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Don't kill yourself with unnecessary thoughts, if truly u trust her, let it be, dont ask about it again.
If she az sumthn 2 tell u, she will.

OP: dnt kill ya sef wid thinking ooo cos nd moreover y are u so disturbed wen u have caught her doing something contrary

190:

as long as the sex is still there, you shouldnt complain

BTW nitrogen did you see my GUN

190:

as long as the sex is still there, you shouldnt complain

BTW nitrogen did you see my GUN

The stress men go through.
What if you up your game.Perhaps there's something she sees in the other guy that you lack?

Hmmm

Promising suicide,

Nl's romance section 'f' newbies Rite of Passage!

Time is money. Money is a necessary evil.

The time you use to bother about rubbish, people use that time to make money. Go figure

If your partner is acting up, why not channel your energy to your own development. Except of course your father is Dangote, Babagida or Abacha. If not, ask those ones they would tell you the mountains they crossed to get to where they are. There is time for everything.

How come people don't know how to let go. If you can't say it, write it. If you are stressing yourself on your well being, that's worth it but on other peoples headache, you are likely to die wretched.

op
have u ever taken drugs b4 in ur life

iice:

She loves me. She's seeing someone else
I trust her. I'm suspicious.

Human beings!

Are baffling!
Why do we always go back and forth,and back and forth?
Why can't we figure out what we want and stick with it?
Why can't everybody be honest with everybody else?

OP,if you're still feeling suspicious,then TELL her point-blank. Don't act like everything's alright when you're seething inside.
Why should your girl be "obsessed" with someone else when she's dating you?

Ask her to be honest with you.
Ask her whether she has feelings for this other person,and figure out what you'll do if it turns out that she does have feelings for him.

Would you end things with her if she tells you for a fact that she has feelings for someone else?
Would you try to work it out?

Think about what you will do in either circumstance and have a honest conversation with her.

@all, thanks for the valuable and invaluable advices, esp the make use of time available wisely,stop bothering urself on stuffs like that and others. And those that did their norm stuffs(writin jargons), enjoy urselfs
@ 190, bad guy, i no help c ur gun o

Hello, plss i need an advice on this issue, Im in a committed relationship for 4yrs nw.
Shes 2yrs older. We started in our university days and it has bein goin well though we hav our challenges.we started NYSC service about same year but she was a batch ahead of me. Now she has concluded and about gettin a job and im yet to conclude service and also she wants to settle down b4 her thirties not because shes scared i mite leave her cos i have never given her reasons for that,but because she feels age wont be on her side. I told her of my plans to get a job and specialize then my masters before marriage, estimately this shud be 4-5yrs from now considering our present economic problem, When i asked her about her opinion, she went blank, just said shes confused and not sure if she can wait,
I need your advice on what to do here,cos i love her n dont really see any one else being able of takin her place as my life partner.
Is it wise to settle down before going for my masters just not to lose her,or to get my masters now before gettin married

Phate07:
Is nitrogen still alive? Wtf? Thought i killed him 10years ago!

.... U are'nt serious.

@all, left the gurl for gud, she's a motherfuc.k.er.

nitrogen:

.... U are'nt serious.

@all, left the gurl for gud, she's a motherfuc.k.er.

Or she left you

@ OP you need to relax i think you are stressing for no reason

oluafolabi:
Or she left you

O.k, she actually did.

nitrogen:
O.k, she actually did.

...Sorri...

oluafolabi: ...Sorri...

Thanks