re: 'is It Okay Comparing Your Exes With Your Current Partner In A Relationship? by Merlinseason7: 2:16pm On May 05, 2022
Porngirl:
If you talk about this, i will tell you that all men are useless. That's how my boyfriend will be telling me, my ex was this, my ex was that, my ex bla bla.. And it makes me worthless.
sorry dear..

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