We have all met girls expressing their frustration about how guys used and dump them. How they got served "breakfast". The way they spoke about their ex. Their ex-demon boyfriend. The Yoruba demon.

You go on social media, you see girls posting "I have given up on relationship", "Men are scum", "Relationship is bitter", "I have seen hell in my relationships", "Men only want sex"

Some of them are even publicly lesbian using the same excuse why they hate guys.

But my recent experience made me understand that guys are not at fault.

My experience

I exchanged contact with this babe at a party and we got talking. We got really close. She told me she has given up on relationships. She was abused in the last relationship, cheated on and the guy is stingy. The guy prefer to go and spend money on other girls. Finally, the guy impregnated another ugly girl down the street and they got married thereafter. She even show me her pix which made me agreed she is really ugly. She is not a sex person. She likes to keep her body. blahblah

She told me she does not want to go into a relationship again. Men have shown her hell. She has experienced so many heartbreak. If anyone breaks her heart now, she will just kill herself. Its too much for her.

I didnt totally buy her stories, but (let me not lie) I criticize her ex for mistreating a kind lady. She is an epitome of beauty. I wonder why a guy will dump this babe for that ugly thing. I later learned my lesson. She agreed to date me. Then the following happened

1. When we got going, she always tell me everyday that there are thousands of guys on whatsapp chat disturbing her. She will be online not chatting/ignoring me until I say Hi to her.

2. She will screenshot jokes/chat she had with other guys and post on whatsapp status. Even their voice gist's. Somehow, I feel left out. I used to wonder if we are dating at all. There was one she posted that really pissed me off. She posted "Kunle you dey burst my brain right now...don't worry I am coming to Ibadan next week to show you pepper". She always post other guys photos on their birthday. She never posted mine.

3. She is always billing me, in the space of 1 week, I nearly spent 100k due to different demands. The following week I asked her to used her money. I told her I was broke. That week, our chats were just "hi, how are you".


We do video calls at night. This particular evening, she claimed there is no light. She lives alone in her rented apartment. I insisted she should use touch light. She refused, went offline. She later came back online, I still chatted her and insisted I see her on video chat. After like one hour, she came back online, accepted my video call, but i noticed her response, whenever I say "I love you, she won't respond back" and she was always looking away as if someone was in the room with her. I challenged her, she said she is observing its like a cockroach is on the wall.

When she is laughing with me she will look away towards the cockroach briefly. I told her to shift the camera towards that wall. She refused, but when I gave her a fight, she look straight towards the cockroach and I heard the door of her room opened and closed. the she turned her camera to the wall. She said it seems the cockroach escaped.

I told her at that point that it was human and a guy. I was tired of her dramas already. I just called it off right their. She has been begging me telling I am hurting her.

Guys, be wise...girls claim victim. And they have used victimhood to perpetrate so many evils. When it comes to infidelity, you can't compete with these girls. Don't be deceived. See attached screenshot for the rest of the story

Spot on

This days in relationship
To get better person its a combination of prayer and fasting with a touch of waiting(Patience).

Nobody wants to play the fool. But two people that have sense at the same time cannot be in a relationship

Medianna:
This days in relationship
To get better person its a combination of prayer and fasting with a touch of waiting(Patience).

Nobody wants to play the fool. But two people that have sense at the same time cannot be in a relationship

Girls are the one turning relationship to scam jare.

Some of them will think that they are too smart, but at the long run they end up fooling them selves.

Some of them will think that they are too smart, but at the long run they end up fooling them selves.

The ex who married the ugly babe could be the cockroach on the wall.

Omo. Its both genders

proxillin:


Girls are the one turning relationship to scam jare.

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The problem with men is, when they meet a lady, they’d want to own her immediately.

You cannot and can never own a woman. There will always be cockroaches on her wall. Know this and know peace

It is touching

czarr:
The ex who married the ugly babe could be the cockroach on the wall.

No. I dont think so..its definitely another guy from the thousands whatsapp chat list.

kenn4rill:
Some of them will think that they are too smart, but at the long run they end up fooling them selves.

that victim they claim is what annoys me..

proxillin:


that victim they claim is what annoys me..

So you just discovered recently that women's Exs are not demons but rather the ladies are just a bunch of disloyal girls..
Jokes on you for not discovering this on time..

Na Mumu dey believe Women.. I can never believe a woman over a man.. Never..

When a girl has so much male friends one of them must be eating her cookie. @Op, the babe is a cheat that's all.

Now u know why the ex ran for his dear life. She's going to paint u bad before the next victim and on and on it goes till one foolish and unfortunate simp will put a ring on her finger and probably raise different bastards.. it's a crazy game these hoes play

Let's girls that love you come to you or that relationship is DOA

The billing part tho. How do y'all condone these scammers?

Whenever I wanna start something with a girl I make it absolutely clear that I don't take kindly to financial demands and yes she can keep her cookie too. If it works for her, fine if not, let's hit the road

It's the 100k in a week for me bruh, thank God you've broken things off. Communication is very important in relationships, but once you start sensing foul play, most times your intuition is spot on.

Persephone1:
Your story goes both ways, Men tell lies about the ex's. The ladies are either not loyal, like money or devil's. Only few will accept their wrongs. It's humane!

You dont see men on twitter and instagram saying "women are scum" "i give up on relationship", "women turned me to lesbian" "women are all the same "

this is the victimhood bulshiitt i just raised..its not both ways

You know I was looking for a hoe.
Found a hoe..
And the hoe ended up being a hoe!

Carcholce:
The problem with men is, when they meet a lady, they’d want to own her immediately.

You cannot and can never own a woman. There will always be cockroaches on her wall. Know this and know peace

You can actually ,when age don catch them
Na them go dey beg you for your ownership,when bobbi don fall hahah

Persephone1:
I've seen thousands of anti women posts on social media. You see words like "Hoes, bitches, bleeding gender, who're, don't trust women, Nigerian women are leeches" golddigger etc . Just to name few! Oh Nairaland breeds such derogatory words and phrases too often to be unnoticed. Only one with selective blindness would argue that!

I am not refering to gender attacks...

im refering to a gender claiming all her bad attitudes is as a result of what all men did to her...

SeaTrade:
You can actually ,when age don catch them
Na them go dey beg you for your ownership,when bobbi don fall hahah

Lol. My hunt for fresh bobbi since this year has cost me a lot. Where did all the fresh Bobbi go?

Carcholce:


Lol. My hunt for fresh bobbi since this year has cost me a lot. Where did all the fresh Bobbi go?

Has been out of stock since November oo,na so so the one weh dey cold person for body full town since.

SeaTrade:
Has been out of stock since November oo,na so so the one weh dey cold person for body full town since.

We all need to send a formal letter to God that something so precious He created for MANkind to flourish has gone out of stock. This is sad mehn.

Bro u saw the sign that she is a bitch , but u chose to ignore it. Now let me ask u.which reasonable, respectful, well cultured or a matured girl will always post the naughty or even silly conversations she is having with other guys on her status?that alone shows she doesn't love or even respect u.

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To be honest, I am of the opinion that all she did to you is what made her ex do that to her.

She just likes to play victim so as to lure guys to her and you just happened to fall it, but I'm so happy that you have been able to leave her, that's the best thing you could have done.

I'm so proud of you!

proxillin:


that victim they claim is what annoys me..

Swallow the redpill and such stuffs won't bother you again.

Women are always saints and their exes always demons.

Which you will find out later that its total bullshiit