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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 3:37pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino: I pray life don't happen to you, it can be very lonely And scary. Don't take things for granted Bro, Your day can become night without any warning. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by cocolacec(m): 3:38pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: let your husband get a houselhelp for you to asisst you with the girl.The little girl deserves all the love she can get from her family.Please let her stay with you as a service to humanity.It is not her fault she was born with disability. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:You are mentally unstable. Seek help. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
GraciousVictor: Late 40s yet keep reasoning like a kid! Ikwakwakwa, I said I fit born you! While in Uni, you were in primary school...Taaaaaah For your information, being autistic is different from cerebral palsy! Why not read about it before passing your unreasonable judgement. Why not request for the hospital you work to take in the child? Just imagine a man supporting what a fellow rubbish man did. This same foolish man abandoned the ex-wife cus of this child and you want this vulnerable woman to bear the brunt You are too mean. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:40pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Honestly for the sake of my step daughter I will not make his life hard, I rather my family return the money to him so he can use it to take care of her if he care about her . As long I am alive I will work hard to take care of my son. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Goldie16(f): 3:42pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Tell him to give her a supplement called Suprabrain. It will help her to regain some or most of her lost functioning. Gradually though but it's a cheaper option than the 200k school where she will just be cared for without hope of improving. The marriage was built on deception in the first place, therefore, you are not obligated to stay. Taking care of special needs children is a very daunting task even to their own parents. Emotionally, physically and financially tasking. It's not for the broke and faint hearted at all. Don't mind anyone who is trying to guilt trip you, they're not being sincere. If you stay though and go through this with him, he'll love you more for it. But make sure he is worth it and deserves such sacrifice. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by mekzyjoe(m): 3:42pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:If after u have left and divorced him, and God forbid,ur child turns out also to b disabled,what would you do? Think from both sides n seek God n ur pastor advice too |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by sunnymighty(m): 3:44pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Leave that young man to his ignorance, google is everybody's friend. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:45pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
obiyor2000: That will be great I pray he found her as soon as possible so she can start taking care of her because he need to go to work and the child can't be home alone she need to be supervised. If you know any of your sisters or someone around you who can take care of the child please let me know I will give you his contact so you can connect him to her. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 3:45pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Your family returns that money and this man will turn around and marry another woman. So unless you intend to hand the money directly to maybe his previous wife under the condition that she will go take the child back, you are likely making no difference in the life of the child. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by umurphy: 3:45pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Work on your marriage first before leaving. I have experienced such a situation in pH. The lady ran away. The hubby was doing all he could for the child. Another Very beautiful lady had sympathy for the guy, started helping, both fell in love got married few months an NGO came to their rescue and viam. Both landed in Europe. The first lady heard 2 yrs later and to with troubles and name calling. Do not loose him. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by harmony75: 3:46pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Marriage is for better and for not so good times. Please don't leave your marriage for this reasons for it is not an excuse. You can help to care for this child with good suggestions that's why we get married to be help mate so in which way have you been a help mate to this your husband and his family. I like to my impact to be felt anywhere I settle. There will always be bad times and good times, you don't love this man so why did you marry him? You think marriage is only for good times, do you know tomorrow?! |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 3:47pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
mekzyjoe:God and a pastor? You dare place a pastor on par with God as far as counsel? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:47pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
mekzyjoe: God forbid bad things I will not have any disable baby do not make me guilty because I am not her birth mother she is not my responsibility. Both of her parents are alive everyone should take care of their responsibility,. The same way I will be taking care of mine in the village 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by inforesource: 3:48pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Anyone who does this can not be trusted and trust is a major ingredient in a marriage. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by 8stargeneral: 3:49pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:ofcours...is not easy to cope with such child with ur condition...I know ur husband is feeling d heat as well...but please don't divorce ur husband instead go somewhere and rest for like two or there months 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 3:49pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
umurphy:So are we then to assume from this fantastical tale of yours that every couple who caters to a disabled child ends up taking to Europe to live happily ever after? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wired4comfort(f): 3:49pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:Yeah "their child" you're right |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by BloomingDale(f): 3:53pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
killmods: Why should the lady be forced to compromise and save the issue? Is it her child? Let the man and the child’s mother seek for solution and leave the 7 month pregnant wife alone. I hear you people tell your fellow men to divorce a lady once she cheats and that she should not be forgiven. I don’t hear you guys say for better, for worse. Are you not running away from such union? I swear, you Nigerian men are the most selfish of all men on this planet. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 3:54pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Yeyeoldman:There is nothing like 'life happening'. There is absolutely no one who has it easy going 100%. You're a wicked man for wanting a pregnant woman to shorten her life and that of her baby in the womb bc of an irresponsible man whose baby mama dumped a baby for an innocent pregnant woman. Go tell your sister to go take care of the physically needy child, you've been ignoring it. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Lovelydaisies: 3:54pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: What exactly is your problem with my post, God's General? Wedlock is marriage, according to my dictionary. If she divorces him, won't her child be born out of wedlock? I only mentioned that her child would be raised out of wedlock, not be born. Then, a working solution to the care of the child should be found. Is it a blasphemy I said? I'm not a supporter of divorce, hence, my suggestion that a way be made. Lastly, am I not allowed to mention God's name in public, as well as give advice? Mr, don't try to bully me this afternoon. My post isn't nonsensical. Rather, yours is. Maybe you have difficulty in comprehending simple posts. And please, quote me no longer. Good day. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 3:54pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
killmods:Cc lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J rule 2 at emboldened |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:55pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
umurphy: The experience is not the same as mine because the lady met the guy with his daughter in that condition so she knew about her from the beginning and have accepted to marry him and help him taking care of the child. My case is different because he didn't tell me anything about the child if he had told me i would have the choice to stay or quit and I wasn't prepared rhen boom the mother came and dropped her just like that and do you expect me to stay and carry the burden ? 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by teekay213(m): 3:55pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:I so much love this your reply..let those people condemning you come and carter for the child..some people don't reason before replying 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 3:58pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Lovelydaisies:1. The term born-out-of-wedlock refers to those conceived outside of marriage union. 2. God never said divorce is sin so what does it matter here whether you personally support divorce or not when God whose name you brandish against her does not stand where you do? 3. Not when you are clearly attempting to use His name to propagate what is a lie. 4. I have no intentions of bullying you since I have better things to do with my energy. Simply pointing out the silly ideas you push using God's name. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:58pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
teekay213: Yes ooo at this moment he is alone with the child they should go and help him. actions speak louder than words. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by BloomingDale(f): 4:02pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Ulunne777: My sister, the selfishness of these Nigerian men was giving me high blood pressure. I had to step back from this thread. The only reason I can deduce is that they have no idea how daunting it is to take care of a disabled child that can do nothing for herself. Even they will run away from such responsibilities after just one day, and yet they have the audacity to come against this poor woman. Biko, she should run and not even look back. Let the biological parents take care of their child. No be she kill Jesus. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by xproducer: 4:02pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: +++++++++++ It is not easy... but please pray continually to the Lord God for wisdom and strength. Look to the word of God for answers, not to people. "And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife." - 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 "Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven." - Matthew 18:21-22 "And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the Lord of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously." - Malachi 2:15-16 "What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder." - Mark 10:9 |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Badgers14: 4:03pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
EgunMogaji2: It depends on when they found out.. some of these hospitals are nothing to write home about.. in antenatal care they just ask Madam how are you doing? Then give them some folic acid and multivitamins. If they found out, it might probably too late in the pregnancy to consider termination. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by BloomingDale(f): 4:05pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by GraciousVictor(m): 4:05pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Ninisun:okay ma'am. check your mailbox |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by teekay213(m): 4:08pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:yeas,apart from your husband lying to you for not informing about the child before marriage...the man is a wicked man for leaving his wife with a disability child to trick you to marriage.why didn't he stay with her and they raised the child together..that your husband is a wicked man and he deserves what's going through now. 1 Like |
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