It was after I became an atheist, that porn became attractive. I would confess that religion really helped me to stay disciplined.

I can remember opening a porn website on my laptop and after watching a couple of videos, I decided to masturbate.

Everyday I tell myself this is the last one, but like all addictions, I kept relapsing. I think the highest I had gone without porn was four months. I struggled so hard, but kept failing.

At a certain point here is what I noticed:

1. DESENSITIZATION: You can call it habituation or tolerance if you want. You see, if one bottle of alcohol gets you high, as you keep drinking, you would find out that you need two bottles to get high, over time, three, four, five and so on.
It the same thing with porn, there is a particular category I use to enjoy, overtime it got boring and started looking for another, have watched and masturbated to several porn category to the point where I spend hours looking for more graphic and intense ones.

2. LOW LIBIDO or SEXUAL DESIRE:
Porn numbs the brain. I noticed that after a time, porn became less exciting, I mean it doesn't even move me again. I see the video of a naked women doing things and it takes a lot of time to get it up. It can be frustrating. Before now the just the thought of watching porn gets me aroused. Even having a naked woman on my bed doesn't move me. It takes a lot of concentration for arousal, this wasn't the case before my porn addiction. This is a road to Porn Induced Erectile dysfunction.

3. IT KILLS YOUR ATTRACTION FOR WOMEN: I'm not able to fall in love or have any emotional connection with a woman no matter how attractive or curvy. Have had beautiful girl around, but I can't just feel those butterflies in my stomach anymore, even the sex part is gone. Sex doesn't just interest me again. I feel death. When you have seen thousands of graphics of women with different sizes and shapes doing things, your brain gets too used to it, killing your attraction for real life women who might not be as glamorous as the one in porn.

4. YOUR REWARD SYSTEM IS RUINED: Ponography dulls the reward system. Too much of every thing is bad. When you get overstimulated with porn, dopamine hits every part of your brain making you feel pleasure. When this happens too often, the part of your brain that controls pleasure gets tired and shuts itself down making not just sex, but every day to day activities less exciting.
Everything becomes boring, talking to people, playing sports, traveling etc

If you're a porn person you need to have a rethink. Forget what Vaseline crews would say, porn isn't good for you and so is every kind of addiction.

Can this effects of porn be reversed? What's your experience with porn? Lalasticlala

Jackanda1:
It was after I became an atheist, that porn became attractive. I would confess that religion really helped me to stay disciplined.

I can remember opening a porn website on my laptop and after watching a couple of videos, I decided to masturbate.

Everyday I tell myself this is the last one, but like all addictions, I kept relapsing. I think the highest I had gone without porn was four months. I struggled so hard, but kept failing.

At a certain point here is what I noticed:

1. DESENSITIZATION: You can call it habituation or tolerance if you want. You see, if one bottle of alcohol gets you high, as you keep drinking, you would find out that you need two bottles to get high, over time, three, four, five and so on.
It the same thing with porn, there is a particular category I use to enjoy, overtime it got boring and started looking for another, have watched and masturbated to several porn category to the porn where I spend hours looking for more graphic and intense ones.

2. LOW LIBIDO or SEXUAL DESIRE:
Porn numbs the brain. I noticed that after a time, porn became less exciting, I mean it doesn't even move me again. I see the video of a naked women doing things and it takes a lot of time to get it up. It can be frustrating. Before now the just the thought of watching porn gets me aroused. Even having a naked woman on my bed doesn't move me. It takes a lot of concentration for arousal, this wasn't the case before my porn addiction. This is a road to Porn Induced Erectile dysfunction.

3. IT KILLS YOUR ATTRACTION FOR WOMEN: I'm not able to fall in love or have any emotional connection with a woman no matter how attractive or curvy. Have had beautiful girl around, but I can't just love, even the sex part is death. Sex doesn't just interest me again. I feel death.

4. YOUR REWARD IS RUINED: Ponography dulls the reward system. Too much of every thing is bad. When you get overstimulated with porn, dopamine hits every part of your brain making you feel pleasure. When this happens too often, the part of your brain that controls pleasure gets tired and shuts itself down making not just sex, but every day to day activities less exciting.
Everything becomes boring, talking to people, playing sports, traveling etc

Can this effects can be reversed? What's your experience with porn?

how long have you been masturbating? And how often?

Give your life to Christ and be saved.

TheFinesseKid:
how long have you been masturbating? And how often?

You are asking how often? You understand how addiction works right?

Jackanda1:
You are asking how often? You understand how addiction works right?

I've been there. I was never as addicted. Every now and then the urge comes. Porn induces it.

Stay focused...

E be things.........


The day you cross that line of self gratification for the first time.
You just started a very long battle

Hello,

If you want to quit, there is Nairaland thread you can join. It is right below.

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread/1498

Everything you said I am experiencing X2. Coming from a guy who's addicted going to 18yrs now.

A day would not be enough for me to narrate my ordeal even if I tried.

Just Google (success stories Nofap) and see people like us recovering from the various deficiencies porn usage caused them. 98% of members there are like minded people and will never judge nor dispute your claim because they all have the same experience.

Guderian:
E be things.........


The day you cross that line of self gratification for the first time.
You just started a very long battle

Please tell me all about it. How long is this battle and can it be won?

Jackanda1:
Please tell me all about it. How long is this battle and can it be won?

It can be for as long as you want, for sure the battle can be won.

It's left to the person who is addicted to take a decision.

You need a wife, this will help replace that shit. I wont advice you to patronize hoes to stop the shiit.

Fornication and masturbation is the same,



When you said you switch categories hope you not jerking to vile stuffs

Jackanda1:
It was after I became an atheist, that porn became attractive. I would confess that religion really helped me to stay disciplined.

I can remember opening a porn website on my laptop and after watching a couple of videos, I decided to masturbate.

Everyday I tell myself this is the last one, but like all addictions, I kept relapsing. I think the highest I had gone without porn was four months. I struggled so hard, but kept failing.

At a certain point here is what I noticed:

1. DESENSITIZATION: You can call it habituation or tolerance if you want. You see, if one bottle of alcohol gets you high, as you keep drinking, you would find out that you need two bottles to get high, over time, three, four, five and so on.
It the same thing with porn, there is a particular category I use to enjoy, overtime it got boring and started looking for another, have watched and masturbated to several porn category to the point where I spend hours looking for more graphic and intense ones.

2. LOW LIBIDO or SEXUAL DESIRE:
Porn numbs the brain. I noticed that after a time, porn became less exciting, I mean it doesn't even move me again. I see the video of a naked women doing things and it takes a lot of time to get it up. It can be frustrating. Before now the just the thought of watching porn gets me aroused. Even having a naked woman on my bed doesn't move me. It takes a lot of concentration for arousal, this wasn't the case before my porn addiction. This is a road to Porn Induced Erectile dysfunction.

3. IT KILLS YOUR ATTRACTION FOR WOMEN: I'm not able to fall in love or have any emotional connection with a woman no matter how attractive or curvy. Have had beautiful girl around, but I can't just feel those butterflies in my stomach anymore, even the sex part is gone. Sex doesn't just interest me again. I feel death. When you have seen thousands of graphics of women with different sizes and shapes doing things, your brain gets too used to it, killing your attraction for real life women who might not be as glamorous as the one in porn.

4. YOUR REWARD SYSTEM IS RUINED: Ponography dulls the reward system. Too much of every thing is bad. When you get overstimulated with porn, dopamine hits every part of your brain making you feel pleasure. When this happens too often, the part of your brain that controls pleasure gets tired and shuts itself down making not just sex, but every day to day activities less exciting.
Everything becomes boring, talking to people, playing sports, traveling etc

If you're a porn person you need to have a rethink. Forget what Vaseline crews would say, porn isn't good for you and so is every kind of addiction.

Can this effects of porn be reversed? What's your experience with porn? Lalasticlala

guy porn is bad......

Porn is a killer.

Only agents of the devil will tell you otherwise

I know the trick to stop that shit

What’s the trick

Davizee:
I know the trick to stop that shit

what's the trick?

Jackanda1:
what's the trick?

U just have to swear with the Bible

wondarkid:
What’s the trick

Read below:
https://www.nairaland.com/7371032/addicted-masturbation-come-here-try