PLEASE PRIOR TO SHARING THIS, I UNDERSTAND WE NIGERIANS HAVE A WAY OF TURNING JOKE, MOCKERY AND HUMOR OFF VERY SENSITIVE, EMOTIONAL TOPICS AS THE ONE I SEEK AID ON, BUT WHILE YOU GUYS WILL LIKELY CALL ME NAMES, MAKE JOKES OF ME, PLEASE BE CONSTRUCTIVE WITH YOUR CRITISM OR BETTER STILL SCROLL PAST, HOWEVER YOUR VERY WISE ADVICE WILL BE MUCH APPRECIATED.

I am 38, single ....resides in luxembourg, sure I seek love, but haven't been so lucky, anyways few months ago, I met a philipino online (I know you will smile though), she was so decent , understanding, beautiful , I mean as we all know asians are very home grounded, respectful, least corrupt and a bit reserved.

We both are deeply in love with each other , but then as, we all know, it's easier for a calf going through the eye of a needle than seeing a female filipino without a child, due to strong presence of catholicism in there and their lack of sexual exposure etc....she had 3 kids with a partner, 14 , 11 and 4 years kids, 2 boys and a girl.

She had sperated from him as a result of his irresponsible behavior...

Guys i really love this girl so much, but I'm am afraid if I decide to marry her, I may share the responsibility of catering for the kids, as the dad have moved on ....etc , the girl ain't there financially ..

At 35 , she seems so way above her age, in terms of conduct, and won't have problems leaving the kids with her parents , but sure being a scorpio, scorpios are crazy about their family, kids, am concerned she won't be too comfortable with me with her kids with her parents and again .....I believe I will still be seeing to the kids welfare, sure I would have loved having the kids for myself , but the law in their country ain't like ours where a legit hubby claims the child of another.

Please guys I am confuse


And please if you haven't been in such situations....take it easy beating me up with your sarcasm

Marry her if you like, if later you find out she is not for you seek divorce. Divorce is not death sentence. You are allowed to make mistake as a human being, being too calculative is our problems sometimes

u will be tormented if u can't use ur head when ur heart is involved,

we dont manage relationship issues, solve all ur fears, ur anxiety and ur worries before saying "yes i do" on the alter.

Just because other people handled it very well doesnt mean u could.
Check ur strength, if u no fit handle the pressure, no try to manage am.

This is the main reason why most people divorce after marriage, the redflag was there, u just decide to ignore it cos love deh choke u

In this situation, you marry both mother and children together, even if the children don't stay with you, you have an obligation to take care of them as their step dad. But someone with three children already, are you making a right decision? Had it been she has just a single child now, it would have been a better case.

Only A He Goat Will Marry A Woman Who Has a Child For Another Man Talkless Of 3 Kids For Another Man.

The World Is Full Of Beautiful Women. Do You Know How Many Beautiful Girls I Have Met that Made Me Feel Like A Fool For Calling My ex The Love Of My Life?
Oga better Wise Up

So She Didnt Know The Man Was Irresponsible When She fvck and Born 1, after uncountable fvcking and Three Children from Irresponsible Man na You Won Marry Am.

Abi She Don Forget The Times when She Was Shouting "fvck me Hard baby", "cum in My Pussy baby... get me pregnant baby, feel Me with your seeds", "cum in my mouth".

What Do You Think Her pussy would Look Like Sef? God Forbid. No Allow Woman Manipulate You Oh.

padi94:
Marry her if you like, if later you find out she is not for you seek divorce. Divorce is not death sentence. You are allowed to make mistake as a human being, being too calculative is our problems sometimes

Thanks

tayo60:
In this situation, you marry both mother and children together, even if the children don't stay with you, you have an obligation to take care of them as their step dad. But someone with three children already, are you making a right decision? Had it been she has just a single child now, it would have been a better case.

Thanks