Helpout12345:


OP, this is the advise you need. And ignore that teenager up there.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Blessedmercy8:


Hmm.. he's 40 and I'm already 41.
When are we now going to start having children if we still delay?



Exactly my point.



Ok.

GenderMix:
No doubt money is very key to sustaining a marriage. Infact it's one of the key ingredients that can help grease love. The lack of money can make love go sour...lol...

Having said that, marriage has an ultimate aim which is for companionship. As far as both of you have the drive to succeed and are not lazy and can cut you cloth according to your size then the amount may just be inconsequential.

If the man earns 100k, he has the qualities you like and is focused then you can start with that. Just ensure he has common sense and listens to advise. It doesn't matter if as a lady you earn higher than him. You guys should have plans and execute them together. Just encourage him by supporting him financially. Just assist him but let him be the one to take care of the major bills.

Plan around the money you earn. Don't live above your means. There are pragmatic means you can adopt to cut cost. Forget the pressure around, most of what you see are illusions. Just focus on your happiness.

I wish you best of luck.

henrimoto:
Apart from earning 100k/monthly, does he have the positive characters you desire your man to have ? Is he 'God-fearing' type ? Are you happy and relax, whenever he is around ? See, @blessedmercy. There is room for GROWTH, IMPROVEMENT & ENLARGEMENT in marriage.

EmahBoss:
If you also earn something similar to what he earns, yes, you can pull it through. Just limit childbearing to one or two and enjoy yourself. Look for a side hustle to meet up with the family expenses. Do a very low-key wedding. Don't try to keep up with the Joneses

Ignore jennyclay she is still a teenager and will always say the opposite just so she can get popular on nairaland. With the way she hops on every thread, she is jobless. She is a broke girl probably begging one guy to marry her so she can be free of frustration. Yeye dey smell

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

ira3oladosu:
U r blessed beyond measuresU r blessed beyond measures...

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

fman:

You even see man wey dey make 100k
For this APC regime and u dey complain..
With the situation of things in Nigeria,
Oya leave him
U go mad as many girls go dive him!!
Even jennyclay that just commented rubbish above me
Go follow rush am!

tensazangetsu20:

You guys are in your 40s nna men.

etrouble:


And which pastor told you that you have been destined me er to make money? Go make your own millions, then marry a billionaire. Until then, shut the fucck up

Millz404:


41 and still making choice based on 100k instead of you to roll your sleeves up and contribute your own quota to make things work. There is a reason why alimony will never work in Nigeria, because most of the women go into marriage wholly dependent on the man. I just watched an American show this afternoon and a couple were contemplating renting a house and there were busy dividing expenses, and that is how it is mostly there, that's why when there have problems it is very easy for the woman to kick the man out. They even pull up funds to buy homes together and have their names together on the deed. All these poverty plagued third world country women will instead want to add more poverty to the man.

emmaodet:


Just imagine if a woman close to menopause, no more in her prime, beauty dropping drastically is still making this kind of request, just imagine how entitled, pompous, selective and arrogant she would have been in her 20’s and 30’s

emmaodet:


And funny enough, she has been holding on since her 20’s, banging different rich guys all in the name of relationship to secure them but dem dey chop clean mouth.
All of a sudden, she found herself in her 40’s.
Unaccomplished, no kids, no family, no reasonable relationship and to make it worse, she is not even financially prepared for the life in her 40’s and above without a support from a man.
What a life

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

fman:

You!!
How much u dey make?

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

iLegendd:


Those of us that earn more than that even while we sleep are not ready to marry you people (especially when you have character issues or materialistic). All we want is great sex, no infection, and peace of mind.

We will f*ck you and still f*ck your bestie behind you because she too wants a man with money and this makes her vulnerable.

After men with money are tired of using you, you'll still settle with a man who earns less or stay single or be a rich man's babymama.

Your job is not to leech your husband, but complement his effort with yours. Be a great woman (not a social media queen who sleeps around) so that you can get a great and rich man.

sultan003:


How much is the lady earning?��

ITbomb:
70 percent of government workers (civil servants) do not earn more than 100k, yet they have lovely families

It is not how much you earn, it's more of how discipline you are