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Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Geminita1(f): 5:30pm On Jul 10, 2022
Only hit dogs will holla. If it doesn't fit you, please pass by to oblivion kiss

Ladies and gentleladies I warmly introduce you to some of the great benefits of not marrying a typical black man. I'm sure you already know there are plenty reasons why you are beginning to feel trapped in a country and continent filled with them. Let me quickly say, you are not alone. And really you have to start considering joining foreign groups and widening your pool of men. We are no longer in stone age where it was impossible to access the world. Get real, and start getting really connected to other groups of men on social media as though your life depends on it. The time you waste following weird unproductive groups online you can use to place yourself in the centre of the world where men with the highest resources can see you. I come in peace. Let's win together wink

Now bttp;

Here are some reasons you need to consider before saying yes to that black man of today.

1) POVERTY: Do you know what this word means?
It means you lack in every area of life where you were supposed to benefit. You fall short of a normal standard of living.
It means you are at a high risk of dying at any moment from poor roads, fake drugs, unhealthy food, poor medical care, insecurity, etc Even if your man has some "change," you can still die from all these vices.

Men can go through the harshest society and it won't affect their "acceptable personality" but women can't because they will lose some of their feminine attributes, graces and refined skin. Where do you think some older Nigerian women acting like men and all tough got their personalities from?

Don't you want to go on vacations? Learn new cultures and retain your innocent and happy-go-well spirit? Don't you like the princess
treatment?

Even if you are a princess now for how long will this present unfriendly society let you retain that before they tell you to get "African" and struggle like everyone?

Have you been conditioned by this brash society that the life is not for you?
Or are you now a "hustler?" Let me tell you the end of all female hustlers, they always lose!!

Any job that has turned you into a mini-man is not for you! Any society that has turned you into this "ruffian" is not for you. Leave! The world is bigger than a struggle society that does not care for the welfare of its vulnerables. Start planning to leave! Don't let anyone deceive you. You are not a wakanda warrior, you are a princess born to be provided for and protected.

Like I said, use social media for your benefits, stop all these yeye activism. Embrace your womaninty and get the best out of life.

If you can settle for a black man with change who is not really your type, why can't you "also settle" for the much better non-black man?

Please check out the site I shared below, its a confirmed study that shows all women irrespective of race who marry black men are likely to be poor. And black women are likely to improve their standard of living when they marry out. Whereas black men can't get up the ladder except they build their societies. And we all know, never mind kiss

2) These men don't see you in their imaginary future:
Have you seen a group of black men living through other black men with change who marry women from other races( who we are prettier than in my opinion). You see them spiralling all over the place with so much excitement as if they won the most treasured lottery?

It embarrasses you right? But let me tell you again what your gut has been telling you and you are taking for granted. That's what black men have as their vision of a future. And you know a man can't go as far as he sees? They have a different picture of achievement from you. Can two walk together unless they agree?

While you are looking forward to a great African future, black men are looking forward to a time where they would reign with their foreign queens with you as a house slave. I just connected the dots for you baby kiss

3) The "ham curse" : According to some reasearch that are yet to be debunked, African men are descendants of ham. Who is ham?
Ham is one of the 3 sons of Noah. He went into his father's abode and found him lying naked and drunk. He rushed out to break the news to his other brothers, making mockery of his father's weakness. The other two were wise and went in backwards to cover their father. Noah found out what happened and cursed Ham. He said Ham will be enslaved by his brothers even his generations.

The thing is a curse on a generation always goes through the male. Which means women can flee from a curse in their societies if they align with another society because women are by and large free agents.

Its one thing to deal with poverty in decades, or even a century but when its life-long?

What if the ham curse is real? Too many baggages in one race of men. I've not even talked about the future children, the misogyny?

Well, to be continued while you ponder on the above points.






https://www.brookings.edu/research/the-inheritance-of-black-poverty-its-all-about-the-men/

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jul 10, 2022
Yes! First to comment...

Love the op... Let there be bloodshed!

Back to the topic...

Lemme add this...

1. If he's African, be prepared for a lifetime of abuse... Both verbal and physical... Women aren't worth more than chopped liver to them...

2. Generally, black men aren't very intelligent... Sure he passed school, but does he think outside the box? Creative? Innovative? No!

3. Backwards customs... Black men refuse to let go off retrogressive traditions because they are cowards... Unprepared for change... Scared of equality...

4. They suck in the bedroom...

5. Many are plain ugly... Don't risk letting your children inherit those bad genes...

I'll continue... smiley

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jul 10, 2022
You know its condition that makes some black men settle for black women yh?

I particularly prefer Asians.. the fine ones are verrry fine. And so respectful.

Black women are mostly about the body nothing else. The sensible ones lack "the body" so it's always a lose-lose situation.

The ham thing tho... lmao . I dont understand how only the black men are cursed and the women are exceptions.

Oh well.. Marriage favours yall so please go meet the whites and leave the cursed black hamsters.

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Emmanueltrinity(f): 5:38pm On Jul 10, 2022
hmm ..
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by hokekeholah: 5:41pm On Jul 10, 2022
Wow...
Just WOW...
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by RedChiefPriest: 5:41pm On Jul 10, 2022
Great write up
I advise you to go for foreign men and you can show this your brilliant post to your sisters and daughters.
Don't accept any black man,infact if they try to woo you please tell them you will rather die and rot in hell than marry any black man.
Op incase you don't have money to travel abroad, you can start with dating apps.
You really made a life changing research and you should try to publish it in newspaper and write it as a book to be distributed to your fellow black women.


Dj! Bring me 5 pot of palmwine with 2 egg
Barman! Play me "The diary of a black lady" by Tiwa savage and Justin Bieber.

Datboredberri:
Took you ten minutes to write this? Shame...
Took me few seconds actually, so the shame is on you.

Op prefer foreign men to black men, so who am I to try and change her opinion?
Don't tell me you were expecting me to bash her? Lol only bitter souls like Op herself will waste their time.
Please you people should all go for foreign men and leave black men alone.
Life no be war.

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jul 10, 2022
RedChiefPriest:
Great write up
I advise you to go for foreign men and you can show this your brilliant post to your sisters.
Don't accept any black man,infact if they try to woo you please tell them you will rather die and rot in hell than marry any black man.
Op incase you don't have money to travel abroad, you can start with dating apps.
You really made a life changing research and you should try to publish it in newspaper and write it as a book to be distributed to your fellow black women.



Dj! Bring me 5 pot of palmwine with 2 egg
Barman! Play me "The diary of a black lady" by Tiwa savage and Justin Bieber.

Took you ten minutes to write this? Shame...
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Geminita1(f): 5:55pm On Jul 10, 2022
Thantayo:
You know its condition that makes some black men settle for black women yh?

I particularly prefer Asians.. the fine ones are verrry fine. And so respectful.

Black women are mostly about the body nothing else. The sensible ones lack "the body" so it's always a lose-lose situation.

The ham thing tho... lmao . I dont understand how only the black men are cursed and the women are exceptions.

Oh well.. Marriage favours yall so please go meet the whites and leave the cursed black hamsters.
I will kiss But I don't want to eat alone. I want my sisters to come along

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Geminita1(f): 5:56pm On Jul 10, 2022
RedChiefPriest:
Great write up
I advise you to go for foreign men and you can show this your brilliant post to your sisters and daughters.
Don't accept any black man,infact if they try to woo you please tell them you will rather die and rot in hell than marry any black man.
Op incase you don't have money to travel abroad, you can start with dating apps.
You really made a life changing research and you should try to publish it in newspaper and write it as a book to be distributed to your fellow black women.


Dj! Bring me 5 pot of palmwine with 2 egg
Barman! Play me "The diary of a black lady" by Tiwa savage and Justin Bieber.

kiss
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jul 10, 2022
Geminita1:

I will kiss But I don't want to eat alone. I want my sisters to come along

Good for you. I hope you find the imaginary happiness you seek.

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Geminita1(f): 6:00pm On Jul 10, 2022
Datboredberri:
Yes! First to comment...

Love the op... Let there be bloodshed!

Back to the topic...

Lemme add this...

1. If he's African, be prepared for a lifetime of abuse... Both verbal and physical... Women aren't worth more than chopped liver to them...

2. Generally, black men aren't very intelligent... Sure he passed school, but does he think outside the box? Creative? Innovative? No!

3. Backwards customs... Black men refuse to let go off retrogressive traditions because they are cowards... Unprepared for change... Scared of equality...

4. They suck in the bedroom...

5. Many are plain ugly... Don't risk letting your children inherit those bad genes...

I'll continue... smiley

Haha. Thank you for supporting me and stating these points boldly as you should.

You just highlighted the misogyny. Its the misogyny that seats in every fibre of the culture. You can't do anything but you don't want anyone to make any move. Scared cats. Scared cats are the least creative. They are even scared of their skin.

smiley

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by WatchYourSix: 6:01pm On Jul 10, 2022
Another toxic thread...It would be nice if you guys dont jump at the bait...


They are just opinions...
.its free of of charge to have them...

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Geminita1(f): 6:01pm On Jul 10, 2022
Thantayo:


Good for you. I hope you find the imaginary happiness you seek.
No imaginary happiness outside hell, its all real out there grin
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Geminita1(f): 6:03pm On Jul 10, 2022
WatchYourSix:
Another toxic thread...It would be nice if you guys dont jump at the bait...


They are just opinions...
.its free of of charge to have them...
Opinions? You blind. But never mind, other men have clear sights kiss
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by WatchYourSix: 6:06pm On Jul 10, 2022
Geminita1:
Opinions? You blind. But never mind, other men have clear sights kiss

So all you have up there are not opinions?? Anyways..you can call them whatver you like..

By the way...Its not nice to insult people...but i guess that's why you are here....wateva make you happy

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Geminita1(f): 6:17pm On Jul 10, 2022
WatchYourSix:


So all you have up there are not opinions?? Anyways..you can call them whatver you like..

By the way...Its not nice to insult people...but i guess that's why you are here....wateva make you happy
You are blind for real? Like physically? Poor you. Please put it in your profile or moniker k?
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by WatchYourSix: 6:21pm On Jul 10, 2022
Geminita1:
You are blind for real? Like physically? Poor you. Please put it in your profile or moniker k?

Enjoy yourself...

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jul 10, 2022
Black men and black women are in the same cycle of poverty, it is even worst for black women, about 60% of black women will remain in poverty.

It is a pity for we black people.

If a white man is rich, the mobility rate for white women goes up when compared to black women

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Chaos14: 6:35pm On Jul 10, 2022
Datboredberri:
Yes! First to comment...

Love the op... Let there be bloodshed!

Back to the topic...

Lemme add this...

1. If he's African, be prepared for a lifetime of abuse... Both verbal and physical... Women aren't worth more than chopped liver to them...

2. Generally, black men aren't very intelligent... Sure he passed school, but does he think outside the box? Creative? Innovative? No!

3. Backwards customs... Black men refuse to let go off retrogressive traditions because they are cowards... Unprepared for change... Scared of equality...

4. They suck in the bedroom...

5. Many are plain ugly... Don't risk letting your children inherit those bad genes...

I'll continue... smiley
Berri...
you've been dropping a lot of racist things lately. Please black is beautiful
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Geminita1(f): 6:43pm On Jul 10, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
Black men and black women are in the same cycle of poverty, it is even worst for black women, about 60% of black women will remain in poverty.
Yousaywhar? grin Listen, poverty is all about the men. A society is as progressive as the men in it. You either get it or you don't. I know my audience. And its not you


It is a pity for we black people.
"We" ? cheesy

If a white man is rich, the mobility rate for white women goes up when compared to black women
Yes, but as more and more black women open their options, they become a race of Ruth kiss


Eh what am I reading below me? grin
One of the most, if not the most feminine women are africans! And guess what race they are?

All men desire what type of women? Say after me Fe-mi-nine women. Which the African woman has, a crown of femininity. Can you in all honesty say you believe a stupid statistics that only considered a few people in a distant online dating poll that has no African women in it? If we were unfeminine, why will you still be coming home to pick a bride after you have seen the "most desirable" women. Because its a lie. And you don't believe it but you want us to believe it for your selfish interest. grin

African women are conditioned to embrace whatever Africa offers them and mould their lives around the system including a few who are still doing African solidarity abroad. If they knew better, they will flee from you. It's not easy breaking free from a struggle conditioning as you are even conditioned to think its virtuous to suffer. But they will give up eventually and choose better

Just imagine if Serena Williams did not give up on black men and faced the white man that has always desired her? Did you ever think a white man would want her? But that's the reality not your lies that you keep telling yourselves because you can't do better for yourselves and you want to tear us down? No stay down poor men!

Have you ever seen women chasing poor men? Hello, we are fcking hypergamous. You are just lucky, we don't have much races in the country and continent? Where una go see babe to date as girls are not smiling anymore? Who wan suffer? Who no go Japa comot for una country?even una dey find way to run. Shame no dey catch una cheesy

You black men are the most undesirable group on earth, no race wants to deal with y'all. Not the women, not the men. Even porn stars who are suppose to be the lowest class put on their sites: NO BLACK MAN. According to them you guys dont pay well.

They only come when they see small change in your hand and take it from you. E pain una abi. cheesy Most undesirable, most back ward, ugliest and Self destructive. Don't project your traits on us. We are desirable, na we dey do ourselves. Dem no dey talk am. We no dey shout. No need to show yourself.

Which woman wants a "perpetual victim" of a man? That's weak mahhn. How can you be crying that white men are dealing with you? What will women and children do if you cry all their cry finish. Una no dey shame cheesy See Asian men of yesterday, they have left you in the mud. Haba mana, black man why why why ? Can't you rise? Can't you invent anything or copy well from your superiors? Kai !

Oh its the black woman's fault that you are poor? cheesy chai my left ear has seen my right ear. What will you not say though? Yesterday, it was the white man that kept you backwards, today its the black woman that is responsible?

Why why poor black men can't you stop making all the excuses serial losers make and rise like men? Even your children's innocent faces don't move you? You have planned to keep them as permanent underclass?

Some of us know you hate us, but your children, do you hate them too? Are you so hardhearted and far gone?

I know you are, thats why everyone has to leave you in your shame and move on. Now begone kiss

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Chaos14: 6:46pm On Jul 10, 2022
The most painful thing here is that you think every man born of black parents are the same
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Chaos14: 6:51pm On Jul 10, 2022
Geminita1:

Yousaywhar? grin Listen, poverty is all about the men. A society is as progressive as the men in it. You either get it or you don't. I know my audience. And its not you
so you believe black women aren't strong to change the narrative interesting
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by WatchYourSix: 6:51pm On Jul 10, 2022
Chaos14:
The most painful thing here is that you think every man born of black parents are the same

Painful??
U are pained??
Why??
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jul 10, 2022
Geminita1:

Yousaywhar? grin Listen, poverty is all about the men. A society is as progressive as the men in it. You either get it or you don't. I know my audience. And its not you


"We" ? cheesy

Yes, but as more and more black women open their options, they become a race of Ruth. kiss

Go read the data you posted.

If black men are in poverty that means black women will be in poverty.

The data also said that 60% of black women are in poverty when compared to black men.

But the reality is if black men were successful, income mobility would have been easier for black women.

Anyway its such a shame that black people male or female, will be stuck in the cycle of poverty for generations.

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 7:00pm On Jul 10, 2022
Funny things is that most black/Naija ladies find it hard to get a white husband when they travel overseas.they are mostly lonley.The Op is really short sighted.The post is created from deep hate and frustration. Las las the OP will marry a black person.Even Bill Gates daughter uploaded a photo with a black man who might be her boyfriend.

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Chaos14: 7:02pm On Jul 10, 2022
WatchYourSix:

Painful?? U are pained?? Why??
I am pained by the stereotype
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by WatchYourSix: 7:07pm On Jul 10, 2022
Chaos14:
I am pained by the stereotype

Lol....
Then why will allow a fallacy-reeking opinion trigger or pain you
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by SIRTee15: 7:08pm On Jul 10, 2022
You are right though that present generation black of men have failed to build a properous civilisation. But remember its the black women that birth and raise the black men. So their failure is also yours.
Besides fantansy of black women to date outside their race could be best described a mirage. Black women are the least likely to date outside their race because they are considered least attractive.
Its a tough world for the black race, best we drop all petiness and develop Africa. That's the only way out.

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Chaos14: 7:11pm On Jul 10, 2022
WatchYourSix:


Lol....
Then why will allow a fallacy-reeking opinion trigger or pain you
Imagine going to america and some body is like "can you understand the words that are coming from my mouth" fmghewzy we need you on this thread
Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Chaos14: 7:17pm On Jul 10, 2022
SIRTee15:
You are right though that present generation black men have failed to build a properous civilisation. But remember its the black women to birth and raised the black men. So their failure is also yours.
Besides fantansy of black women to date outside their race couls be a mirage. Black women are the least likely to date outside their race because they are considered least attractive.
Its a tough world for the black race, best we drop all petiness and develop Africa. That's the only way out.
first reasonable person here

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by JayCynic(m): 7:18pm On Jul 10, 2022
If we want to make it about skin color, your first point on poverty tho is quite funny because if we want to weigh it on a scale, you’ll find that the variable between a rich and financially strong black male is the woman in their lives

I’m fact multiple observable researches suggests that the richer and more successful a black man gets, the lighter and higher up the skin tone. Look at the likes of Michael Jackson, Kanye, Tiger Woods, Ne-Yo, The Weeknd, Wiz Khalifa, Miguel, Michael Jordan, Benjamin O. Davis, Deval Patrick, David Paterson,
In fact, a vast majority of black football players, majority of the NBA, majority of the NFL. Etc


If you compare the defining factors between a poor black male and a rich black male, a black and dark skinned woman is top of the catalogue of the former, so avoid black and dark-skinned women with everything in you

This is the most probable explanation for poverty in the African continent, black women have been plagued with a curse of poverty and intellectual deficit, thus transferring their jinx to black males who are therefore compelled to copulate with these women due to the population’s uni-dimension, thereby transferring their poverty curse to their sons and husbands.
Black women are cursed


Black and dark-skinned women are a curse

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Re: Are These Benefits Of Not Marrying A Black Man According To Statistics? by Afrobasic(m): 7:26pm On Jul 10, 2022
Black women (Nigerian women in this case) out here thinking men from other races want them grin

Can't make this ish up - Kevin Samuels


As to the OP undecided
Point 1: I would never understand why Nigerian women think it is the duty of a man to lift them out of poverty With all the so called women empowerment and feminism BS going on today, you would think that these women would be more self-sufficient, but NO, they see relationship and marriages as a poverty alleviation scheme. undecided

Don't you want to go on vacations? Learn new cultures and retain your innocent and happy-go-well spirit? Don't you like the princess
treatment?

Apparently, you goal in life is "princess treatment" on someone else's hard work?

Indeed you women are leeches angry


Point 2: Marriage isn't about looks. This is what you black women fail to understand! you must contribute something meaningful to the partnership, and from your first point, I can tell that you are useless! (no offense, just an inference from what you have typed) The men who get excited when they marry out do so because, at the very least, they get exposed to more opportunities by virtue of being married to the woman, so yes, it's like winning a lottery to them. Now, tell me, how does being married to a Nigerian women/black women in general benefit any man?

Have you seen a group of black men living through other black men with change who marry women from other races( who we are prettier than in my opinion). You see them spiralling all over the place with so much excitement as if they won the most treasured lottery?


Point 3: Irrelevant!
Africa is the cradle of humanity, not the other way round, Ram or whatever you call him is a descendant of Africa, just like every other human on the planet. Not the other way round.

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