Pls advise me on this
I am 23 years of age, and I live alone, I have been hustling for myself and also contributing in the family affairs with the little I have.
I wrote jamb last year but I was not admitted.
Lately I have been bothered with something, my friends that also live alone,each time I come to their place I see different girls, and when ever we hag out together as friends they tell stories of how their relationships are going and how they had sex,this and that.
And me, I have not had a girlfriend before, and no girl has ever come to my place before, and not a virgin tho,but I've only had sex once, and that was a long time ago.
So my friends when they tell this stories, they often look at me to tell how mine went, and I won't have any stories to tell, and they will see me as a dull guy.
So it has made me want to have a taste of a relationship at least to know how it feels or the joy it gives, cus I feel am been left out and it has really bothered me for a while. so I want to try a relationship.
Fact: I don't know how to talk to girls or starting a conversation. So I just feel like dropping this here for me to get your candid advise.thanks

If you continue like this, one day, friends will pressure you into a vice.

Have a mind of your own.

Better your life first.
Women will come later

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Honest opinion Bro, forget woman, focus on smashing JAMB first, if you're still interested in writing again. Get admission, learn a skill if possible. When you're out or even in school, ladies are attached to men who are ambitious and hard-working, they can even invest in you if she thinks you're worth it. Don't chase it. You know what they say about women and the downfall of man, I'm not saying you shouldn't be feeling how you're feeling, I mean Konji is real, but you just gotta do what you gotta do.

I created a group called The Weekenders on WhatsApp, I'm sure questions like this are welcome there. Scan the QR to see what the group is all about.

Your small money will soon finish.
Stay away from relationship till you are ready for something serious.

You are 23, well, there is nothing bad in having a girlfriend shaa. Just be careful with the whole thing. I’m 27, I don spend 4-5 years living alone in a state far away from my parent and to be honest with you, the peace I enjoy from the whole relationship brouhaha is on the increase daily.

Talking to ladies shouldn’t be a problem to you. Just two-three times of you doing that and you are good to go. Just start from somewhere (Hi, hello) and the outcome of each experience shouldn’t bother you. We learn everyday but just like what I said earlier, make sure you are focused oooo. Your future lies in your hands like this

Don't put the cart before the horse.



There are so many things you need to sort out in your life first and relationship isn't one of them.


Build your future first.

Sort out your exams and admissions.

Your friends aren't enjoying anything.


THAT YOU NEVER FELT THE NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF NOT FOR THE PRESSURE FROM YOUR FRIENDS SHOWS YOU DON'T NEED A RELATIONSHIP.


Don't be distracted.

Don't disturb me o

Pls stay far away from women. They're destiny destroyers. Wait till you're very matured sn successful.

Woman will truncate your plans for life, just watch and see how most og those your friends will end up.

You are really enjoying life and you suddenly want to invite problems into it. @Mosdii pls come and help this guy out.

Nicepoker:
You are really enjoying life and you suddenly want to invite problems into it. @Mosdii pls come and help this guy out.

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