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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ten06(m): 1:09pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino: Your mother was a prostitute and you take after her footstep. Your family will die. Anuofia 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Le2money(m): 1:10pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
You are right but blv me when we have headache, does cutting off the head from the neck the solution? The man can simply ask his own mom to come and look after the child and it would be an agreement btw the wife and husband....I think u understand my point too Ndidi2: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by danot1030: 1:10pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Anybody advising you not to quit do not have idea of the situation you are in. Taking care of a cerebral palsy child is a whole lot of burden. Your decision to leave is in order. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:10pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
generalwo: You can DM OP with your offer. I feel strongly for the child too. If you can, please do. She needs all the help she can get. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ten06(m): 1:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino: May you never see any good thing in life before you die young 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by advanceDNA: 1:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
UjuJoan2: This is funny...u are guilt-tripping someone that has no experience taking care of kids with special needs, that cant walk, talk or do basic function.... the funniest part of your guilt-trippimh statement is the "little girl clearly needs you" .... the little girl needs her mother not a pregnant stranger with a financially struggling man... The mother that abandoned her with a man that wont be around and a woman thats a total stramger to the child is the one that needs this sermon. .. I mean, what kind of mother abandons her special needs child with people that have no experience caring for such child..?? 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Yeyeoldman: So you still don’t want to adopt her? Ogbeni get out. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Le2money(m): 1:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
All this things u mentioned would befall everyone in ur family and that's a big Amen from my side as I have never wished u bad but u wishing others bad, that bad will hunt everyone of ur family including ursev Nozino: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by iammarvellux(m): 1:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:see you so fraustrated in this life..can't you see how you started cursing yourself, this CURSE shall follow you. Not everyone you see you curse. Op never cursed then why you? Since you have decided to take panadol on another man's headache, let Men never cease from cursing you from now on. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Duchessree(f): 1:12pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
GraciousVictor: I'm not a teen, neither am i a shame to my parents and i understand life already. Y'all that is telling OP to stay and take care of the child, why don't you reach up to her and provide your help too na. Child that both parents abandon, you want OP to take care of her. Taking care of that child means OP is dedicating her full life to it. Even the husband family don't want to render any form of assistance to her, and she's pregnant o. If the husband have told her about the child and her condition, OP would have been prepared for it. But just having a child with special needs dumped on you all of a sudden. Omo guy reason am now. Even the husband family don't want to help. If OP had seen assistance from the family, do you think she will want to leave. It's good to drop advice when you're not in the person's shoes o. 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Le2money(m): 1:13pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Read very well before u commenting next time.....I just said the man can bring in his own Mom to look after the child.....Simple Femifasola: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by generalwo(m): 1:13pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:.... I'm not really used to naira land... I don't know how to send dm... If you can assist wit the man's number I'll reallt appreciate it |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ugmama(m): 1:13pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Femifasola: Thanks for the input, though maternal infection during pregnancy could as well result to it. . You should study well bro Cheers |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blanks1(m): 1:15pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Taking care of a special need child is a full time job which is why developed countries pay trained, qualified and certified nurses for such a job. But I doubt Naija government has got any efficient social welfare system running for such kids. To think the man hid this information from his-to-be-wife even makes it unforgivable. His failure to disclose and discuss such a delicate situation deprived her the right of informed choice, which is indicative of a manipulator. Now his innocent pregnant wife is saddled with a responsibility she wasn’t prepared for. Sad! Opp, I suggest you LEAVE for your own sanity and the sanity of your unborn baby at least for now until you have your baby, hopefully, after delivering you would be in the best mental and emotional state to objectively reappraise the whole situation. And I must add, should you remain in the marriage, don’t be in a hurry to have more kids until your (family) financial situation improve considerably. A man who can’t even afford a mate for as low as 25k shouldn’t be in a hurry to marry let alone making babies 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by onlinestaff2020: 1:16pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino: Op, don't contact NOZINO! It has been confirmed that he is one of the ritualists looking for innocent babies to use. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:18pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
generalwo: Send OP an email and take it from there. Contrary to your thoughts, I do not know OP or her husband from anywhere. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
iammarvellux: You that is dead? You see how you life is hard currently, do you want to finish yourself? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by eyinjuege: 1:20pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
onlinestaff2020: I am a Yoruba woman. Men lazying around is not part of our culture and has never been. Never ever been. In our culture though, our women are given equal opportunities as the men or even more. It is not surprising to see us contributing financially in our homes. There's nothing strange about that. The only problem Yoruba men seem to have is chasing women up and down, but it's really not a Yoruba thing but a Nigerian man thing as I've come to realise. Yoruba boys have just been used as poster boys for philandering men while in reality they are not as bad as some others 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ulunne777(f): 1:20pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Chai! NNE just do what your heart tells you.Nobody I mean don't let anybody guilttrip you but separation at first 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:21pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Le2money: But it’s already in your gene. It’s in your generation. And that’s because you wished an innocent woman and her baby evil. So I had to do God’s work, magnify and return your evil plans. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by fman(m): 1:21pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:I swear nah only rubbish Full my head-pan. But I dey use am cash-out. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:21pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Ten06: I do not talk to the dead. You are the dead. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Bonjovi13: 1:22pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Your husband didn't disclose such an important information prior to your union and truthfully that's enough grounds to divorce him.I guess the question is do you love him and cherish your marriage enough to stay and work through this difficult time? Every marriage has its challenges, this time you are not at fault,you can make demands and cause issues. Tomorrow in the marriage things could turn and you will be at fault and your husband will be in a position to make demands and cause issues. You have decided to quit the marriage but have you asked yourself if you can given it a chance, have you exercised enough patience, have you prayed enough, have you stood by your husband enough. You have a choice to save your marriage and deposit into the future of your marriage. Besides you are expecting a child which will bound you with your husband for ever. What are you going to tell your child. How do you Know what will happen in future. Consider these things. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Le2money(m): 1:22pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
This is not about being weird.....the message reads "She is already having 7 months old pregnancy" since this has happened, solution to this is what is needed in which that's where the Guy's Mom can come in to take care of the child ...now leaving the guy Cox of the disabled child never guarantee her of getting a man that will marry her with her pregnancy, or marry her with the child. Maybe I don't know how to make this more explanatory. ....The Lord will give the child a good health and the Pregnant woman a safe delivery as well... Peace �️ cococandy: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by GraciousVictor(m): 1:24pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Duchessree:alright i get your point now. how old are you? sorry to ask |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Le2money(m): 1:24pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
You are a complete Mad Man and I can see u are only looking for a cheap attention....if not, u won't quote me out of context....maybe u av problem reading and u should go back and read it again or give ur fone to any sensible person around u to explain what I typed to u. Nozino: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:25pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
UjuJoan2: Why can’t the girl’s father be there for her? I’m genuinely curious? 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kayperry: 1:25pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Ginaz: Seems you believe so much in God, so did God tell you its compulsory she leaves before solution fit come, will it be tew much as a couple to brainstorm together thru the storm. Just one week, she want to japa if naa her child she fit japa, according to her the husband earn peanut i think poverty furstration is more a catalyst she just wan use that child save face[b]. naa poor man house woman dey get principle [/b] for better for stay for worst i japa .. is the trend |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ulunne777(f): 1:25pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
advanceDNA: So the man who couldn't provide a dime for the care of a special needs child both birthed isn't wicked?Some of you are just so wicked its unbelievable. David Nnachi abandoned their own for Jodie the lady that sang' Kuchi kuchi'.She's even crying and talking bout being depressed let alone a 7 month old preggy woman. Fear God 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 1:26pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Ugmama:Commonest things occur commoner, if you were talk about the major cause of something u start with the commonest, still educate yourself better. Cheers. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 1:27pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Yeyeoldman:I still maintain that you donate your sister to do what you've suggested. Thank you 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 1:27pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
komek: Whether OP leaves or stays, it doesn’t change the father that he is the father of the child and should contribute to the child’s upkeep. You people are so unfair to women. Is this how you are in real life? 6 Likes 1 Share |
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