obedience4:


Sex is done by both parties. The man and the woman .
Is like saying if the wife Have Rights to have sex with her husband.
So to your question yes the man has right to have sex with his wife just as the woman has the right to have sex with her husband..
What we are auguring is when a man forces a woman.. Married or not and have sex with her without her CONSENT .. That's is rape.
Marrying a wife doesn't make you a lord over her body no law back's that..

Wittyglam:

A lot of people experience rape in marriage but are too ashamed to talk about it.
Have you ever heard about rape in marriage or have you ever experience it.

Sex is something we must talk about before going marriage.

Check this out for more detail.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUYaBqJ0zj4

lansile:


See? This your 'Marriage definition by law' is why even if you caught someone murdering another in our court they don't get immediate judgement because everything in our law has rigged the simple sense out of every issue. With your point 1 - 3 now, you can rape in marriage by law and you cannot rape in marriage by law. All that you need is a lawyer sound enouh to get you justice or help you deny another. Dia ris god ooooo!!! No wonder some say Boko haram ( Western education is forbidden), probably because they couldn't make sense of our laws.

Temmylee01:
https://dailypost.ng/2017/08/03/man-sentenced-repeatedly-raping-wife-filming-act/ read that and satisfy your curiosity.

babajeje123:

Lol @ the bolded. If a Lawyer actually wrote this, it shows how limited they are in their knowledge about the laws of other nations.

naijapips04:


Not a rape case. Posting explicit pictures without consent.

Amayabor1:


Where una for dey come out sef? There is nothing like a man raping his wife according to Nigeria laws. No court in Nigeria can convict a man of raping his wife. Know this and Know peace.

jeromestarks:

There can be rape even in marriage. Check the definition of rape before you come out here to spill nonsense.

Victoronah1:
you Don't need to lift your leg o please him. He can do it himself and cum, and get it over with. It's not all the time a man also wants sex, if you're Hot and your husband is not, he can't deny you sex, it's cruel and against your people's bond. The only thing he can do is to lie down and let you pleasure yourself simple. Once the lady is done, my man can move on

Flows001:

I'm a Nigerian Lawyer, called to the NIGERIAN BAR..
I know that LAW is dynamic and there are alot ot peculiarities in different jurisdictions.
It is utter ignorance to be insisting on the position of the Law of a country on another sovereign country.
I'm sure you know that homosexuality is not a crime in the Western world but a serious crime in Nigeria. Will you call the Western countries saner climes for legalising homosexuality.
The earlier you realise that Nigeria is a sovereign country, with its independent right to make its Laws, after putting together religious and moral considerations, the better it will be for you.
As a Lawyer, the first thing I try to do whenever I go to a different jurisdiction is to understand their Legal System, as I definitely won't be relying on whatever I've been practicing in Nigeria. Same thing a Lawyer from the U.S or U.K will be expected to do in Nigeria, else he or she will be rendered useless.


That being said, when it comes to the Nigeria Legal System, there is absolutely NOTHING like RAPE in Marriage.
Take it or leave it, this is Nigeria and not the Western world..

wirinet:

That one na for obodo oyinbo land and not Nigeria, abi you no see the name Mark Giuliani.

In the US women are placed above men in terms of gender issues. So rape and sexual harassment is very wide and fluid. Here in Nigeria, you cannot rape your legally married wife.

Temmylee01:
madam or oga it can be establish.
There's a reason it called rape.
It might sound somehow but if she says no then it's no, as man you too can do your own back. If she has a recording of the husband forcing her to have sex the court will find the husband guilty.

Flows001:

I'm a Nigerian Lawyer, called to the NIGERIAN BAR..
I know that LAW is dynamic and there are alot ot peculiarities in different jurisdictions.
It is utter ignorance to be insisting on the position of the Law of a country on another sovereign country.
I'm sure you know that homosexuality is not a crime in the Western world but a serious crime in Nigeria. Will you call the Western countries saner climes for legalising homosexuality.
The earlier you realise that Nigeria is a sovereign country, with its independent right to make its Laws, after putting together religious and moral considerations, the better it will be for you.
As a Lawyer, the first thing I try to do whenever I go to a different jurisdiction is to understand their Legal System, as I definitely won't be relying on whatever I've been practicing in Nigeria. Same thing a Lawyer from the U.S or U.K will be expected to do in Nigeria, else he or she will be rendered useless.


That being said, when it comes to the Nigeria Legal System, there is absolutely NOTHING like RAPE in Marriage.
Take it or leave it, this is Nigeria and not the Western world..

Mrpojj:


I have never heard any husband in prison for that

jconsulting:
No love in that marriage, how can i rape my wife and still say I love her. Communication is key in marriage

EndRape2:
You know nothing about the law, there is rape in marriage, any sex without consent is rape, marriage or outside marriage.


If you are a man, you are maltreating your wife, cheating with different girls, not doing your responsibility of treati g get well, she has right to restrict you, and if you force it, it is rape,

You just have to change your ways.







uote author=Moh247 post=116672345]


There is no rape in marriage

All sex in marriage is legal conjugal rights of both parties

Did you forget your wedding vows of for better for worse

You can't even take it to court or win

If you don't want to have sex abeg stay away from marriage and quickly file for divorce

Starving your partner of sex is a sin



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dollynnn:


The Criminal Code and The Penal code do not recognise Marital rape.

You may check the link in my signature to get enlightened

jeromestarks:

Just because it's not in some kinda stupid book doesn't mean it's not plausible.

yommyoke:
Hmmm, I really like this thread and how educative it is.
Rape is a topic to be discussed adequately,
What many don't understand is that, either married or not, as long as the party you're having sexual act with doesn't concent to the act, it can be tagged rape.
Sex is part of marital bliss but when your spouse says "no" but you still go ahead and use force on him/her, that's rape.
Repeated denial doesn't mean you should force her, na one of the whys our forefathers consider multiple wives, if one says no to you, you move to the next one.

Temmylee01:
first of all you're stupid, second of all thunder fire you and your generations, third of all don't ever in your useless life bring nor mention my mumsy or popsy in any discussion here on nairaland ever again.
Lastly don't ever quote me again in your misfit low life living.

Stanleyq:
give sex, we no go gree, our men go outside, we go complain, which one we wan them do? Husband who rapes wife has to be trusted, he does nt go out for other women and conji. But some men are dogs, they can go outside in the evening, come back at night to demand 4 sex. Which way naa.

Moh247:


Rape is very sensitive Na why I had to refrain from engaging her further

litigator:



Madam, ya husband cannot rape you in a legal marriage.

The Matrimonial Causes Act confers him with access to conjugate with you . And you denying him this right is a grounds for divorce. He can even sue you for restoration of his conjugal right if he does not want divorce or judicial separation.

So what are you saying?

The concept of rape in marriage is not known to biblical laws, common law, statutory law and even under our native laws and custom.

I stand corrected.

Shalom

Stronghold91:


anty you are insult to
womanhood there is nothing like
rape in marriage

bupounds:
After marriage.
Guys make una nor dey marry all this ITK women.
This nor be talk joor why would you refuse your husband sex should be the question.
Useless Nigerian Women Forming rubbish if him take second wife nau una go begin cry.
I go marry you pay bride price, still dey feed u house u yet you go refuse me sex i go throw you out for middle of the night.
Radarada bi obe olorka