I have an older brother who is the perfect definition of a fool at 40, he doesn't hustle to be a man of his own, his only job is to cause rift between people, he likes talking and gossiping, he depends on my parents at his age, and he will go to my mom and feed her thrash (mostly lies) and my mom will become hostile towards me and my other siblings, he does that between my mom and my dad too, now I had a girlfriend who is a pretentious talkative too, when we started dating I thought she's like me, I don't talk much and I avoid gossiping at all cost, but as time goes on I realized she's not like me, infact she can talk nonstop for 24hrs straight, with time she got familiar with my older brother, I did everything possible for her not to have any connection with my brother because if the two of them become friends I am certain my lousy brother will do what he always does, and I was right, shortly after they became friends our relationship became a nightmare, I had to tell her I'm no longer interested in the relationship, after begging her severally to stay away from my family, now she visits my brother everyday and they talk and gossip, and I am always the topic, now me and my brother don't talk to each other, but their relationship or friendship or whatever it is they're doing is waxing stronger, this guy won't mind dating her, that's how shameless he is, I don't know what to do about it and I can't seem to stop them.

Move on with your Life and always know when to walk away, self respect is very precious.

Ignore them.They are two full grown adults.Since you are no longer involved with her,it's no longer your business.

congrats on finding girlfriend and potential wife for your brother, his perfect match even.
You've done really well.

Abeg this your topic is misleading.
Your topic should be: My elder brother has found his better half in my Ex

Anyway bro relax two talkative of that nature cannot last

I see them getting married, I see all their kids becoming commentators, and winning awards for best commentators.

This I have seen.

Ur brother na 40 years old man

Wotoporiously speaking

Stay on your lane, focus on your mission and have peace of mind, while they keep fooling their selves

osemoses1234:
Ur brother na 40 years old man

He's in his 30s heading for 40 but has no place of his own, still dependent on my parents, and my mom doesn't see anything wrong with it, always taking his side.

Inasmuch as it is difficult to do, ignore them both and be careful. They would soon be a mismatch.

Has your girl fallen for your brother?

Lol, you worry too much. Dem go soon skata. And she will try to run back to you. Where thunder go take strike you na if you accept her back.

Why do you have people that are talkatives in your life like this

Try to be better than your brother, he who laughs last laughs best.

Run away from women who talk too much.
That is, if you want to live a long peaceful life.

That's your brother's cup of tea. Whether it's sweet or sour is no longer your business.

osemoses1234:
Ur brother na 40 years old man

I hope he has his certificates and unknown persons have not taken it like one presidential aspirant like that