Ninisun:



Go and advise some men to hustle oo, Funke has been paying the mortgage.

But 95% of houses are owned by men ...the 5% wey una get , person no go hear word

1Sharon:


And funke owned the house and jjc was kicked out, what's the issue?

When u own the house , u hv the right to kick ur partner out... but u women want to kick the man that owns the house out ...

MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

I bet you think he should have beaten her! But no, he is not a yeye man- he's just in an environment where he needs to thread softly lest he loses freedom and house!

Something that Nigerian women pass through everytime in Nigeria, we no go hear word now that the man is the victim.

Anyway let me hear the wife side of the story first.

Ninisun:



Who carried out the research? You abi na Tinubu? That man knows what he did, make he talk true first.

U really need to do research... most people don't know that women are more violent towards men that the other way round...

This was the argument I was having with someone, does it mean a wife can unilaterally throw his husband out of a house they jointly own without evidence of physical abuse or divorce? I came back from work, enter my room and she'll just walk up to me and ordered me out and will just obey because its USA, which US law support such action?

Dshocker:



Guy u fit do gra-gra for naija, but not in America.

In Africa a man is a tiger, but becomes a pussycat when he enters America.

If the man had resisted, then a scuffle would have ensued and once that happens, any mark on her body turns to her evidence and they will use that against you in the court of law, when she files for domestic violence.

Kingcalls:


When u own the house , u hv the right to kick ur partner out... but u women want to kick the man that owns the house out ...

Did jjc own the house?

Besides why alll this talk about Funke? Don't men in Nigeria throw their wives out all the time?

Dshocker:
That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.

the issue is not about taking the woman
abroad

if you say the issue is about abroad basically you are saying its OK for women in nigeria to be thrown out of their marriage. of which most african raised people are OK with becoz its accepted as normal never had any issue with it

Now it became an issue when women does the same thing to men

Men have no problem with when they kick out their wives

We only saw few things and we rushed to conclude no one reports themselves its always the other person fault and always tell us what they think we should hear

what i have noticed is that these so called wives take every opportunity to empower themselves try to avoid mistakes that their mothers went through

then for men they still want to have power and control like they used to do back home and power and control gets lost becoz the wife has now have the same power and control through cash

basically if you were abusive to your wife back home, she might be abusive when she financially stable or you feel
threatened and start fights to have control and in the end she gets fedup

Exceed15:


The issue is never move into a woman's house no matter how sweet the love. So when she starts being disrespectful u can send her back to her parent instead of hitting her

Exactly if jjc had been respectful, he won't be on the streets right now.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

Hmmmmm.

Asceleb16:
Many are mad but few are roamimg

Why will a sane man pack into a woman's house? Is that not madness

Orgasmgiver123 da? Pls kick this man's ass and let his brain reset

u sure say u dey hear English wen d man take dey communicate?

MY HOUSE

Africans with no sense whatsoever

Asceleb16:
Many are mad but few are roamimg

Why will a sane man pack into a woman's house? Is that not madness

Orgasmgiver123 da? Pls kick this man's ass and let his brain reset

Did you watch the video at all Or you are using free nairaland? Next time, do the needful before jumping to comment

Dshocker:
That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.

Screw prenup. Just make sure she has given birth to three kids for you. Now if any man shows up and still wants her with three kids by all means please take her. I am outta here!!!

Dshocker:


You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.

If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.

And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.

He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.

Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.

Really, now I know why some Nigerian men pick up gun and kill their wive.

kuntash:
Lol,

I be see one comment from the other thread calling the man smart or intelligent.

The moment private matter enter public how can it be described?

The media don't care to know what has happened, as it is NATURALLY he has failed in managing his home simple and short, passing blames to whimp up sentiments doesn't cut it in matrimony.

If he had recorded for evidence purpose , that can be considered as intelligent move,... Adding his ordeal to the numbers of failed homes is unfortunate, let him rather pack up the pieces and see where issues came up and learn from it to avoid future ones , Life has to continue...

The woman made it public the moment she sent his belongings outside. Brother need to bring it to public so others can learn. Also, he might get help from people who have faced similar faith.

He even said he didn't know what to do, yet you want him to die in silence?

The guy is quite right, in a situation where domestic violence and abuse is absent, no woman have the right to act in such manner, no law support such action exclusively for women without divorce processes.

kingsley989:

Bro I've been following your comment. Please stop arguing, you don't know what you are saying. America no be Nigeria.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

Oga, in the US and Europe, if your wife wakes up one morning and doesn't like your face, she will order you out of your own house you bought with your own money and if you do as much as argue about why you should leave the house and she calls the police, they will come and escort you out of the house with nothing but your suitcase of clothing and nothing will happen o!

If you try to fight her or do gragra...they will lock you up in jaíl!

MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

Partner if you happen to have any kid under 18 trust me you sleeping outside that house until the court says otherwise. And if you put up and start coming out of the woodwork I guess the country cell is your bed for that night. Never pick a fight with your woman on any winter night especially if it is -20 degrees outside. in Chicago. Lawd have Mercy.

prince3009:


Oga, in the US and Europe, if your wife wakes up one morning and doesn't like your face, she will order you out of your own house you bought with your own money and if you do as much as argue about why you should leave the house and she calls the police, they will come and escort you out of the house with nothing but your suitcase of clothing and nothing will happen o!

If you try to fight her or do gragra...they will lock you up in jaíl!

Better tell him !!!!

Persephone1:
Do you intend making your point today ?

Not at all... next year, ask me again..

RaptorX:
Only weak pussy ass men still marry in this Western countries. The satanic globalists started the experiment with the African Americans in the 80's, now they have 80% out of wedlock birth, no father's in the house to instill discipline, most of their children are running wild on the streets commiting crimes and killing each other rotating in and out of prison.

When they saw it was successful now they have tried to implement it to other races especially the Caucasians, but men over there are now refusing to marry again because of the horrible anti man laws, they have all swallowed the red pill. Once they achieve their objective of total destruction of the family structure, all this rights they gave women will be quickly taken away, because it is not about women but a larger and bigger agenda of population control.

You understand the drill sir.

Feminism is rooted in evil and the powers know that is how to put men under control. Our daughters, sisters, wives have swallowed feminism.

Agugbadin:


Really, now I know why some Nigerian men pick up gun and kill their wive.

Exactly I am not saying it is right but I do understand.

I live abroad women are gods men worship them if you know you know.

Infact I will rank how the law favour or protect the individual. In the US or UK the law guide and protects first

1. Children, the govt don't joke with kids, infact if you loose guard the govt can take away your children from you if you no dey responsible, you might not see them again

2. Women, women are men in abroad, you dare not lay your hands on them, that's while most of them are single. They rule the world

3.Dogs, cats(pets). you were expecting the men to be next.lolz. You dare not beat your dog or maltreat your pet, you can go to prison. Just as humans, dogs also have thier own food like human (snacks, chips, etc), health insurance, travel documents and passport to travel they are treated like human beings if not more than human.

4. Man, man na suffer head for here, they worship the women, na your fellow man go tell you, "dont be rude to a lady".

Persephone1:
Does this fracas involve violence?

It's not an insult sire, men conceal their flaws while they crucify the other gender. Like you are doing now. A man will not be sent out of his house or placed on restrictions without tangible reasons. Stop projecting a one sided story. What did your friend do?

Tangible reason like what?

1Sharon:


Did jjc own the house?

Besides why alll this talk about Funke? Don't men in Nigeria throw their wives out all the time?

No one is saying that JJc sudnt b kicked out...afterall, it isn't his house... but u women will scream foul if a man throws a woman out of his house ...

Exceed15:



U go soon collect

I go soon collect goodness and mercy from God Almighty, The Creator of everything there is.

Truth is bitter, abi?

walesho:
I live abroad women are gods men worship them if you know you know.

Infact I will rank how the law favour or protect the individual. In the US or UK the law guide and protects first

1. Children, the govt don't joke with kids, infact if you loose guard the govt can take away your children from you if you no dey responsible, you might not see them again

2. Women, women are men in abroad, you dare not lay your hands on them, that's while most of them are single. They rule the world

3.Dogs, cats(pets). you were expecting the men to be next.lolz. You dare not beat your dog or maltreat your pet, you can go to prison. Just as humans, dogs also have thier own food like human (snacks, chips, etc), health insurance, travel documents and passport to travel they are treated like human beings if not more than human.

4. Man, man na suffer head for here, they worship the women, na your fellow man go tell you, "dont be rude to a lady".

Baba, that is the exact order and you aren't the first person who I know who have given this order. Someone I know in Canada has intimated me on this order...children, women, pets or animals and then man.

Kingcalls:


U really need to do research... most people don't know that women are more violent towards men that the other way round...

Generalisation!

sisisioge:


My brother, dont even ask for too much by asking for submission, ask for fairness. That should suffice for now. It is well.

Unfortunately, majority are still team submission.
They day the woman eye go open, she will become wild woman.
Yet, they submit to their oyibo wives.
Toor

MrBrownJay1:


stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!

You are a real ignorant novice.

The man knows what would proceed if any officer of the law comes into that house by virtue of a created noisy-scene.

The lowest ranked officer would order the man to leave the house first.

That's procedure.

First thing.

Then he can fight his case from outside.

Dshocker:


You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.

If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.

And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.

He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.

Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.

He doesn't need to hit her at all before everything he has worked for will be taken from him and given to her. Hitting her means jail term