Just rent three soldiers and let them escort you whenever you are passing there. Don't talk to them, don't look at their side, just pass them with your 3 soldier friend. Do it 3 times in a week. And just see how your respect will be restored.

Just show them say you get level. That's all

TheWolfen:
Bro, do you know they can't try same shit with other people?
They see you as weakling already.
I would say it just from the way you TALK or WORDS.
The only correction to your suppose problem is ACTION.
( but don't take a st*pid one )

Next time when being confronted anywhere in the world.
Stand your ground and show some level of confidence.

I had in the past been confronted by unknown urchins in some areas in Lagos. These aren't even my neighborhood. Nobody confront me in my neighborhood! Apart from the fact that I mind my own business. They won't dare what they don't know

...bobo yi, gbayii!! 500 likes for you. @ op, you dey do like say you just come lagos new. Like say you no know their medicine

henrimoto:
...bobo yi, gbayii!! 500 likes for you. @ op, you dey do like say you just come lagos new. Like say you no know their medicine

e get some street/compound craze wey no need gentleman confrontation. Say person dey smoke weed, no mean say e get strenght, na morale e dey find. just 2 'punch' only: e go " sa re kaba-kaba"

Ayanwukoma:
I know this might come out as me been a weakling but I need your honest opinion.

Because of situations I had to pack to my uncle's house this year.. what I noticed about the place changes is that, they are young boys, touts, agberos, who some are cultist. All they do is smoke and insult people anyhow. at first they use to give me space, because I too myself gives them space they are not my age mates at all....so we can't be friends that kind thing.

but recently one had to insult me because of my uncle's wife... this boy is not more than 17 to 20 for peace to reign I let it slide, he was ready to set blows with me...(that's 26) ..but I was just too ashamed to react. Because of this, his peers that were around saw it and some start laughing... smoking.

Another one just find my trouble today again, I'm afraid to say if I keep holding back this is how it's going to gets.. This boys will use me to play more and more daily because they seeing me everytime... because I'm not fighting them off, since it's what they are good at... carrying bottles, knifes and dagger.

I really want to engage, buh I'm afraid I might do something harmful... (, When I get angry)


Someone called me aside and told me not to engage them, I should look away. that am bigger than that.
I should apply wisdom.
Fighting them off won't change anything.

come to my rescue, I really need advice before my name makes front page.. the rage I feel right now, seeing small children abuse me daily is killing me.


Seun
Lalasticlala

Guy for your own security no point fighting them ,man up walk up to them and ask them what the issue is and make them see reasons why you guys dont have to be enemies and not let a woman cause problems i have tried this and it worked perfectly infact they will start respecting you more ,sometimes you have to bring yourself down to other peoples level so they can grab the message and peace will reign

Op is dealing with cultist or street urchin rule is never ever engage them if you don't have a solid backup.

Do you know why they are angry with your brother or uncle wife... find out first chance are high if you find out you'll understand why they behave the way they do.
Life is worthless in Nigeria the best is to stay your Lane it does not make you a weakling

Ayanwukoma:
I know this might come out as me been a weakling but I need your honest opinion.

Because of situations I had to pack to my uncle's house this year.. what I noticed about the place changes is that, they are young boys, touts, agberos, who some are cultist. All they do is smoke and insult people anyhow. at first they use to give me space, because I too myself gives them space they are not my age mates at all....so we can't be friends that kind thing.

but recently one had to insult me because of my uncle's wife... this boy is not more than 17 to 20 for peace to reign I let it slide, he was ready to set blows with me...(that's 26) ..but I was just too ashamed to react. Because of this, his peers that were around saw it and some start laughing... smoking.

Another one just find my trouble today again, I'm afraid to say if I keep holding back this is how it's going to gets.. This boys will use me to play more and more daily because they seeing me everytime... because I'm not fighting them off, since it's what they are good at... carrying bottles, knifes and dagger.

I really want to engage, buh I'm afraid I might do something harmful... (, When I get angry)


Someone called me aside and told me not to engage them, I should look away. that am bigger than that.
I should apply wisdom.
Fighting them off won't change anything.

come to my rescue, I really need advice before my name makes front page.. the rage I feel right now, seeing small children abuse me daily is killing me.


Seun
Lalasticlala

You want to face people who has no value for living

You want to confront people who are violent

By the way what are you doing at home that made them to always sees you around yo look for your trouble

You have to learn how to live with or without them

Leave the neighbourhood

Trust me, the teasing and all that shits will not stop. Until you teach one of them a very big lesson. They see u as a weakling. If you are not good in hand to hand combat then u must know how to use bottles, knife or weapon. By the time you teach one of them lesson( give am beta scar for body) him go know how far.

If your mind neva reach dat level, na to just pipe low till you leave that hood.