Ventura1:
The guy is quite right, in a situation where domestic violence and abuse is absent, no woman have the right to act in such manner, no law support such action exclusively for women without divorce processes.

Kingcalls:


But 95% of houses are owned by men ...the 5% wey una get , person no go hear word

Arelyn:
The problem the black community faces abroad is that of cultural ideology influenced by our innate ego...Truth be told, we are shaped by our culture and influenced daily by our experience in life but the moment we allow our ego(emotion) to come in place of logic when applying ourselves to situations in life, issues like this are bound to happen

Let me start by saying there is a lot that can happen to an individual overseas that will translate to big reputational damage should such an individual apply his or her cultural ideology to it but because of the rules and regulations of the host country, they are not only normal but legally and socially acceptable.

Over time, black women have learnt the ropes within the legal system that they can manipulate to their favour which may be a result of a genuine desire to seek protection from a very "bad" man or just a selfish manipulative quest to dominate a relationship. These laws are possible because more campaigns seek to portray the female gender as an endangered species therefore more regulations are created to support women in these countries.

It is so surprising that "black women are the largest group with the highest divorce rate in the United States " even more than the white woman which doesn't reflect positivity in black women. It is not uncommon for this group of women to become largely illogical and emotions driven, the moment they attain similar or better economic status compared to their men except for those that remain rooted in their cultural ideology and principles of virtuous women

I wonder why these laws are the statistics that "Asian women are the least to divorce their men" remains valid. I work in a team of 13 professionals and on nights out, questions bordering around divorce do come up, it's surprising that the Asian women in my team don't see divorce as an option but my black sisters don't just take the chill pill at all. An Asian colleague once said " when you have a broken toy, you fix it, you don't throw it away " that stuck with me for a while

My submission is not to support those groups of men that are full of themselves and won't mind treating their women badly, if a woman seeks protection from men like that it is understandable and justifiable but I have seen more women get their men in trouble with the authorities just for the sake of better social welfare package.

I just want us, individuals, both at home and abroad to know that the more black families are destroyed, the more black children are not provided with the best opportunity to attain the optimum best for themselves as the statistics show that black children from broken homes are more likely not to turn out well in life...These are evident in most American movies, "blackness" is always characterised by broken homes, drugs, violence etc...The more reason the series "Power" gained more viewership than "Empire" even though they had a similar storyline of grass to grace but power depicts the appropriate narrative of a black man which millions of young black men can relate to the main character's experiences while it suits the narrative an of how Hollywood wants to portray a black man

Dshocker:
That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.

MrBrownJay1:


stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!

Kingcalls:


But 95% of houses are owned by men ...the 5% wey una get , person no go hear word

07kjb:
My wife to be must remain in NIGERIA,not just in NIGERIA but with my mom for checks and balancing

SKIBiNSKI:
Go read what his comments properly, you will understand his utterances.





Lookk! If the man owns the house, i mean, pays the mortgage or bought the house, the woman has no right, again, i repeat she has no right to throw him outta his own house. It doesn't work like that.

If police where called they would advice the man to leave the house, come back when they both calmed down, even if he owns the house.

The woman cannot just throw him outta his house. If so every woman will just throw their husbands outta their houses the house is not in the woman's name, how then can she carry on with the mortgage payments if she throws the owner out?

Ventura1:
This was the argument I was having with someone, does it mean a wife can unilaterally throw his husband out of a house they jointly own without evidence of physical abuse or divorce? I came back from work, enter my room and she'll just walk up to me and ordered me out and will just obey because its USA, which US law support such action?

Dshocker:
That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.

abbey621:
When you understand the laws in America and the psychology of women in general, your life becomes much more peaceful. In the USA, even if you have a prenup or whatever other nonsense document to protect yourself, see that house wey you dey pay the mortgage or wey you don finish paying or bought fully, that house na the woman get am. The reason behind this is that the woman shapes the family and 9 out of 10 times she needs a house to raise the children.

America believes men are strong and as such can survive anywhere, it also believes men have more resources and can afford to get another place. America does not expect you to be a mumu and put all your financial eggs in one basket. As a man whether your wife cheats on you, slaps you, piss on you etc, na you go still leave especially when she claims her life is in danger.

Finally and perhaps the most important of all, no matter how much you love your wife and/or your kids, NEVER EVER FORGET TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF! Always have an account that is untouchable by your wife, the government etc., this account could be the difference between intense depression and thanking God for life......I COME IN PEACE!

Ejiakusmith:
hahahah thanks for the update

anyway him get problem with Tinibu ?

hammer567:
SOMETHING TELLS ME COCOCANDY CANNOT TRY THIS.


NA FOR ONLY NAIRALAND HER FEMINISM START AND FINISH.


I PITY ALL THE GIRLS SHE DEY BRAIN WASH FOR HERE.

Dshocker:
That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.

MrBrownJay1:


stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!

Ventura1:
This was the argument I was having with someone, does it mean a wife can unilaterally throw his husband out of a house they jointly own without evidence of physical abuse or divorce? I came back from work, enter my room and she'll just walk up to me and ordered me out and will just obey because its USA, which US law support such action?

MadarasBlade:


So uncle Egun, what would you suggests we do, i mean those that have jakpa plans in mind?

MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

ZIMDRILL:


have you wondered why even in war women and children are protected?

besides other reason like children being the future

the other main reason is that women are seen as vulnerable to abuse like rape, when she thrown out in the streets, so the western world protect women and children whereas most african practice the women is not protected all

Asceleb16:
Many are mad but few are roamimg

Why will a sane man pack into a woman's house? Is that not madness

Orgasmgiver123 da? Pls kick this man's ass and let his brain reset

Ventura1:
This was the argument I was having with someone, does it mean a wife can unilaterally throw his husband out of a house they jointly own without evidence of physical abuse or divorce? I came back from work, enter my room and she'll just walk up to me and ordered me out and will just obey because its USA, which US law support such action?

Dshocker:



Guy u fit do gra-gra for naija, but not in America.

In Africa a man is a tiger, but becomes a pussycat when he enters America.

If the man had resisted, then a scuffle would have ensued and once that happens, any mark on her body turns to her evidence and they will use that against you in the court of law, when she files for domestic violence. Why didn't he report it to the authorities?

cococandy:

It’s hogwash. Listen to nairalanders at your own peril. They will miseducate you

Ninisun:




Na the woman buy the house dey pay for the mortgage...my mind tells me he was cheating and on top joblessness

koolaid87:


You sounded quite emotional.

Go and learn more about people who have lost their fortunes to that institution. To those unfortunate people, they were succesful in their businesses and professions but failed to regard marriage as a contract hence why they were exploited



Marriage is a business contract and its imperative people treat it as such by protecting themselves should things go south.

jrusky:


Bro you are tight. Any man who wan chop disgrace just mistakenly carry woman go abroad you go hear am. When I was in Belgium years back Demnis my friend lost his house to his wife and they even told him 100 meter right left front back be should not near the building bro I have seen so many of these in the West. Very very unfortunate indeed.