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Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by triplek2000: 2:50pm On Sep 28, 2022
Please don't mind my English , just try and understand what the story is all about and I would like to see this in front page please!!!.
This happened in year 2004 , My mum gave birth to my younger brother in year 2004 and she was discharged three days after giving birth . At that time I was 4 years then , so that day my daddy took me and I elder brother to the hospital to see the newly born baby , we were happy to see him .
while going home my dad bought roasted corn for all of us , when we got home my mummy put the baby in the room and went to attend to visitors that came to congratulate in parlour , so while alone with the baby playing with him , he kept looking at me and I thought the baby was interested in the corn I was eating , so I decided to take one seed and put in his mouth , after a while I took another one and put in his mouth again , immediately I put the second seed the baby started breathing and coughing heavily , so my mum entered Immediately and she was ‘ what did you do to him ’ and then replied saying ‘ I gave him corn when he was hungry ’ , she gave me heavy slap , so women that came to visit us were the one that helped us to pull the seed out , the boy nearly die that day , they even carried him to hospital sef for further treatment .
After the incident my mum did not allow me to touch or get close to the boy for almost a year , because she believed I want to kill him , but I did that because I was happy to see him without knowing the consequence of my action or what did they even expect from a 4 years old boy sef .
I guess this story should be enough to convince you not to put your kid (s) with your baby , they might do something without knowing the repercussion of what they've done . Am sure if the baby had die that day , I won't be able to write this today , but thank God the baby is now a man

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Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by Capernum: 2:54pm On Sep 28, 2022
My first son at 3, has taken his sister, few months, as a pet, would even try to bathe her and do everything for her, including driving her on his toy bikes.

We had to find a way of guiding him so as to keep his baby sister safe and unhurt and at the same time, preserve the love and jealousy he has for her.

Balancing this two factors is one hell of a work.

Kids are such an amazing innocent lovely ones... Out of genuine love, he was going to feed the baby with roasted grains of corn.

I can relate really.

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Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by triplek2000: 2:58pm On Sep 28, 2022
Capernum:
I can relate
what's your experience?
Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by Nobody: 3:01pm On Sep 28, 2022
Interesting.

Thanks for sharing your story
Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by Capernum: 3:04pm On Sep 28, 2022
triplek2000:

what's your experience?
Capernum:
My first son at 3, has taken his sister, few months, as a pet, would even try to bathe her and do everything for her, including driving her on his toy bikes.

We had to find a way of guiding him so as to keep his baby sister safe and unhurt and at the same time, preserve the love and jealousy he has for her.

Balancing this two factors is one hell of a work.

Kids are such an amazing innocent lovely ones... Out of genuine love, he was going to feed the baby with roasted grains of corn.

I can relate really.







Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by drmuchin: 3:09pm On Sep 28, 2022
Love turned Sour
Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by ceeceeuwa: 4:44pm On Sep 28, 2022
My 3-year old few years back put his baby sister who was less than a month in his bicycle carrier. I was in the bathroom bathing when I had the baby's incessant cry,I opened the door to peep only to behold the sight. I didn't know when I ran out of the bathroom unclad. Thank goodness the baby didn't fall out. His explanation was that the baby was crying and he needed to make her happy.
Mother's should not leave their young ones unattended to. Even now that they are a bit grown,I make sure I check on them whenever the house is getting unnecessarily quiet.
Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by mespusinglez(m): 4:48pm On Sep 28, 2022
AM COMING LEMME THINK...
Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by culf: 9:27am On Sep 29, 2022
This is very true. kids do a lot of harmful things to their younger ones unknowingly all in the name of petting, playing or caring after them.
Unfortunate most parents still make mistakes of asking them to look after their new siblings while they (parents) do one or two things.
Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by culf: 9:29am On Sep 29, 2022
ceeceeuwa:
My 3-year old few years back put his baby sister who was less than a month in his bicycle carrier. I was in the bathroom bathing when I had the baby's incessant cry,I opened the door to peep only to behold the sight. I didn't know when I ran out of the bathroom unclad. Thank goodness the baby didn't fall out. His explanation was that the baby was crying and he needed to make her happy.
Mother's should not leave their young ones unattended to. Even now that they are a bit grown,I make sure I check on them whenever the house is getting unnecessarily quiet.



hahahahaha.
Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by shantti(m): 1:06pm On Sep 29, 2022
Danger to kids can come in any form, it isn't necessarily from siblings. I once closed myself in my parents room while they were in the parlour; alone in the room, I poured detergent on the table and started to lick, omo I lick plenty oh cos the smell was nice. My parents almost fainted when they entered the room, it was the only time in my life I saw my dad panic. They took me to the hospital.
Re: Reason You Shouldn't Allow Your Kid(s) To Stay Alone With Your New Born Baby by friendquotes(m): 4:21pm On Sep 29, 2022
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