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What Would You Do If You Were The Man? by Immaculate755(m): 9:35am On Sep 17, 2022
Good morning Nlanderz. Trust we all had a good night rest.

I read an heart touching story on facebook this morning and felt like sharing it here to hear people's opinion, men most especially on what they'll do/ handle the situation if they were the one this unfortunate event happened to?

Below is the story.

I married my wife 25 years ago. She came with two boys from her previous marriage.
I really loved them and adopted the kids since I'm not medically fit to have a child of my own.

We stayed peacefully in rented houses. I was working back then and made sure to take my adopted kids to the best schools, thier father never came to claim them or even support them.

The boys were very bright in school and as I write this, one is a doctor who got scholarship to finish his studies in USA.
He is back and already employed, the second boy is a pilot whom I used all my savings to pay for his course in South Africa, he is also back and employed too.

My happiness is that my boys are successful and have bought big houses, my problem is that my wife and the two boys have reunited with their dad and now living happily together as a family.

They seem to have abandoned me here, i can't even pay my rent anymore, I retired long ago, i have been moving from one relative to another for a place to sleep, they don't even pick my phone calls anymore. Please what do I do now? my life is so miserable.

Please if you were the one this unfortunate event happens to how'll you handle the situation?

Re: What Would You Do If You Were The Man? by MatrixReloaded: 9:36am On Sep 17, 2022
The wicked comes to kill and destroy but God came to give life abundant. You stole someones treasure and karma hit you wotowotoporusly.
Re: What Would You Do If You Were The Man? by dawnomike(m): 9:43am On Sep 17, 2022
Nothing to be done but to carry his cross... It is better to marry a single mother than a divorcee.
#MyOpinion
Re: What Would You Do If You Were The Man? by Jesslove(f): 9:45am On Sep 17, 2022
Find peace with yourself. Your reward does not come from Men but God.
Re: What Would You Do If You Were The Man? by advanceDNA: 10:02am On Sep 17, 2022
Lol....how can two sons not have sense together at the same time....??

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were The Man? by MufasaLion: 12:42pm On Sep 17, 2022
Jesslove:
Find peace with yourself. Your reward does not come from Men but God.

You people should be realistic.
Re: What Would You Do If You Were The Man? by MufasaLion: 12:44pm On Sep 17, 2022
MatrixReloaded:
The wicked comes to kill and destroy but God came to give life abundant. You stole someones treasure and karma hit you wotowotoporusly.

How did he steal someone's treasure?

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