Spy360:
Disstroy calm down. All the Akwa Ibom people I know are married to Igbos except one or two.

Igbos basically are the most detribalised among the major tribes in Nigeria and that's a fact. I once met one Ikenna in Lagos, dude was purely Yoruba by every standard. So I asked him if he has ever been to the East, he said yes during festive period.

I have also met an Anambra man in Maiduguri and actually thought he was Kanuri. Bros our people have blended every where. Forget this online ginger. Let this stay online please.

Spy360:
Disstroy calm down. All the Akwa Ibom people I know are married to Igbos except one or two.

Igbos basically are the most detribalised among the major tribes in Nigeria and that's a fact. I once met one Ikenna in Lagos, dude was purely Yoruba by every standard. So I asked him if he has ever been to the East, he said yes during festive period.

I have also met an Anambra man in Maiduguri and actually thought he was Kanuri. Bros our people have blended every where. Forget this online ginger. Let this stay online please.

izzou:
Is this how you people used to endure abroad?


https://www.nairaland.com/8010422/13-years-old-terrible-want

izzou:


I for use Aina like that oh

I trust a "dead" Aina

raumdeuter:


If he changed a winning team right now his house for dey on fire

Spy360:


Especially for many Nigerians it is strictly online. In real life I see a lot of brotherhood. Look at the protests for example. Na the same people wey dey online dey defend ronulism that are protesting with other members of other tribes.

raumdeuter:
Meanwhile this is what BlueRayDick did this past week

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3sHzeluf0E/?igsh=azltZHFqeDFqcHNk

No one should interprete

izzou:
Is this how you people used to endure abroad?


https://www.nairaland.com/8010422/13-years-old-terrible-want

Hey guys really need ur advice since I can't sleep. This evening when I came back home I met my 11 years old looking so sad , I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing.

Later in the evening when I was sitting ouside in the garden to get some fresh air she followed me and asked me what does bastard mean..
I asked her where did she heard that from and she said her mummy call her that. I asked her what did she do to mummy she said she was carrying her baby sister and she accidentally caused her to hit her head in the door, mummy got angry and call her a bastard .

It really shocked me and I had lied to her it doesn't mean anything bad but she said she knows the meaning because she had googled it. I wasn't happy with my wife no matter what the girl has done she doesn't have to use such words to her , despite being angry I was patient enough waiting for the little ones to go to bed.

I have confronted her calmly but I was so shocked that she has taken it to another level accusing me to be sleeping with my daughter mother.
We had a heated argument which she held me by shirt shouting at me if you are a man hit me without minding she is 7 months pregnant.

She knows hitting woman is not my nature and she was tempting me to hit her so she can call the police on me because she knows that we are in abroad and not in naija anymore. I have quietly left the house for her and I am now sitting in my car cooling down and I don't really know if I want advice but I just felt like to vent. Sorry for the long post

I have 3 wonderful children 9,2, 5 months. My first daughter is from my previous relationship. I recently changed her school to an expensive one 50k more than her old school. My son still attending the old school which is a good school with expensive fees too. My wife is not happy and accused me of loving my daughter more than her kids. I love my children equally and told her I don’t see the point of changing his school Now , he is only 2 in primary one and has promised to change him to the new school when he is in primary one. She has been acting funny and treats my daughter like her worst enemy , which I reported the matter to her mother. She supported my wife and said I should change his school for peace to reign, I was shocked I taught she would talk to my wife and makes her understanding instead she sided her. Anyways I still stick to my decision of not changing his school and my wife is still mad. Is it worth it to move him school ? I hope I’m not wrong with my decision ?

GloriousGbola:


https://www.nairaland.com/7137380/confused



https://www.nairaland.com/5728674/decision-right-wrong


the root of the issue is the posters wife treating the daughter like shit. and the family being in an environment where children have agency

izzou:


I had to check if i was in the diary section.

Baba dey type to himself, for himself and by
himself.

I don see Airlines and Awolowo as featured episode.

Let it all come out

iamoyindamola:
To whom it may concern

If i give you 200,000 to invest, and you have the option of buying dollars, will you discard it?

Griffon:


You’re mad

GloriousGbola:

https://www.nairaland.com/7137380/confused
https://www.nairaland.com/5728674/decision-right-wrong
the root of the issue is the posters wife treating the daughter like shit. and the family being in an environment where children have agency

izzou:


If i give you 200,000 to invest, and you have the option of buying dollars, will you discard it?

iamoyindamola:

That's not the point
Why do people complain about what they are part of

obainojazz:
If you marry person from another tribe…. Your family fit say she’s taking all their son’s money to only her people.

Taguchi:


This is actually true for most people, everything na just online ginger

I was taught the value of valuable relationships quite young and my God! it has made my life so so easy

I learnt that I like most people aligned with their personal pursuit and whoever or whatever will aid them to attain it.not to tribe, religion etc

When I first came here

One naija babe dey gist me say the British dey very racist, say make I dey wary of them, this and that

Thanked her for her advice but disregarded it as shallow mindedness.

Over time I've met different kinds of people

But my closest and most valuable folks are

1 hausa guy from Kano
1 "Yoruba Muslim" from Kwara
1 greek niggga
2 British folks
1 Egyptian babe

None of them is from my tribe.but all are allies no detractors.

So I genuinely feel all these are online talks, but if you're foolish enough to take it beyond here, then OYO for you.

Unlimited22:
Lol

E don reach today, Maryam Babangida don be Igbo

Tomorrow she will be Deltan.

In 1966, Nzeogwu who is from Okpanam in Delta State was Igbo because e suit the agenda.

Stanley Nwabali who is From Egbema no be Igbo, he's a Rivers man. But if to say them catch am where e dey thief, everybody would have remembered that Egbema people speak Igbo and they cut across both Rivers and Imo states.

Make una continue.

iamoyindamola:

That's not the point
Why do people complain about what they are part of

Spy360:
Disstroy calm down. All the Akwa Ibom people I know are married to Igbos except one or two.

Igbos basically are the most detribalised among the major tribes in Nigeria and that's a fact. I once met one Ikenna in Lagos, dude was purely Yoruba by every standard. So I asked him if he has ever been to the East, he said yes during festive period.

I have also met an Anambra man in Maiduguri and actually thought he was Kanuri. Bros our people have blended every where. Forget this online ginger. Let this stay online please.

Spy360:

Tribalism especially the online version was introduced to our social interaction by APC and BATists

Spy360:

Tribalism especially the online version was introduced to our social interaction by APC and BATists

izzou:


You gave an example naa

Na that example I ask you so.

In this present day Nigeria, if you had the option of investing the 200k or saving in dollars, which will you go for?

iamoyindamola:
Quick question gentlemen
If naija decide to divide into 3 where will akwa ibom be?

Itsrm:


Will they sell the TV at a lesser amount to the person who kept his own 200k in the bank?

So why not buy the dollar and keep up with inflation. I have always maintained that for the most part, buying dollar to later spend in Naira is more or less keeping up with inflation especially if you're using the money to buy things dependent on exchange rate.

The alternative which is just leaving the money in the bank is not an option.

iamoyindamola:
To whom it may concern

liveLongNprospa:


First thing you should understand, this will never happen.
It's into 5 or nothing at all.
North, middlebelt, ND, SW and SE.

Anything outside that 5, forget it

liveLongNprospa:


Same way 600k is better than 200k.

Nor be me make forex go up.
State government dey convert FAAC to fx bro.