During covid, a "distant" friend I came across pleaded with me that he needs a place to put up for 2 - weeks and quite honestly my house was so big big enough to accommodate 5 persons but I love my peace of mind

So I told my friend, 2 - weeks you said right?
He said yes
And he said he will take care of feeding and all his essentials and I said that's fine

I took him to a hotel and paid 2 - weeks for him and he moved into the � hotel


It's a long story (I hate typing)

Mercury12:
Humans are deceptive. That is why!
It take the grace of God for them not to fvck up. If u love ur peace avoid unnecessary talks or association

This is wisdom.

fulaniHERDSman:
Why?

I was nearly stabbed when I was angry with someone I kept in my house,just because he takes meat from the soup to cook Noddles,just imagine.I have to run away and call the police to throw him out,since then no more

fernandoc:
My house is my sanctuary. I have gotten so used to living alone that it scares me that one day I will have to get married and live with another human being. Maybe a much much bigger house will do the trick, where I can have my own private section void of any other human interaction.

I call it my man cave
Its a restricted area

Some people dey infiltrate others house oo. No go dey pity anybody

Me wet don see shege, I no fit accommodate anybody.

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is , don't let anybody move into your house.

100% truth...try this at your own risk. If you must help a person in this regard give them the funds to get an apartment. Don't let strangers into your home.

Sucre6:


I love people especially family and friends but I don't know why, but each time i have a visitor, be it my girlfriend, family or friends, when they finally leaves I feel so much relieved and unexplained inner joy, I don't know why

you masturbate right?

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is , don't let anybody move into your house.

Tell ur story nigga. Edit this and put it there so this thread can make it to front page

novia22:
I don't need to hear his story to swallow this advice hook, line and sinker.
The world is just too evil these days. Everyone is acting all Holy to get what they want and when they do, you see a demon you never knew existed.
Some people have even planned you before coming to pretend to ask for help.
For me, if you are stranded and need a place to stay for a few days, I will gladly check you into a hotel. After your few days finish, OYO but as for my home, fogerrit!!!!

you didn't get what the op is saying,, anybody here can be ur sister, mother or cousin,, and l ask what is wrong with people living with you?

cRobo:
During covid, a "distant" friend I came across pleaded with me that he needs a place to put up for 2 - weeks and quite honestly my house was so big big enough to accommodate 5 persons but I love my peace of mind

So I told my friend, 2 - weeks you said right?
He said yes
And he said he will take care of feeding and all his essentials and I said that's fine

I took him to a hotel and paid 2 - weeks for him and he moved into the � hotel


It's a long story (I hate typing)

What happened??

victooman:
you didn't get what the op is saying,, anybody here can be ur sister, mother or cousin,, and l ask what is wrong with people living with you?

Alot is wrong. If you have been lucky, Out of the say 10 people I housed, 9 were a bad idea. I have been backstabbed, torn, tongue lashed, accused falsely and had my dad almost killed cos I made the mistake of opening my doors to allow people live with me which made me come to the conclusion: I don't want to know how kind, Godly, hardworking and willing to contribute, how perfect you think you are, Deceit lays in the heart of man and the world is evil.
My home is my Peace...I'm done toiling with it.

novia22:


Alot is wrong. If you have been lucky, Out of the say 10 people I housed, 9 were a bad idea. I have been backstabbed, torn, tongue lashed, accused falsely and had my dad almost killed cos I made the mistake of opening my doors to allow people live with me which made me come to the conclusion: I don't want to know how kind, Godly, hardworking and willing to contribute, how perfect you think you are, Deceit lays in the heart of man and the world is evil.
My home is my Peace...I'm done toiling with it.

God bless you for this response.
Feels as if u took the words right out of my mouth

cRobo:
During covid, a "distant" friend I came across pleaded with me that he needs a place to put up for 2 - weeks and quite honestly my house was so big big enough to accommodate 5 persons but I love my peace of mind

So I told my friend, 2 - weeks you said right?
He said yes
And he said he will take care of feeding and all his essentials and I said that's fine

I took him to a hotel and paid 2 - weeks for him and he moved into the � hotel


It's a long story (I hate typing)

Two weeks in a hotel? That must be much. But oh! Well peace is priceless.

victooman:
you masturbate right?

Mastu what, are u high,

I got babes that satisfy all my sexual fantasies, why the hell should I masturbate

I just love my space that's all

SenecaTheYonger:


Tell ur story nigga. Edit this and put it there so this thread can make it to front page

Lol guy you're so funny is that how you love front page reach?

r4bbit:
It's true i am still regretting situation that landed me in police cell during my 200 level ....


but i wouldn't say "don't help people" i would rather you " you be mindful of the people you help".

I have helped someone on this nairaland. I fed him, gave him money and where to lie his head just because he was jobless and I really felt pity for him. I didn't know I was helping a beast and monster, he turned against me and promised to ruin me completely. Almighty God really saved me. I can't help any random person again unless the spirit of God direct me

Truth 100%

Tonymegabush1:
We can hang out together but you see my house, I enjoy my quite time alone

That's a fuqin lie....

Cuz I'm moving my black ass into your house this weekend.

I will give you sweet hell and vawulence

Xcelinteriors:

I have helped someone on this nairaland. I fed him, gave him money and where to lie his head just because he was jobless and I really felt pity for him. I didn't know I was helping a beast and monster, he turned against me and promised to ruin me completely. Almighty God really saved me. I can't help any random person again unless the spirit of God direct me

Are you for real?

A nairalander did that to you?

novia22:


Alot is wrong. If you have been lucky, Out of the say 10 people I housed, 9 were a bad idea. I have been backstabbed, torn, tongue lashed, accused falsely and had my dad almost killed c :Pos I made the mistake of opening my doors to allow people live with me which made me come to the conclusion: I don't want to know how kind, Godly, hardworking and willing to contribute, how perfect you think you are, Deceit lays in the heart of man and the world is evil.
My home is my Peace...I'm done toiling with it.

House me darling...I won't disappoint you like those fuqs you housed.
I'm a gentleman.

luminouz:


Are you for real?

A nairalander did that to you?

My dear they are everywhere. Nairaland is not an exception. Don't be decieved.

luminouz:


Are you for real?

A nairalander did that to you?

Yes. But I thank God he didn't destroy me as he promised. In this life, just pray before you help anybody

novia22:


My dear they are everywhere. Nairaland is not an exception. Don't be decieved.

You are right.

Nlanders are also human beings.

Xcelinteriors:

Yes. But I thank God he didn't destroy me as he promised. In this life, just pray before you help anybody

Pray tell, what was his excuse? You did a lot for him, why on earth would he betray you, his helper?

I can't wrap my head around it

luminouz:


House me darling...I won't disappoint you like those fuqs you housed.
I'm a gentleman.

Lol...it's also a gentleman that almost ended my dad biko..I nor do again.

luminouz:

Pray tell, what was his excuse? You did a lot for him, why on earth would he betray you, his helper?

I can't wrap my head around it

I learnt that is how he always turn against his helpers. That was after God opened my eyes. I think it's something he enjoyed doing

novia22:


Lol...it's also a gentleman that almost ended my dad biko..I nor do again.

Lol...

Kai...seems you need an angel to reverse what that demon did.

Don't stop helping people biko,just be careful ni

Xcelinteriors:

I learnt that is how he always turn against his helpers. That was after God told opened my eyes. I think it's something he enjoyed doing

That's pretty fuqed up!!!!

I'm always appreciatve of every little help I get in this world. It's tough enough as a man. As a Nigerian, it's even worse.

Be careful out there

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is , don't let anybody move into your house.

What if it’s a sexy lady?

Tallesty1:
Mostly ends in regrets

Am facing something like that right now oo