As a married couples or people in a very serious relationship, what are your phone rules?

Because my partner has total access to every part of my phone and it's bringing issues

You can access my phone only if you let me access yours.

virginprincess:
You can access my phone only if you let me access yours.

You can't access my phone and I have no business with yours.

Zonefree:

You can't access my phone and I have no business with yours.

We are saying the same thing,if i can't access your phone then you don't have right accessing mine.

Individual difference.
Some couples or lovers are very transparent while others are not

You eat her food, fvck each other, sleep on same bed, yet you keep your phone away from your partner? How logical is that?

In my marriage, there are no rules, I can look up wifey phone any time and she can do same.
The problem is that while we make jest of guys who hit her online, we argue over girls I said 'hello' to

Nokia 310 will solve your issue ok.

We access each other phone anytime any day, if you are not hiding anything you have nothing to worry about.

JovialJune:
You eat her food, fvck each other, sleep on same bed, yet you keep your phone away from your partner? How logical is that?

Doesn't matter. What would you be looking for in your partner's fone btw when you have yours?

PerfectStranger:

Doesn't matter. What would you be looking for in your partner's fone btw when you have yours?

If I share intimate part of my being with my partner, why must the phone be different? What is he hiding?

I have access to her phone but she never has access to mine , Cos I would be using Spy WhatsApp for it, I don't.need to let her know that im watching her, cos that's not how u catch a thief, a cheat, a liar and a manipulator

JovialJune:



If I share intimate part of my being with my partner, why must the phone be different? What is he hiding?

Then what are you looking for in his fone when you have yours? It's disrespectful to spy on your partner's fone.

No Phone During Our Time, Still Our Marriage Remains Superb, So Why All These Phone Issues Here And There.Daughters of Eve and Sons Of Adam Wassup Nah

funkmrflexx:
As a married couples or people in a very serious relationship, what are your phone rules?

Because my partner has total access to every part of my phone and it's bringing issues

I don't have any phone rule, once I lock the phone, then no need for rules

Me wey dey scope guys with wifey phone...she just turn my own to her private cinema. We vibe along on this. She knows my password and I knows hers. Phone is not a big deal for us. She knows all ladies that slide into my dm and reads our chat.

For me, this helps me to be responsible and be in check over any stupid excesses. On the flip side, it gives me this edge and confidence that both of us knows that, if we decide to part ways na hot cake we be.