So would go straight to the point guys. Would really appreciate all the advice i can get. Honest one’s though. I just opened this account to post this.

So there’s this girl I like from my Nigeria before Moving to Canada. I’ve always had a crush on her for years she’s so so beautiful, but was too shy to tell her my feelings, but I’m thinking of telling her my feelings. Though don’t want to rush things, I’m 25 yrs by the way though. She has a good character and attitude, I’m still observing though,

My question is this , few years down the line would be thinking of marriage , should I tell her my feeling and just be friends for now , then later ask her out say next year or so. Or all this would work.

Note ; she also has a strong desire of relocating to Canada too. I hate wasting my time when it comes to relationship and all.

Your advice would be needed.
My heart is fragile, very fragile

u are just a kid

Your heart is fragile,

Wentin concern me,
Just dey decieve yr self here,
waiting for advise from home breakers.

Hmmm, just curious why do you feel that way though. I’ve had two past relationships in Nigeria that was really bad, learnt a lot and I’ve been through a lot too in life , that’s why I’m not loosing my head all in the name of love but at the same time , the girl has good attitude, ambition and character so im just keeping my options open.

But would gladly appreciate your advice too

Currentblog:

Your heart is fragile,

Wentin concern me,
Just dey decieve yr self here,
waiting for advise from home breakers.

Hmm interesting…

As in i dont just get it. Why just choose to put yourself under emotional torture

Let me get this straight: you're in Canada, she's in Nigeria, and you're thinking of telling her you like her? And you don't already know what her answer would be? Guy pls don't dull yourself. She's most likely to just use you to climb aboard and then show you her true colors, which you would have seen if you had the boldness of talking to her when you were in Nigeria. My sincere advice is that you just close that gate

Cutehector:
As in i dont just get it. Why just choose to put yourself under emotional torture

Relationship isn’t easy at all. I’m not in a hurry just seeking advice if there is a possibility of light at the end of the tunnel if the intentions of both party are genuine so I don’t waste my time and all. I’m always a straight person and hate time wasting.

No jokes she’s really beautiful and her personality just makes my head to keep thinking about her, can’t get her off my head

Best advice:
Focus on wetin carry u go Canada.
Leave Nigerian girls.

thesicilian:
Let me get this straight

Would be happy to provide any information you need to understand me better and would appreciate your opinion or advice too . Thanks

canada123:


Relationship isn’t easy at all. I’m not in a hurry just seeking advice if there is a possibility of light at the end of the tunnel if the intentions of both party are genuine so I don’t waste my time and all. I’m always a straight person and hate time wasting.

No jokes she’s really beautiful and her personality just makes my head to keep thinking about her, can’t get her off my head

there wont be any light at the end of the tunnel bro. Please move on with your life

fman:
Best advice:
Focus on wetin carry u go Canada.
Leave Nigerian girls.

Can’t ever loose focus at all. My mind is 100 percent in the game and intact. Nothing can make me loose focus.

thesicilian:
Let me get this straight: you're in Canada, she's in Nigeria, and you're thinking of telling her you like her? And you don't already know what her answer would be? Guy pls don't dull yourself.

Yes exactly. I don’t know her response or reaction . I’ve always been crushing on her for years while in Nigeria but was always shy to walk up to her to tell her my feelings

Cutehector:
there wont be any light at the end of the tunnel bro. Please move on with your life

Hmmm. Wonder how people do the long distance stuff , have been reading threads here and all, just pray to see good pretty ladies both inward and outward in Toronto. Have heard lots of scary things already. So no single chance of her in the picture in 2 or 3 yrs from now no matter how I keep the communication going or?

canada123:


Hmmm. Wonder how people do the long distance stuff , have been reading threads here and all, just pray to see good pretty ladies both inward and outward in Toronto. Have heard lots of scary things already. So no single chance of her in the picture in 2 or 3 yrs from now no matter how I keep the communication going or?

no chance. You will see good ladies in toronto please. Go to ldfnaija on ig and mingle with them..

This your moniker is funny.
Registered today.
Hope u no find gullible clients for here.
Nairaland no get mugu.
Must you tell us
You travelled to Canada.
So that prospective nairalanders
Who wants to travel abroad will mention you and ask for assistance in visa application.
Then u will introduce them to your fraudulent agent, which is still u
And reap them off their hard earned money!
No kind scam
Wey I no know.
Starting from the storyline.
I Know your matter.
Ewu,

fman:
This your moniker is funny.
Registered today.
Hope u no find gullible clients for here.
Nairaland no get mugu.
Must you tell us
You travelled to Canada.
So that prospective nairalanders
Who wants to travel abroad will mention you and ask for assistance in visa application.
Then u will introduce them to your fraudulent agent, which is still u
And reap them off their hard earned money!
No kind scam
Wey I no know.
Starting from the storyline.
I Know your matter.
Ewu,

Yh I just opened it this night, any thread created on nairaland sadly can’t be deleted really annoying, don’t want to use my other account so opened a new account, I think I should modify the original post and include that, thanks for highlighting that, Lol I don’t need anybody money I’m covered , well covered.

fman:
This your moniker is funny.
Registered today.
Hope u no find gullible clients for here.
Nairaland no get mugu.
Must you tell us
You travelled to Canada.
So that prospective nairalanders
Who wants to travel abroad will mention you and ask for assistance in visa application.
Then u will introduce them to your fraudulent agent, which is still u
And reap them off their hard earned money!
No kind scam
Wey I no know.
Starting from the storyline.
I Know your matter.
Ewu,

Lol there a like multiple dedicated thread for those intending to travel to literally all major countries Canada’s own is on I think part 22 or so lots of information there. I’m not an immigration officer neither do I help out with immigration, I don’t do that. Thanks

Exactly why I opened a new account cause of stuffs like this. So I don’t have a back and forth argument and all . This account is strictly for the advice I needed which honestly I’m already having an Idea of how to handle my emotions and maybe pause things and all. All thanks to those that contributed

She go just use you japa. Which Naija girl go reject Canada based guy.hungry ladies everywhere

So u couldn't ask her out when u were in Nigeria Cox u were scared she will say no nd now dat u have travel out u now think may b she will accept u Cox of ur status,hmmmm... ok o