The major problem with this sins is that they are addictive. You don’t quit them. YOU REPLACE THEM!!!
The problem with betting is that you have to stay awake all the time quitting major project that would have added to your life and you end up getting nothing. the frustration and maybe to please yourself then you find yourself masturbating/lesbian act(the worst of it all).
When you are done, you feel tired, rejected, anger and you wish you never started the betting and even the masturbation too. you feel totally frustrated that no one can help you. When you eventually come out of it, you get some money, bet again, masturbate again, frustrated again and looks like nothing works for you and the cycle continues.
i can go on and on describing what you feel but i feel how you come out of it is more important to me than describing what you feel.

Masturbation/Betting wont just leave you, its a stronghold. you cant just say you want to stop it. i dont need a soothsayer to to know you are addicted to porn too because they all go hand in hand.

Now, inorder to quit betting/masturbation/pornography it has to be replaced!!! Now you are wondering, how do i replace it?Maybe You think you can replace it with chasing and sleeping with men/women. NO. it will still hunt you. Sleping with men/women when you are not married is still sin. You really need a greater power to replace this thing.
THINGS TO NOTE
1. They are secret sin and you need to communicate it to someone who can help you.(you are doing that now)
2. I have never seen anything that replaces masturbation/betting/pornography especially just as engaging in the activities of GOD.(1. Going to church, join a department, reading your bible, praying, attending midweek service, bible studies, look forward to vigil, join a department and be functional like cleaning church every Saturday, and take your personal work very serious)

IF YOU LIVE THE LIFE I POINTED IN POINT 2, YOU WILL SEE MASTURBATION/PORNOGRAPHY/BETTING DIE A NATURAL DEATH IN YOUR LIFE.

3. Those 3 evil things MASTURBATION/PORNOGRAPHY/BETTING will eat up your finance that you will frustrated and may want to just kill yourself or even start duping someone to meet up. it will reduce your self ego and you will avoid being in a relationship because you will think you have nothing to offer. It will kill you slowly.

4. Like i said, keep speaking to someone who has gone through it.(you will later want to avoid them because you might struggle a bit after telling them about it and that will make you abscond them when you feel you cant quit. but dont give up. sometimes walk up to them. keep doing the solution i offered in point 2. it will die naturally when you start those activities.

5. Imagine being in church by 7am. identify with them. dont just go to service. be the one to make the service happen. help arrange chairs, instruments, welcome people, ushering , just do something that is service in the house of GOD. dont just leave service. identify with people. join church meetings.

6. Be in midweek services, bible study, prayer meetings and ensure you presence will be missed if you miss service by chance. above all keep studying your bible at home. pray in the morning. keep asking God for strength to help you. God loves you so much. When he sees your heart that you are struggling to quit, he will come to help you. dont ever give up. you might likely go back to it but come out again immediately, ask for forgiveness and continue to do things that will help you quit it.

7. If you do these things, you will see how your business/life and everything around you will turn around positively. you will be glad you did. you will wake every morning and be glad you are this great person even if you dont have food to eat. you will be glad. nothing gladdens my heart more than peace of mind.

8. Always know God prefers you who is struggling looking up to him for help knowing you cant help yourself than the man who is not struggling and has pride that he can help himself. Lazarus died so you could know God can raise the dead. you are going through this to know God can help you quit this.

9. To finally kill this thing, try helping someone come out of this. after you must have practiced all i told you and is working for you, start telling someone who is struggling with this. when you start sharing the testimony and encouraging people you will see you have been lifted and you are in a position to drag someone out.

10. you want to know how i know this and everything you are facing, i was there. I masturbated/pornograghy for 17 years, today i am free by the grace of God. i am a worker in church and i hate missing service. my business that crumbled rose to a 10 million naira business in less than 6 months. today i pay my tithe and i am married am so happy. all my self lost ego came back and i am married to the most beautiful wife on planet earth. you too can be greater than me.

Jesus can bring you out of it. that was exactly why he died. he knew you couldnt come out of it if he didnt lay down his life. Jesus wanted to quit but he was thinking of these struggle you were going through and that was why the bible said he sweat was dripping from his body as if it was blood on the night he was captured. he stood his grand contending with death for you so you dont die. Christians dont die. they sleep. Death is meant for sinners. i love you so much. i hope you realize he helped me so i can help you and so you help others and we will all fufill the plan of God.

I pray that God through the power of Jesus will deliver you and you will be a testimony to your generation. God bless you.

if you want to reach me further for counselling or someone to talk to,click the link below to fill the form below and i promise to reach out to you. God is waiting. Jesus is waiting. If God couldn't hold back his son for you, he wants to help you quit MASTURBATION/PORNOGRAPHY/LESBIANISM/BETTING.

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