To me the girl ain't cheap oo.
1. Because it takes a brave, serious and mature ( interlectually ) lady to approach a guy, she has feelings for.

2.there is no difference from a lady who approaches a guy and a lady who gives body language to make you feel she loves you. it's just dat the one dat summon courage to approach a guy thinks matured enough, they know what they want and they simply go for it.
IT'S just that nowadays, boys don't value girls dat approach dem,they end up taking there love for granted.......

I'll take my first love story as an example.... We where good friends, before she started having feelings for me.
She couldn't resist any longer, because I was not having feelings for her the way she had for me,dats y she decided to let me know about her feelings,and dat didn't reduce my respect for her, after sometime,I too started falling in love with her, and we started dating,my relationship with her lated the longest,more than even other girls I approach sef...


I said everything from my perspective oooo.
Another person might see reasons why am wrong sef, but it fine everyone has different views on the topic..�❤️

HELL NO for me! I can't propose to a man, It makes me look so cheap. Nigerian men especially would take the lady for granted.

If there is any disagreement in the relationship, A Nigerian guy might say. "after all I didn't or never came 4 u... U did"

My Dear. It's every man's duty to propose to a lady.

You think say husband dey anywhere nowadays? If a guy mistakenly get money for this 9ja, babes go either use pregnancy take propose marriage to you or ring. But majority dey use belle take propose to guys because dem dey shame for the ring aspect. If you mistakenly give those ladies wey dey above 30yrs belle and you get small money, my brother you're a goner. Dem no go ever accept to remove am or even talk about am. Life of an old war horse (ladies above 30yrs) no dey easy oooooo



I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "if you sell your vote because of #5000, your suffer go be premium"

Hmmm...

When a lady tells you she loves before you say anything to her, she's not cheap. It's nigerian men and their alpha male attitude that feel that way

carolingian79:
When a lady tells you she loves before you say anything to her, she's not cheap. It's nigerian men and their alpha male attitude that feel that way

I think it's the African mentality,...
Ladies feel like they can't even handle the pressure and the risk involved in asking a guy out, because rejection is something they can't deal with,.. also if any issue happen, madam go dey reason say, shey na because I go talk pass my mouth ��(ask him out),
Still not a big deal I've been with ladies that asked me out and to be frank, lasted and was more fun)/enjoyable.

A girl telling you she loves you doesn't make her cheap. That's just the ridiculous mentality most Nigerian guys have. When a girl loves you, she'll definitely make the first move, and not every girl would do that because it takes courage. In a nutshell, it doesn't make her cheap.