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Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by Shank909: 9:09pm On May 26, 2022
You are thinking like a toddler. when you get married let's see if you will stick to your wife alone for the rest of your life.
Albertone:


See the trash a 35 year old man is typing.
Can you allow your own wife to keep boyfriends?

I guess God is using your size to curb you.
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by Originalsly: 11:51pm On May 26, 2022
Shank909:


I love swimming, I find it hard to wear shorts or strip to my panties in public pool or beach


Hmmmm .... is it that small that you have to wear panties?? Chaii!

Bro... as I see it... you always be watching and sizing other guys dicks. You need to stop. Dicks can be the same length when erect.... but vary a lot when flaccid. What matters is the size when erect... and of yours is average you shouldn't worry. Try enlarging it.... just don't be back here asking how to get a large dick erect.
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by Albertone(m): 12:01am On May 27, 2022
Shank909:
You are thinking like a toddler. when you get married let's see if you will stick to your wife alone for the rest of your life.

Don't ignore my question.
Can you allow your wife to keep boyfriends?
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by Shank909: 11:49am On May 27, 2022
Your question is irrelevant...Only a foolish wife that has nothing at stake would keep boyfriends just because her husband is keeping girlfriends.
Albertone:


Don't ignore my question.
Can you allow your wife to keep boyfriends?
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by Albertone(m): 2:29pm On May 27, 2022
Shank909:
Your question is irrelevant...Only a foolish wife that has nothing at stake would keep boyfriends just because her husband is keeping girlfriends.

So it means you're foolish and have nothing at stake also, that is why you're keeping girlfriends?

Sha don't take her abroad.She will humble you after collecting all your hard earned sweat.
It is in Nigeria you can have the privilege of cheating your wife.
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by ToniBlaize: 10:49am On Jun 14, 2022
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by ToniBlaize: 10:53am On Jun 14, 2022
Shank909:
Hi Everyone, I know this topic might appear reasonable to some people and some people might think it's nothing to worry about but I want you all to remember the adage that says he who wears the shoes know where it pinches. I know there are one thousand and one problems in the world to worry about than dick sizes but my people it is actually something to worry about too. I am in my mid 30s and married with kids. No gain saying, I'm a very cute guy to the extent that people tell me almost everyday, I'm tall and slim. I'm kind and full of positive vibes, I'm well doing as well I almost got it all but I keep wondering why having a small dick should be my portion I guess it's actually true about the saying that no one has got it all but I swear if there is one thing I would love to change about me is my dick size. I have two opinions about my dick it is average when hard but looks like that of a toddler when flaccid. It's about 3.5inch when it's flaccid and about 6.5 when hard which seem a bit long but slim. To me, I know my dick is small but to many ladies they kept saying it's average and its cool. I never had a girlfriend leave me because of my dick size in fact all my exes never let go totally they keep coming back, one even told me she prefers medium sized dick like mine because it is easy for her to f**k anyday anytime without feeling pains unlike big dicks. She might be telling the truth but my instincts would not agree.

Although, almost all my girlfriends always complained that my doggy is bad and always affect their belly, my wife can't even give me doggy style at all she complains all the time and begged me not to go all in. Well, I think my dick is a bit long but I don't like the fact that it is slim and get more angry and worried when it's flaccid. I'm grateful to God that my wife is not sex freak and I'm kinda sure my size is okay for her. I have tried different type of dick enlargement treatment but I realized all are fake and no enlargement works unless surgery which I might still consider in future. I feel insecure with my size that going to the swimming pool is a problem for me even though I love swimming, I find it hard to wear shorts or strip to my panties in public(pool or beach or even with friends) which I noticed most of my friends who have big dicks do normally. Whenever my friends or younger brothers come to my house for holiday I don't let them wear shorts or something that will reveal their dick size and I used the kids as an excuse. I and one of my friends traveled out of the country and stayed at an apartment for 3 months and I was either wearing a trouser to bed or wear a big short just so my friend will not notice my dick size meanwhile this my friend likes nudity any small privacy he wants to put off trousers. There was a time he asked me why I like to wear clothes to bed but I told him its because of cold.

The reason why I feel depressed is that I think I'm losing self confidence in myself even though I'm doing well in every other aspect, my look and achievement used to bring pretty ladies my way and whenever any lady is flirting with me I would just be thinking inside of me that "is it with your small dick that you want to f**k this one. Some of my wife's single friends flirted with me a lot but whenever I remember my small size I will just friend zone them cuz I don't want any embarrassment for my wife and myself. To make matter worse my type of ladies are the thick ones especially one with a big ass isn't that weird? But one thing that gives me confidence is that I sure know how to make good use of my dick but then it would be better if bigger.

Please nairalanders, how do I overcome this problem and social media made it worse with their advocate for big dick and make it seem like all women like it big and you are at a risk of being cheated on if you have a small dick. Even though I trust my wife to a very large extent and we live in peace and harmony I still can't stop thinking she might want to experience a bigger dick if she had a chance to.


The problem is more pyschological than physical.. I have been there.. and honestly the mind has a way of tricking us into thinking stuffs.. another thing could be the myth in porn.. 6.5 is perfect and big enough.. just know how to use it... Some people have big dick 9-12.. and they can't even use it.. erection will be falling in and out like mood swings.. they can't even do shii... I was obsessed with this same thing for years tho.. until i realised there was nothing wrong with my size..the problem was more in my head... And to further confirm someone once left a guy with about 9.5inxh-10issh cause she couldn't just take it.... Warrass I'm just around 6.8-7... and she couldn't just stop stressing how okay it was for her.. infact for the first time in her life... She actually enjoyed sex.. since I was her 2nd.. and for the look when flaccid.. its normal.. not Everyone is meant to have a bold looking di#k when flaccid.. read up more these.. there's a term such cases are referred to "growers"... When flaccid you did think it's less than 4inch until it's erect.. it's pretty normal.. most people often have these issues due to porn addiction and internet myth.. and when obsessed over it... You could pyschological let it mess up ur sex life unconsciously.... Having anything 6.5 is very okay... Even 4.5 works too.. just know how to use it well.. it's a no brainer having 12inch and can't use it well.. and also don't just rely on dick games and strokes.. be creative in bed.. there many ways to satisfy a woman...try and tap in to at least 2-3 different ways per session... Except you ain't pleasing your partner enough... But if you are..then you will realise the more she's satisfied the less worried you will be of your di#k size.... With ur physical attributes trust me.. there re many ladies that won't even mind if it's 5"... Every lady does have what draws them to their man.. sex is very important too... But doesn't necessarily take the front seat... And also don't allow girls who their whole life been collecting different things make you feel less of yourself.... That's their problem not yours.
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by EmiDon11: 11:48am On Jun 14, 2022
Mtchewww.
I only came here to see 3.5 inch when hard and 1.5 when flaccid.
Only to be disappointed

Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jun 14, 2022
Felimax:
Don't go and live your life! Continue reasoning like a 15 years old boy inside a 30 years body.

No wait, soon that thing of yours will be more and more less efficient.
I swear I can't believe a 35+ year old typed this. Even some 15 year olds will do better. I used to tell people that the fact that someone has money doesn't mean he has brains or intelligent. People think once someone is wealthy then they must always have something witty to say. Some homeless people are more knowledgeable than this so called rich men. These days any asshole can make money thanks to yahoo, fraud and corruption.

I am in my mid twenties I have same penis size as you but there are more pressing issues of life I have to worry about than mere "dick size" . Anyways na who don chop bellefull dey worry about colour of the pain of e house undecided
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by luvyaself95(m): 6:48am On May 09, 2023
Stargurl20:
I wanted to give an advice until I get to a place where you stated"some of my wife's single friends flirted with me and I think is it my tiny d**k I will use to f**k them" my question is, if you didn't have tiny d**k, would you have f**led your wife's friend?
Chai, now I see why God places some of us in certain situations, because he knew we would have misused certain privileges. I'm not here to judge you. I understand that as a man, you would surely taste other p*ssies which being married can never stop. That's just the reality. However, you should have a class and respect your wife's feelings and emotions by doing it far away from her.

Anyway, I understand we all gat element of low self esteem in us. Forget about those always lamenting those with low self esteem. We all gat that in us at varying degrees especially when we find ourselves inadequate in certain aspects of our lives. But my uncle, no kill yourself o. I'm not preaching here, but it's a clear cut fact that any form of body modification do not end well in most cases. So, think well before you attempt it since your wife isn't complaining which should be your major concern. Moreover, I've heard it's not about have large size. Having large size without skill on how to handle a woman is more like a torture to a woman. Just like you stated above that your wife isn't a freak. Oga, if you're good at what you do, na madam go dey chase you. Up your games and see how your self esteem will boost like lucozade boost
Aside from what you thought about him on his wife friends.
You too think 6.5 inches ?
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by MechanicMike: 6:49am On May 09, 2023
Shank909:
Hi Everyone, I know this topic might appear reasonable to some people and some people might think it's nothing to worry about but I want you all to remember the adage that says he who wears the shoes know where it pinches. I know there are one thousand and one problems in the world to worry about than dick sizes but my people it is actually something to worry about too. I am in my mid 30s and married with kids. No gain saying, I'm a very cute guy to the extent that people tell me almost everyday, I'm tall and slim. I'm kind and full of positive vibes, I'm well doing as well I almost got it all but I keep wondering why having a small dick should be my portion I guess it's actually true about the saying that no one has got it all but I swear if there is one thing I would love to change about me is my dick size. I have two opinions about my dick it is average when hard but looks like that of a toddler when flaccid. It's about 3.5inch when it's flaccid and about 6.5 when hard which seem a bit long but slim. To me, I know my dick is small but to many ladies they kept saying it's average and its cool. I never had a girlfriend leave me because of my dick size in fact all my exes never let go totally they keep coming back, one even told me she prefers medium sized dick like mine because it is easy for her to f**k anyday anytime without feeling pains unlike big dicks. She might be telling the truth but my instincts would not agree.

Although, almost all my girlfriends always complained that my doggy is bad and always affect their belly, my wife can't even give me doggy style at all she complains all the time and begged me not to go all in. Well, I think my dick is a bit long but I don't like the fact that it is slim and get more angry and worried when it's flaccid. I'm grateful to God that my wife is not sex freak and I'm kinda sure my size is okay for her. I have tried different type of dick enlargement treatment but I realized all are fake and no enlargement works unless surgery which I might still consider in future. I feel insecure with my size that going to the swimming pool is a problem for me even though I love swimming, I find it hard to wear shorts or strip to my panties in public(pool or beach or even with friends) which I noticed most of my friends who have big dicks do normally. Whenever my friends or younger brothers come to my house for holiday I don't let them wear shorts or something that will reveal their dick size and I used the kids as an excuse. I and one of my friends traveled out of the country and stayed at an apartment for 3 months and I was either wearing a trouser to bed or wear a big short just so my friend will not notice my dick size meanwhile this my friend likes nudity any small privacy he wants to put off trousers. There was a time he asked me why I like to wear clothes to bed but I told him its because of cold.

The reason why I feel depressed is that I think I'm losing self confidence in myself even though I'm doing well in every other aspect, my look and achievement used to bring pretty ladies my way and whenever any lady is flirting with me I would just be thinking inside of me that "is it with your small dick that you want to f**k this one. Some of my wife's single friends flirted with me a lot but whenever I remember my small size I will just friend zone them cuz I don't want any embarrassment for my wife and myself. To make matter worse my type of ladies are the thick ones especially one with a big ass isn't that weird? But one thing that gives me confidence is that I sure know how to make good use of my dick but then it would be better if bigger.

Please nairalanders, how do I overcome this problem and social media made it worse with their advocate for big dick and make it seem like all women like it big and you are at a risk of being cheated on if you have a small dick. Even though I trust my wife to a very large extent and we live in peace and harmony I still can't stop thinking she might want to experience a bigger dick if she had a chance to.


angry
Re: Help!!! I Feel Depressed And Insecure Because I Have A Small D*ck. by MechanicMike: 6:52am On May 09, 2023
Shank909:
Hi Everyone, I know this topic might appear reasonable to some people and some people might think it's nothing to worry about but I want you all to remember the adage that says he who wears the shoes know where it pinches. I know there are one thousand and one problems in the world to worry about than dick sizes but my people it is actually something to worry about too. I am in my mid 30s and married with kids. No gain saying, I'm a very cute guy to the extent that people tell me almost everyday, I'm tall and slim. I'm kind and full of positive vibes, I'm well doing as well I almost got it all but I keep wondering why having a small dick should be my portion I guess it's actually true about the saying that no one has got it all but I swear if there is one thing I would love to change about me is my dick size. I have two opinions about my dick it is average when hard but looks like that of a toddler when flaccid. It's about 3.5inch when it's flaccid and about 6.5 when hard which seem a bit long but slim. To me, I know my dick is small but to many ladies they kept saying it's average and its cool. I never had a girlfriend leave me because of my dick size in fact all my exes never let go totally they keep coming back, one even told me she prefers medium sized dick like mine because it is easy for her to f**k anyday anytime without feeling pains unlike big dicks. She might be telling the truth but my instincts would not agree.

Although, almost all my girlfriends always complained that my doggy is bad and always affect their belly, my wife can't even give me doggy style at all she complains all the time and begged me not to go all in. Well, I think my dick is a bit long but I don't like the fact that it is slim and get more angry and worried when it's flaccid. I'm grateful to God that my wife is not sex freak and I'm kinda sure my size is okay for her. I have tried different type of dick enlargement treatment but I realized all are fake and no enlargement works unless surgery which I might still consider in future. I feel insecure with my size that going to the swimming pool is a problem for me even though I love swimming, I find it hard to wear shorts or strip to my panties in public(pool or beach or even with friends) which I noticed most of my friends who have big dicks do normally. Whenever my friends or younger brothers come to my house for holiday I don't let them wear shorts or something that will reveal their dick size and I used the kids as an excuse. I and one of my friends traveled out of the country and stayed at an apartment for 3 months and I was either wearing a trouser to bed or wear a big short just so my friend will not notice my dick size meanwhile this my friend likes nudity any small privacy he wants to put off trousers. There was a time he asked me why I like to wear clothes to bed but I told him its because of cold.

The reason why I feel depressed is that I think I'm losing self confidence in myself even though I'm doing well in every other aspect, my look and achievement used to bring pretty ladies my way and whenever any lady is flirting with me I would just be thinking inside of me that "is it with your small dick that you want to f**k this one. Some of my wife's single friends flirted with me a lot but whenever I remember my small size I will just friend zone them cuz I don't want any embarrassment for my wife and myself. To make matter worse my type of ladies are the thick ones especially one with a big ass isn't that weird? But one thing that gives me confidence is that I sure know how to make good use of my dick but then it would be better if bigger.

Please nairalanders, how do I overcome this problem and social media made it worse with their advocate for big dick and make it seem like all women like it big and you are at a risk of being cheated on if you have a small dick. Even though I trust my wife to a very large extent and we live in peace and harmony I still can't stop thinking she might want to experience a bigger dick if she had a chance to.


juss stick Yor priiiiik between 2 toilet roll sir...it usually work!(no offenscce) angry

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