concho:
Did you ever experience what I’m experiencing now or have a way around it

might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please
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Nazgul:
What was the reason her pastor gave her for you not being the ideal man for her after spending 4 years together?

concho:
That I have weapons in the spiritual . that the weapons will fight her bla bla bla

concho:
Did you ever experience what I’m experiencing now or have a way around it

might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please
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concho:
Did you ever experience what I’m experiencing now or have a way around it

might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please
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concho:
Did you ever experience what I’m experiencing now or have a way around it

might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please
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ZIMDRILL:


why are you confused

the pastor doesnt know you at all, you know yourself better than and your girlfriend.

If the pastor can see that you are not the right person why waste his energy pointing at the so "not right" and point her to the right guy ?

Just your girl the truth that you were already making plans for marriage and if she believes that pastor is saying the truth then she can also ask pastor point her to the right person

concho:
I will say this in front of the family . The mum is the pilot here .

cubby4:
Hmmm...i remembered going for a church program too and the pastor told me the man i was about getting married to was not My husband. That was the last time i visited that church. I am married to the same man today for almost two years now and i can boldly say i made the best decision ever. As good men are hard to find now,i will now leave a good man because of prophecy...if i hear

concho:
Did you ever experience what I’m experiencing now or have a way around it

might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please
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concho:
Did you ever experience what I’m experiencing now or have a way around it

might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please
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Sexyidiot:
My dear be suspicious, the pastor may have an evil plan.

Nazgul:

One thing you have to understand about most pastors these days is that many of them act based on perception and not the by the leading of the Holy Spirit.

If you're coming to marry their spiritual daughter and they don't like you, rather then be completely honest with their so called spiritual daughter that they don't really like you, they'll just tell the ignorant girl that God said you're not her husband. And the foolish girl would end everything you guys have laboured for simply because of one pastor who hasn't contributed a penny to her life.

Sit her down and talk to her, make her understand that it's only her parents who have the right to air their opinion in whoever she wants to marry and not someone who's only connection to her is because she attends his church. If she remains adamant on standing by her Pastor's prophecy I'll suggest you just let her be.

Fiscus105:



Instead of u to advice him to ask for reasons, u re telling him, it's only his parents, does his parents know spiritual reasons that pastor saw?

Nazgul:

And what makes you believe the pastor saw anything? It's people like you that all these false prophets decieve with fake prophecy just to mislead and extort your hard earned money.

If the man in question has spiritual weapons as the Pastor claimed to see, why not tell him to renounce them and offer deliverance prayers on him...isn't that the job of a Pastor?

If all the pastor does is to see problems without solution then he's clearly not a child of God cos God doesn't reveal problems without providing a way out.