backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

Ignoring that you seem to mistake culture for values…
Culture (even values) are NOT static, but always evolving.

Reality is there’s no LOGICAL reason for polygamy in the 21st century…
Except to eat your proverbial cake and have it, and of course to perpetuate primitive SEXIST cultural practices.

Dumb PRIMITIVE SEXIST CULTURAL practices, such as polygamy, inheriting a dead brother’s wife…
Or making widows sleep with the corpse of a dead husband, should have NO place among civilized human beings.
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postbmd:
why keep it a secret?

I tire oh. When all you need is notify 1st Queen of an incoming Queen.

9jaRealist:


Ignoring that you seem to mistake culture for values…
Culture (even values) are NOT static, but always evolving.

Reality is there’s no LOGICAL reason for polygamy in the 21st century…
Except to eat your proverbial cake and have it, and of course to perpetuate primitive SEXIST cultural practices.

Dumb PRIMITIVE SEXIST CULTURAL practices, such as polygamy, inheriting a dead brother’s wife…
Or making widows sleep with the corpse of a dead husband, should have NO place among civilized human beings.
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We don forget say 21st century is for only Gay rights ? How did they confuse you rhat polygamy is bad, but gay is good

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

But you men always complain that women don't contribute financially to the home to assist the husband whereas our African culture forbids that.
According to the African culture, the man is the Provider while the woman takes care of the children and cooks for the family from the money provided by the husband.

RedChiefPriest:
Abeg the man is free to do whatever he wants jare,the wife and her family sef na thug them be

But jokes apart, that was wrong of him but I won't judge him until I hear the reason for marrying a second wife, and why he kept it as a secret from the 1st wife.


Make I bring out my remaining 2 keg of palmwine with 1120 kolanuts make I use am reason this matter.

Marrying a second wife is not wrong. If he can provide for both wives I think it's ok. After all, there's a reason God created more women

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

...then he should had informed the first wife he wants to marry a second wife and if the first wife agrees then they is no problem him marrying a second wife ...but for him to do it secretly is wrong

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

Good,hope you have the same energy for the female members of your family if they decide to be second wives?

Lol, he's a full grown adult and it's his choice!

E don red be that ooo

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

No be inside church dem dey practice 'African values' nau.

He for jos go pay bride price on top the new wife and move on from there

Everything is wrong with taking a second wife in CHURCH. African values and church are not usually aligned. Second wife deserve trad marriage but if you want oyibo wedding, u musto divorce first.

Ndi African values but you no get farm, ur wife dey contribute and your pikin dey go school. shioor

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

you can take all the wives you want but not in church.

postbmd:
why keep it a secret?

He didn't keep it secret, but he didn't tell nor invite evil wishers.

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

why does he ran away?

The priest did the right thing by calling off the wedding.

So it is not only in Nigeria that funny things do happen.

I j[b]ust want to make it very clear here that this is not Nigeria the incidence never took place here, less be guided this took place in Cameroon,. The Anglophone part of Cameroon[/b]

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

I'd it good value because africsn value?