My fiancee never ceases to amaze me. I have noticed a certain behaviour for a while which gets practically worse by the day.

It is obvious we love each other but the problem is that she is nice, courteous and very friendly to everyone around including my family members EXCEPT me.  My parents think she is an angel but her "not-so-nice" side she shows me when we are alone is best imagined.

She's appears to be a good girl but gets angry very easily at very minor things and as you would think she's very unpredictable.  Once she gets moody, Im the one who suffers it, although she tries to manage the situation when around others but unleashes her annoyance raw on me.

Please house, Is this a normal attitude cos I keep wondering, am I not the one she should be more friendly and open to? Afterall, im the one she's getting married to and not my parents/brothers.

Is she not just pretending to love me with this chameleon-like attitude? Everyone sees her as a good wife material but Im really bothered.

Any advice?

(NB: Please dont tell me to sit her down and talk heart-to-heart cos that has never worked, once angry, she never listens to me (but will listen to others) except I give her enough time to cool down)

good for you.

@OP: Go your separate ways please. No bi by force!

Marry her and bid your happiness and marriage bye-bye!

Op

Only the wearer knows where the shoe bites

Shes your shoe not your family's so replace the shoe or cut your toes so that the shoe can fit.

That means.you need extra grace to accomodate her outbursts because,

It's better to stay outside on the roof of your house than to live inside with a nagging (I add angry)  wife.

Here are some tips
Don't keep sharp objects around
Go get CORRECT ODESHI Cos dhe might shoot you outta anger one day

I think she likes u, but does nt luv u

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No one is doubting the love just the guy's safety

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No one is doubting the love just the guy's safety

Mynd_44:

Here are some tips
Don't keep sharp objects around
Go get CORRECT ODESHI Cos dhe might shoot you outta anger one day

CORRECT ODESHI!!! W.T.F!!!

eliyahu:

My fiancee never ceases to amaze me. I have noticed a certain behaviour for a while which gets practically worse by the day.

It is obvious we love each other but the problem is that she is nice, courteous and very friendly to everyone around including my family members EXCEPT me.  My parents think she is an angel but her "not-so-nice" side she shows me when we are alone is best imagined.[/b]She's appears to be a good girl but gets angry very easily at very minor things and as you would think she's very unpredictable.  Once she gets moody, Im the one who suffers it, although she tries to manage the situation when around others but unleashes her annoyance raw on me.

[b]Please house, Is this a normal attitude cos I keep wondering, am I not the one she should be more friendly and open to? Afterall, im the one she's getting married to and not my parents/brothers. Is she not just pretending to love me with this chameleon-like attitude? Everyone sees her as a good wife material but Im really bothered.

Any advice?

(NB: Please dont tell me to sit her down and talk heart-to-heart cos that has never worked, once angry, she never listens to me (but will listen to others) except I give her enough time to cool down)

In one sentence dude. Flee from this girl.

in my opinion,your girl is just pretending to be a good girl so she can hook you hence the niceness to your family members and others.
Methinks she doesnt love you one bit.flee!

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does he need to be told that again? Seriously even a two year old would know that

ur girl no send u o, no dey dia dey deceive urself say una love each other, u r in an abusive relationship which is not healthy, except u hav a low esteem, walk

She is just waiting to say "i do". . . then she wud be wicked to everyone

@ POSTER

you've said it all "chameleon-like attitude" is that the kind of person you wish to spend the rest of your entire life with?

the choice is yours.

op

waz she a boxer before u met her