Ibime:

Only insecure men run DNA test. Why your bro inlaw go dey show such obvious lack of trust to your sister, and it sit well with you?

Segedinho:

Itsrm:


It is not something I would do but I understand why a man will want to do it especially when trust has broken down.

Kholiwe:

If you don't trust the woman you are getting married to then better remain single and go marry your fellow man. You force your wife to perform DNA test on your child and indeed the child belongs to you that marriage is already over.

Ibime:
When you observe say water done pass garri, mockery no dey sweet for mouth again.

Make una allow TeeJay rest. Who done code done code.

Amigoss:


Dey play

izzou:


I can understand doing it when you know the trust has broken down.

What i find weird is how you people want to do it when the trust is there?

Is that not enough reason to scatter the trust?

iamoyindamola:
Oh!!! come on how did she know we are having this conversation
I don't trust nairaland again some people are using keyword search

I am out of here guys

Amigoss:


Dey play

seankafor:
maybe such women exist oo but with these varieties of happenings everyday..

I no fit even trust myself not to talk of a woman.. lol

Una dey use this "trust" like say na one kind cheap thing like that..

Omo, I gats see to believe oo.. I gats clear all my doubts

Itsrm:


That's the part I don't understand as well. The fact they have to hide it from the wife probably tells you all you need to know. It is every shade of wrong.

iamoyindamola:

Keyword ----Trust
But they are saying why will you trust a woman because they believe she is loyal to her interest

Amigoss:



......I suspect too,always wanted to ask cos her timing ehn,she is always present when we are discussing some kain topics that has her agenda

seankafor:
Na mostly online I dey buy my things now.. it'd quite cheaper on the likes of jumia and konga compared to offline 📴 stores 🏬

Big big difference

iamoyindamola:

Just the way blueraydick brought his shim friend with the magic word

sod09:

On behalf of Otem I volunteer Segedinho and ebukacute our able isese practitioners to apply for this job

BlueRayDick:


Àwọn homo palava species

BlueRayDick:


Some of us that started bashing him recently are doing so because we observed it's difficult to have a decent conversation with Teejay without him turning round to hurl insult at u. He just seem to be incapable of having a civil discussion without calling u names once u don't buy the otem nonsense gospel.

I personally usually let his unprovoked insults slide for a long time until I didn't.

If he wants others to be humans then he must also try to be human and understand people can have divergent views on the same subject matter.....Insulting the person discussing with u does not in any way portray u as more knowledgeable

seankafor:
Na mostly online I dey buy my things now.. it'd quite cheaper on the likes of jumia and konga compared to offline 📴 stores 🏬

Big big difference

izzou:


Some of the beggars i know now sit and beg in groups.

I guess it is a strategy to survive, as they get to beg together and share together.

Surviving is hard in Nigeria, except on Twitter and Nairaland

nihilistjnr:


Bro, my dad used to run some piggery and catfish operation way back in the day.

One fool from ara adugbo would fly fence into my dad's farm under cover of darkness with a whole net to steal fish. Like this mofo wasn't just reaping where he didn't sow, he was running industrial operations like a CEO on another man's property

My dad got frustrated that the expect yield was not yielding, but didn't want to chalk it up to bigger fish eating smaller fish, so he camped out one night in the farm with his gun and two of his boys, and that's when they caught this bastard. He was lucky to escape with just beating. The local vigilantes begged my dad to hand him over to them to be treated properly

Farming in Nigeria from what I understand is a joke as well. Nigerians seem to feel entitled to your stuff, from herdsmen coming to graze their cows on your crops and kill you if you talk about it, to your workers stealing your produce, to kidnappers waiting for you on the roads

Mehn I don't actually understand how that country is able to feed itself tbh.

BlueRayDick:


Anybody running a business in Nigeria now na Hero. There are so many factors against a businessman/woman in this country that u keep wondering how they are still able to turn their capital over and still post profit.

raumdeuter:


I heard Obasanjo in the 80s, 90s used to shoot workers at his Ota farms for stealing

People will ruin you. Me don remove hand from running any business in Naija

I once tried trucking. I sent Mack trucks paid for clearing not knowing that the agent I paid spent my money and was banking on another person to pay him for clearing so he can use for mine.
This agent I've used him for multiple shipment and even introduced people to him for business

He started giving me stories the computer at port is bad, their bosses traveled to Abuja

I had to send someone else who told me my trucks have been waiting clearing for weeks and started incurring demmurage say if I incur to some level, they will auctionthe truck. I had to pay another set of clearing fees plus demmurage to get my truck out. After clearing I got in touch with a soldier friend to handle him but my dad called me to let him go and leave to God cos if soldiers injure him na my family dem go still come meet.

Na so I leave am. Like a year later after new year he suddenly called me, I even thought he wanted to repay back. Na so he begin tell me say for some time his business has been very bad, he went to a pastor to pray and they told him that it's because he cheated someone who did him a lot of good and until that person forgives him. I chuckled and ask that what of the money you are owing me? He say he never get the money but I should forgive him

sod09:

There’s one big catfish farm in epe the first time I went there I was wow but recently I was there and I asked what happened they said Nigeria happened to them
It’s so unfortunate because I was eyeing that business and rabbit farming too

raumdeuter:


I heard Obasanjo in the 80s, 90s used to shoot workers at his Ota farms for stealing

People will ruin you. Me don remove hand from running any business in Naija

I once tried trucking. I sent Mack trucks paid for clearing not knowing that the agent I paid spent my money and was banking on another person to pay him for clearing so he can use for mine.
This agent I've used him for multiple shipment and even introduced people to him for business

He started giving me stories the computer at port is bad, their bosses traveled to Abuja

I had to send someone else who told me my trucks have been waiting clearing for weeks and started incurring demmurage say if I incur to some level, they will auctionthe truck. I had to pay another set of clearing fees plus demmurage to get my truck out. After clearing I got in touch with a soldier friend to handle him but my dad called me to let him go and leave to God cos if soldiers injure him na my family dem go still come meet.

Na so I leave am. Like a year later after new year he suddenly called me, I even thought he wanted to repay back. Na so he begin tell me say for some time his business has been very bad, he went to a pastor to pray and they told him that it's because he cheated someone who did him a lot of good and until that person forgives him. I chuckled and ask that what of the money you are owing me? He say he never get the money but I should forgive him

raumdeuter:


One of my friends from school he chose not to go into corporate world and started business. Recharge card, call center, photocopy full business center, later palm kernel and later fish farming on a big scale before we graduated he was already showing 5m in his account and laughed at us say we will be going to queue and study for job aptitude test when he will soon be employing us

Na so from the fish pond they cleared everything in the pond. That loss made him mad till today he still hasn't recovered. As in real mad that he was taken to a psychiatry home for months. Now over 40. Nothing to his name. He lives with his parents back in family house

raumdeuter:


I heard Obasanjo in the 80s, 90s used to shoot workers at his Ota farms for stealing

People will ruin you. Me don remove hand from running any business in Naija

I once tried trucking. I sent Mack trucks paid for clearing not knowing that the agent I paid spent my money and was banking on another person to pay him for clearing so he can use for mine.
This agent I've used him for multiple shipment and even introduced people to him for business

He started giving me stories the computer at port is bad, their bosses traveled to Abuja

I had to send someone else who told me my trucks have been waiting clearing for weeks and started incurring demmurage say if I incur to some level, they will auctionthe truck. I had to pay another set of clearing fees plus demmurage to get my truck out. After clearing I got in touch with a soldier friend to handle him but my dad called me to let him go and leave to God cos if soldiers injure him na my family dem go still come meet.

Na so I leave am. Like a year later after new year he suddenly called me, I even thought he wanted to repay back. Na so he begin tell me say for some time his business has been very bad, he went to a pastor to pray and they told him that it's because he cheated someone who did him a lot of good and until that person forgives him. I chuckled and ask that what of the money you are owing me? He say he never get the money but I should forgive him

Segedinho: