The way and manner People talked about relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend, dating, courtship, etc ) this days especially on social and everywhere, even in churches has made me to wonder if relationship a must. I remember when newly began to hate relationship talk, how I used to act, If a pastor start preaching about relationship maybe during youth program, that would be my end of service for that day, I go just carry my bible and go home. don't forget that the person you are relating to, was and is still a total stranger to you. Why do you cry, seek advice, and even have sleepless nights because of your relationship with a stranger, some people would even sacrifice their money, time, job, career, happiness, peace of mind because of useless relationship with a stranger. I Woke up every day to see relationship post and meme on friends whatsapp status and facebook everyday. See, let me tell you that thing people called konji is in the mindset, if you don't pay attention to it, E no go everly come, have have experience konji when you have tedious work to attend to?? If it comes it won't Last upto to a minute. Sex and relationship is not a must,na your mindset dey Make you see am as something big. there are other things that can make you happy. If you are a man and there is family pressure to get married or you need a child, why not find one among the numerous women we have in Nigeria and take the risk of getting married to her, even if the marriage go last for 2yrs because marriage na risk of the century and the biggest risk in human history and existence. Don't stress yourself because of marriage and relationship.

Dem wan choke una

Bros say konji is in the mindset.. Be like u still be small boy. When d thing hold u, u'll almost put a hole in ur bed... Sexual urges has nothing to do with mindset oga

Silentgroper:
Bros say konji is in the mindset.. Be like u still be small boy. When d thing hold u, u'll almost put a hole in ur bed... Sexual urges has nothing to do with mindset oga

if not in your mindset , why would it suddenly disappear in a second wen you don't pay attention to it.

I agree with you about how relationship pervade the social media and churches these days. But you can't deny the fact that relationship whether platonic or amorous is very important to human life.

You can still be single and have your peace of mind, happiness, grow in your career. That doesn't mean that people who are in a relationship are lacking those human crave.

Sexual urge is not mindset, it's biological. Go back to your Biology textbook, Man is sexual in nature, even plant have sex, so it's natural. You can still read Bible from morning till evening and when the homones react, your prayers can't stop it neither your mind, it usually comes and goes.

You choose what works for you and allow others to do what works for them. Relationship, humanity, sex education should be highly encouraged.

Personally, I don't enjoy relationship since I don't appreciate the drama that comes with it but then, relationship is beautiful when you meet a partner that is intelligent, productive and understanding.

Demigod22:
I agree with you about how relationship pervade the social media and churches these days. But you can't deny the fact that relationship whether platonic or amorous is very important to human life.

You can still be single and have your peace of mind, happiness, grow in your career. That doesn't mean that people who are in a relationship are lacking those human crave.

Sexual urge is not mindset, it's biological. Go back to your Biology textbook, Man is sexual in nature, even plant have sex, so it's natural. You can still read Bible from morning till evening and when the homones react, your prayers can't stop it neither your mind, it usually comes and goes.

You choose what works for you and allow others to do what works for them. Relationship, humanity, sex education should be highly encouraged.

Personally, I don't enjoy relationship since I don't appreciate the drama that comes with it but then, relationship is beautiful when you meet a partner that is intelligent, productive and understanding.

Why do I like your comment Chop knuckle!!!!

Demigod22:
I agree with you about how relationship pervade the social media and churches these days. But you can't deny the fact that relationship whether platonic or amorous is very important to human life.

You can still be single and have your peace of mind, happiness, grow in your career. That doesn't mean that people who are in a relationship are lacking those human crave.

Sexual urge is not mindset, it's biological. Go back to your Biology textbook, Man is sexual in nature, even plant have sex, so it's natural You can still read Bible from morning till evening and when the homones react, your prayers can't stop it neither your mind, it usually comes and goes.

You choose what works for you and allow others to do what works for them. Relationship, humanity, sex education should be highly encouraged.

Personally, I don't enjoy relationship since I don't appreciate the drama that comes with it but then, relationship is beautiful when you meet a partner that is intelligent, productive and understanding.

The OP is right and you are wrong. Sex is biological but humans freely run the risk of indulging in it without cause. The plant and animals you reference to don’t have sex like we humans. Plants and animals have seasonal sex. Even dogs have seasons too. If you think sex is purely biological, does it make sense to always pay attention to it whenever the cravings comes knocking? That is where mindset comes in, where the mind is, there is the treasure. If you like sex and women too much, sex will always come knocking.

Carcholce:


The OP is right and you are wrong. Sex is biological but humans freely run the risk of indulging in it without cause. The plant and animals you reference to don’t have sex like we humans. Plants and animals have seasonal sex. Even dogs have seasons too. If you think sex is purely biological, does it make sense to always pay attention to it whenever the cravings comes knocking? That is where mindset comes in, where the mind is, there is the treasure. If you like sex and women too much, sex will always come knocking.

You and the OP are bothe wrong, sex in fact is biological, you think animals only have sex during seasons? Then you probably don't know much about animals. Peacocks, Dogs, monkeys, gorillas etc have way more sex than humans because they have higher libido.

Your indulgence in sex really just depends on your libido

Dnalaria:


You and the OP are bothe wrong, sex in fact is biological, you think animals only have sex during seasons? Then you probably don't know much about animals. Peacocks, Dogs, monkeys, gorillas etc have way more sex than humans because they have higher libido.

Your indulgence in sex really just depends on your libido

You are wrong too. Libido can be controlled to the bare minimum. This is the same lie that made me thought I have a very high libido because my dlck wouldn’t stop charging. Being able to control my mind liberated me from that lie. High libido is all in your head, it comes because you welcomed it, it goes when you do not need it. When it comes to sex, forget it, even porn stars can’t compete with my mileage.

Carcholce:


The OP is right and you are wrong. Sex is biological but humans freely run the risk of indulging in it without cause. The plant and animals you reference to don’t have sex like we humans. Plants and animals have seasonal sex. Even dogs have seasons too. If you think sex is purely biological, does it make sense to always pay attention to it whenever the cravings comes knocking? That is where mindset comes in, where the mind is, there is the treasure. If you like sex and women too much, sex will always come knocking.

Actually, you are wrong if you think that your own mindset or reasoning of not prioritizing sex will work on everyone. Logically, you are not better than those who indulge in the act, it's all about decision and priority.

Sex is biological and indulging in the act doesn't necessarily hinder people from getting those things you get if you don't have sex. I am telling you that it's natural to have sexual urge, it's natural to have sex, either you do it everyday or not, it's your choice, it doesn't change anything.

Relationship, sex education, humanity should be encouraged in public and the church and social media are doing the right thing.

Anyone that indulge in sex is not doing it without cause, just that you are too self righteous to consider his or her cause relevant.

Prettygirl200:
Why do I like your comment Chop knuckle!!!!

thanks dear, you got good brains.

Carcholce:


You are wrong too. Libido can be controlled to the bare minimum. This is the same lie that made me thought I have a very high libido because my dlck wouldn’t stop charging. Being able to control my mind liberated me from that lie. High libido is all in your head, it comes because you welcomed it, it goes when you do not need it. When it comes to sex, forget it, even porn stars can’t compete with my mileage.

For real @



When it comes to sex, forget it, even porn stars can’t compete with my mileage

That's one thing some people don't understand

Only few people can boast of being single naturally without being entangled with one or two people

Moreover, I don't see the reason why those who don't love themselves going into a relationship with the hope of loving someone

You can't give what you don't have

Demigod22:


Actually, you are wrong if you think that your own mindset or reasoning of not prioritizing sex will work on everyone. Logically, you are not better than those who indulge in the act, it's all about decision and priority .

Sex is biological and indulging in the act doesn't necessarily hinder people from getting those things you get if you don't have sex. I am telling you that it's natural to have sexual urge, it's natural to have sex, either you do it everyday or not, it's your choice, it doesn't change anything.

Relationship, sex education, humanity should be encouraged in public and the church and social media are doing the right thing.

Anyone that indulge in sex is not doing it without cause, just that you are too self righteous to consider his or her cause relevant.

Tell me where does decision and priorities originate from if not from the mind?

I’m not disputing the fact that sex urge doesn’t come knocking almost at all times/everyday. But shoving it off is decision, focusing your attention on something else is mindset.

I can see you are only looking at this in respect to science. On a deeper level, which is in the mind and spiritual, you have to see to understand.

Ok

Gather here if you think dem don serve op breakfast,lunch and dinner back to back

Carcholce:


You are wrong too. Libido can be controlled to the bare minimum. This is the same lie that made me thought I have a very high libido because my dlck wouldn’t stop charging. Being able to control my mind liberated me from that lie. High libido is all in your head, it comes because you welcomed it, it goes when you do not need it. When it comes to sex, forget it, even porn stars can’t compete with my mileage.

Even professionals can't competet with you? Don't be full of yourself, libido isn't a thing of the mind, you've prolly never meant a nymph that's why you think u can control your libido

Dnalaria:


Even professionals can't competet with you? Don't be full of yourself, libido isn't a thing of the mind, you've prolly never meant a nymph that's why you think u can control your libido

Bro, you say I haven’t met a nymph? Haha. Omon!! In the year 2020, I had sex with more than 50 ladies in Lagos island.

2021, I had sex with more than 30 ladies in the UK

2022 I have been educating people on the dangers of sex and how to control their mind and they way it makes them slaves to sex. Go through all my post.

Carcholce:



Bro, you say I haven’t met a nymph? Haha. Omon!! In the year 2020, I had sex with more than 50 ladies in Lagos island.

2021, I had sex with more than 30 ladies in the UK

2022 I have been educating people on the dangers of sex and how to control their mind and they way it makes them slaves to sex. Go through all my post.

You had sex with a lot of women? How does that make me believe you met a nymph.

Some people have higher libido than others and that's facts. This argument is basically nature vs nurture, and we all know nature always wins at the end of the day

Dnalaria:


You had sex with a lot of women? How does that make me believe you met a nymph.

Some people have higher libido than others and that's facts. This argument is basically nature vs nurture, and we all know nature always wins at the end of the day

Lol. You want me to show prove that I have met a nymph before you believe me? Heck I can give you countless stories to enjoy.

My argument is libido is mind controlled even if it’s nature/biological. Several months now I have not had sex but I keep getting advances from close friends. The urge comes but I counter it and it goes back. Over time the urge reduced drastically to minimum. I used to have sex 4 to 7 days a week back to back thinking I have a very high sex drive. Not knowing it’s like a flower you water and nature it to grow and become a tree. You don’t water it, it dies.