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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:44am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:I prayed for only 3boys and God has given them to me sound and handsome boys. Your course will only fall back to you. Just because I told you simple truth, you must have cursed someone who results back to sender, this is surely another one. And you will not miss it |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:45am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Yeyeoldman: Are you mad or just plain stupid? She has answered this question several times. Yes, she will take care of her child which is why she wants to exit the stage for the PARENTS of the child to do right by her. OP doesn’t know the child, she shouldn’t love her and she’s definitely not obligated to care for her . 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by apiski(m): 11:45am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: It's clear that your mind is made up and I understand, but my only advice is: take a break and wait for him to figure out a way but don't you quit your marriage. That is not and will never be the solution, it will only compound things in the future. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by eyinjuege: 11:45am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Sterope: Don't mind them. They are staying on code. Using all forms of manipulative tactics. 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by bonnyhope: 11:46am On Jul 31, 2022 |
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by IJOBA11: 11:46am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil:WHAT IS SHE GOING THROUGH PLEASE 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by obua: 11:47am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:get a live in minder or househelp to manage the sick child. This option will cost much less |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by emmysoftyou: 11:48am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:oh I see.. I feel ur pains..Even me too I can't take care of abnormal child let alone living with them..when I gave birth to my first issue, I quickly advice my wife to go for Scan, check the baby well, to know if he's heathy or otherwise.. Today I have two strong boys.. Those days in my school departmental class, we had a romantic argument that if a parent discovered that their offspring is abnormal, what should be the reaction of the parents, they thrown two options, should the parents keep the child and suffered the same reasons you wanted to leave ur marriage or terminate the child.. A brother in my class said if he discovered immediately that the offspring is slowpoke, he would terminate the offspring cos he can't face the stress that follows it.. How old is the girl now? Could it be the reason why ur husband didn't settled down with his girlfriend.. Why will ur husband kept this away from u..that's bad.. U said ur husband earned 15k as salary, how's he coping in an expensive state like abuja .. My sis, it's with u.. Don't give up, u have a good heart from ur explanation of living with ur husband despite not having much money but u belief things will definitely change.. I still pray ur husband finds solution to whatever is making you to be inconvenience in your marriage cos I know you still love him.. It's well with u again.. Life no balance.. Even me wey dey reply u get so many things to yan.. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:50am On Jul 31, 2022 |
iammarvellux: The mother that abandon her didn’t neglect her, the father that leaves her daily knowing fully well she can’t do anything for herself didn’t neglect her, it is OP that neglected her. You will run mad! 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:52am On Jul 31, 2022 |
AfroKnight: Report kwa? She returned the child to the father after single handedly caring for her for 7years. The father should continue. Nr be Toto them take dy care for pikin 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 11:53am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Lovelydaisies:Stop using God's name to try to emotionally blackmail the OP into accepting your nonsensical advice there. How can a child born to a married women be said to be born out of wedlock? You high on wall paint abi wetin? A working solution to what exactly? Her marriage or your delusions of what is her marriage? 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by chigoizie7(m): 11:54am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Nnem I won’t blame you ooh. Do what you must do. If the mother can abandon the child, how much more you? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Lovelydaisies: 11:55am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Yeyeoldman: Oga, the birth mother of the child 'abandoned' the child. The OP herself has said if it were her child, she herself would take care of it. Abi you didn't see it? You didn't blame the birth mother, or the child's father for deceit but come around to blame the lady for wanting to leave? 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:56am On Jul 31, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: What you wished and implied on OPs baby will happen to your 3boys. It is also not unusual for a family to lose all their children in one day. Shey you want to be demonic? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kollinz1234(m): 11:56am On Jul 31, 2022 |
TheFacelessMan:na childishness de worry am |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:58am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:you be witch abi, Ogun kill you. It's too late, you can't do my boys anything. They are now stronger than you think |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:59am On Jul 31, 2022 |
MediMedi: Thank you for describing your mother. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by tonyson010(m): 12:00pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: difficult, but it is not bad for u to rest. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 12:00pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: Ok oooo 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by SaiRuiMallz: 12:02pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
MediMedi:Thank you, she's leaving next month on the 4th |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by biafranrealson: 12:02pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
By next year you will start sending sos messages for help beginning with zero eight zero ..,...... |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by DonMekino(m): 12:04pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:What's your point?? You're trying so hard to put her into a corner?? In as much as you are giving her advice, but your choice of words are totally uncalled for. You started with accusing her of being in the rship cos of sex...if she insults u now, it will be that she's rude, but u started it. U think that u can really find out everything about someone? Atimes ppl allow u see the only thing they want u to see. From all indication, the man hid the existence of the child, yes she might have probed, but that doesn't mean she would discover. Taking care of a child in that condition, coupled with her condition, she MUST need help, emphasis on must. Because, maintaining the hygiene might even predispose her on baby to infection. Stuffs like this is not what you barge someone into doing, I completely understand her situation. At this point she needs to be pampered being her first preg 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Uniquekriss(m): 12:06pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:who is this wan sef, you brought your ass to public domain and asked for opinions which I'm giving you, moreover, did I ask you to take care of the child? I kept hammering that u tell him to take the child elsewhere while u stay with your man cos I'm not in support of divorce except when it involves domestic violence, I don't even blame you, he was never your husband, you were only cohabitating that's why you were seven months gone after 2months of marriage. I'm tryna help you and you're here talking nonsense. U can leave him and jump to another man and get pregnant, this time around what you'll discover about him after you're 8½ months pregnant would be worse. Mtcheeeew |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by BigIyanga: 12:06pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Pls follow ur heart and japa. There is no nobility in suffering. He concealed such info from you. Run and go take care of your own kid 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by biafranrealson: 12:06pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Why not get a nanny that will take 20-30k per month and the girl will be with you people instead of taking her somewhere for 200k |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Trojan8(m): 12:07pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
All I can say is that, this thread just shows that they are a lot of mad people in Nigeria. One was even blaming the woman for not finding out on time, are you MAD? Madam, please leave. You can't throw your life away for a wicked man. The fact that he could allow the mother take care of the child for 7 long years without doing anything shows that he's wicked. There's nothing to be gained from staying in such a union. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 12:07pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
afadi2410: Why isn’t anyone asking the father to take care of his child? The mother took care of her for 7years without any financial support. Why can’t the man take care of her? Why ? 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 12:08pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
luluosas:You're the stupid fool here, carry your sister or mother and dash the man let them take care of the physically challenged child themselves. Morons everywhere 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 12:09pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
wowcatty:Simply donate your own sister to go and take care of the physically challenged child. It's that simple 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 12:09pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Le2money:Donate your sister to the man, simple 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ten06(m): 12:09pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino: I don't join issue with psychiatric patient |
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