maxkenny:
Good Morning Nairalander

How do you manage a chronic insultive wife?

Its true violence against women is a crime but when a woman is so addictive to insulting, causing provocation, emotional imbalance, how do you manage it without unleashing your anger or make mistake?


is there law against women insulting or causing provocation.

Mature minds please[b]Good Morning Nairalander

How do you manage a chronic insultive wife?

Its true violence against women is a crime but when a woman is so addictive to insulting, causing provocation, emotional imbalance, how do you manage it without unleashing your anger or make mistake?


is there law against women insulting or causing provocation.

Mature minds please[/b]Good Morning Nairalander

How do you manage a chronic insultive wife?

Its true violence against women is a crime but when a woman is so addictive to insulting, causing provocation, emotional imbalance, how do you manage it without unleashing your anger or make mistake?


is there law against women insulting or causing provocation.

Mature minds please

thundervirus:


It is well. I don't know how u define maturity sha. But my 2cents is anytime she starts insulting u, keep quiet, don't exchange words with her. Cos she wants u to b pained, dat is her motive.


Silence doesn't mean u re weak or less of a man. Sometimes silence is actually strength

God bless!!!

IgweBUIKE1:
Same thing am going through right now,,, she go as far as, saying God will punish me. Ogun will kill me,, that am stupid and many more

Corridon:
I wonder how you people always postulate on social media what you can't tolerate in real life. Can you withstand someone insulting you from morning till night and you will just 'keep quite and don't exchange words with her cos she wants you to be pained'? You guys will just open mouth waaa on social media just to look nice. @ OP, if you can't withstand it you separate from her. Your sanity is what that matters most before you harm her or yourself.

Romanoff:
Did they marry her for you or did you not notice this trait when you both were dating?

There are two things you can do, one is to become immune to her verbal abuse. If you can't, then ask for a separation to see if her head go reset.

But then, let me not assume she's just verbally abusive for no reason. What issue(s) always leads to these insults and abuses?

madridguy:
If you have the resources, just make up your mind and look for another wife.

YinkaOlusesi16:
the law against women causing provocation, insulting, abusing and nagging is for you to take up ur shirt and move out of the house that moment. then come back if her motion is calm.

IgweBUIKE1:
my own was nothing... Just because I ate the food in the pot... Men I collect insult like ogun will kill me... The same food I provided for... Her excuse was that I wasn't suppose to eat the rice since we have other food in the house

Romanoff:


Ah. Just like that?

Where una dey see these kind women marry?

IgweBUIKE1:
thanks... I told her am done just looking for another place to rent now and leave that one for her as her settlement

IgweBUIKE1:
just three weeks ago... She poured pepper inside my bathing water... Just because I refuse to fetch water for you... I pay for everything in the house down to matches...her own is Twitter from morning till night... Guess is where she is learning her bad attitude from

maxkenny:
Good Morning Nairalander

How do you manage a chronic insultive wife?

Its true violence against women is a crime but when a woman is so addictive to insulting, causing provocation, emotional imbalance, how do you manage it without unleashing your anger or make mistake?


is there law against women insulting or causing provocation.

Mature minds please

Wawelexy:


Lol, they like forming woke online.

No matter how calm someone is, if the insults keeps coming nonstop, one would be tempted to react and might go extreme cos it's been triggered by anger. Best thing is to part ways with such partner if you have tried talking to her but no changes...

I hate a nagging woman with passion

IgweBUIKE1:
just three weeks ago... She poured pepper inside my bathing water... Just because I refuse to fetch water for you... I pay for everything in the house down to matches...her own is Twitter from morning till night... Guess is where she is learning her bad attitude from

maxkenny:
Good Morning Nairalander

How do you manage a chronic insultive wife?

Its true violence against women is a crime but when a woman is so addictive to insulting, causing provocation, emotional imbalance, how do you manage it without unleashing your anger or make mistake?


is there law against women insulting or causing provocation.

Mature minds please

Romanoff:


Ah. Just like that?

Where una dey see these kind women marry?

NoToPile:


Loool them plenty, I used to believe people like these didn't exist until my experience with a lady, a sister in church for that matter. This lady ehn never met someone like her at all. When my youth president said she was the one, I said hian, this was around 2017, meanwhile she has insulted me my own back then. I was always worried for bro C.

Last year October we started going back to my branch asked him how far about marriage nau, I asked if it was still sister T, he said no oo, that he just couldn't cope that she had issues with himself, everybody, youth having problem with choir, women, usher, every damn group in a big church, even the pastor sef. Very domineering, insultive etc etc. This same character issue. I was so happy for him at least he didn't make that mistake. Mature lady oo. He also told me that but she can pray ooo but that character ehn. I was looling.

He got married to another lady this August.

she had issues with practically everybody, some people are naturally troublesome or (and) wicked its your responsibility not to fall into that trap.

IgweBUIKE1:
just three weeks ago... She poured pepper inside my bathing water... Just because I refuse to fetch water for you... I pay for everything in the house down to matches...her own is Twitter from morning till night... Guess is where she is learning her bad attitude from

Corridon:
We are waiting to read your obituary on nairaland. Continue enduring mr nice guy.

qtguru:


Exactly I take threats very seriously you put pepper in my water, I'm annulling the marriage it means you can poison someone too.

Women get away with things because men and other women encourage them to.

Corridon:
Then come back and she will continue from where she stopped and you leave your house for her again. Even in the middle of the night when it rains and you are asleep and she starts to insult you you will get up and leave your house for her abi.

YinkaOlusesi16:
I don't pray you fall a victim of beating them.

Romanoff:


Ah!

E be like say you marry your enemy o.

Cause I am not understanding.

Like I said, separate from her. If she's teachable and willing to learn, marriage can continue, if not, if you don't have kids yet, you might want to consider an annulment o.

IgweBUIKE1:
I am considering separation

IgweBUIKE1:
just three weeks ago... She poured pepper inside my bathing water... Just because I refuse to fetch water for you... I pay for everything in the house down to matches...her own is Twitter from morning till night... Guess is where she is learning her bad attitude from

Are you kidding me?
Please tell me you are joking..

maxkenny:
Good Morning Nairalander

How do you manage a chronic insultive wife?

Its true violence against women is a crime but when a woman is so addictive to insulting, causing provocation, emotional imbalance, how do you manage it without unleashing your anger or make mistake?


is there law against women insulting or causing provocation.

Mature minds please