Dear all, Good afternoon, please I need a sincere and matured advise on this.

I have been going out with this particular girl for quiet a period of time now but one thing I noticed is that her mother got married to 3 different men with the total of 6 children, 2 for the first man, 3 for the second man and 1 for the third man. I was uneased at such and that prompted me to ask my gf questions as to why her mother gave birth to 3 different men and she told me that her mom informed her that men are the same that they jilted and dumped her. Currently as I speak the mother is now a single mother, my gf's elder sister is equally having marital issues with her husband to an extent that she had to move back to her mom's house.. my fear is I hope this girl won't start going about with such mentality instilled into her by her mom about men being the same and start resenting me for that afterwards if ever I make up my mind to wife her. Is it advisable to settle with this type of lady?? I only want peace of mind. Please advise

Real men make their own women. If you are capable of finding your way into her heart, you will remote her to your home forever.

You need to pray. You and her need to embark on a prayer enterprise.

If she agrees with you, then you are good to go. There is nothing prayer cannot change.

On the other hand, if she disagrees and claims you are being too religious, then you need to press the off button.

Marriage is not dating. It is a long-term communion. One mistake you should never make in this life is the choice of your partner.

Hmmm...

"...she told me that her mom informed her that men are the same that they jilted and dumped her. Currently as I speak the mother is now a single mother, my gf's elder sister is equally having marital issues with her husband to an extent that she had to move back to her mom's house..."


Hmmm... (Once more)

Snake will always give birth to snakes. You don't need anyone to tell you this.

Bro. There is every tendency that she will go her mother's way. From experience, what she saw going up, will likely happen to her as it's a baggage she will carry. But the reverse could be the case, if she really break the jinx by sticky to you alone and resolving issue that will lead to such. Well her case could be different.

InfernoNig:
Bro. There is every tendency that she will go her mother's way. From experience, what she saw going up, will likely happen to her as it's a baggage she will carry. But the reverse could be the case, if she really break the jinx by sticky to you alone and resolving issue that will lead to such. Well her case could be different.

it will be very difficult for her to break the jinx cos she grew up a with a toxic family. My advise for the op is just shape her to what he wants

Toh

Zonefree:
Snake will always give birth to snakes. You don't need anyone to tell you this.

@Op; Do anything you want to, with this advise. But later don't say nobody advised you rightly.

When we warn you people, you call us misogynists. Now, you done dey need mature advice for here like your fellow simps. To avoid creating another thread on needing mature advice, dump that bitch now.

This does not look like something that will end well