This girl has been so nice to me. And we've been friends in the past. I have asked her out twice and she said no.

And on both occasion I tried distancing myself from her. But she always find her way back(friendship). And this actually is affecting me psychologically because I always get to think about her and being in a relationship with her.

Now she's back and she always calls me even when I don't want her to. She call me for help on one thing or the other.( She doesn't ask for money though).

I know I have been friendzoned but I don't like her idea at all. It shouldn't be a frequent stuff. Sometimw she will call and we will be talking for hours.

So, I am looking for the right way to let her go

Can't you just be friends without you Knacking her?

emnite:
Can't you just be friends without you Knacking her?

Knacking isn't what I want from here. I want more. I actually love her. But she doesn't love me.
Can you be friends with that kind of lady?

Just ignore her completely.. You can do that by deleting her number from your phone, muting her social media notifications. Keep your distance again and never let her come close to you.

I know you have feelings for her, she knows that too, but she's manipulative, and it's going to mentally affect you..

Maybe, she's playing hard to get when she also wants you. That's insane.

Trust me, if she doesn't want you for a relationship and she keeps coming close to you, i can tell you that there's something she's getting from you that she ain't getting from the person that sleeps with her. It could be financial gains, laughter that makes her to unwind, you're helping to take away her boredom, etc.

I believe that a man and a woman can't be just friends.. If she doesn't want a relationship, then there's no point.

You look needy, hang out with other ladies and let her see you. Also feign busy when she wants you to do things for her.

Aareakinwunmi:
You look needy, hang out with other ladies and let her see you.
Also feign busy when she wants you to do things for her.

I have tried these a lot. There was a time for weeks she will call I won't pick her call, I have blocked her on Facebook. She is still active on whatsapp tho.

I just don't understand her.

Adeleketj:


I have tried these a lot. There was a time for weeks she will call I won't pick her call, I have blocked her on Facebook. She is still active on whatsapp tho.

I just don't understand her.

Get your yourself a girlfriend
Let her know you got options

NeckingNgulping:
Just ignore her completely.. You can do that by deleting her number from your phone. Muting her social media notifications. Keep your distance again and never let her come close to you.

I know you have feelings for her, she knows that too, but she's manipulative, and it's going to mentally affect you..

Maybe she's playing hard to get when she also wants you. That's insane.

Trust me, if she doesn't want you for a relationship and she keeps coming close to you, i can tell you that there's something she's getting from you that she ain't getting from the person that sleeps with her. It could be financial gains, laughter that makes her to unwind, you're helping to take away her boredom.

I believe that a man and a woman can't be just friends.. If she doesn't want a relationship, then there's no point.

Rightly said.
@Adeleketj

once a lady has clearly shown that you guys can't do anything long-term and meaningful while you've disclose your interest and she keeps coming back like this, just know you're being used. Avoid that at all cost, infact tell her to her face, you guys can't continue like this she can't demand your attention for hours consistently and still be friends. It's not done, always look for ladies that are willing to commit at your level of interest only.

Don't waste your time shadow boxing, time is money, you want to spend it with those who matter.

Let me add to what's been said.

Guy, it's a good thing that you know that you have been friend zoned.

She is using you to catch cruise and fun. Deny her that.

Whoever that's shifting her pants ain't giving her fun and cruise.

Most importantly get a girlfriend. Get someone who could help you get down

Tell her the plain truth not the SIMPle truth

Adeleketj:

Knacking isn't what I want from here. I want more. I actually love her. But she doesn't love me.
Can you be friends with that kind of lady?

Oga you sef friend zone her too...

Maybe later in the future God fit say make he na two dey....

Cos if you push her away...he go show immaturity on your part ....

Be an ordinary friend with her, nothing extra....and don't beg her for a relationship any further....the love suppose don clear for your eyes na ..as you don hear NOo twice....
Abi na SIMPle love you get for am

Anything wey Una do, sha Remember na me be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement

Adeleketj:
This girl has been so nice to me. And we've been friends in the past. I have asked her out twice and she said no.

And on both occasion I tried distancing myself from her. But she always find her way back(friendship). And this actually is affecting me psychologically because I always get to think about her and being in a relationship with her.

Now she's back and she always calls me even when I don't want her to. She call me for help on one thing or the other.( She doesn't ask for money though).

I know I have been friendzoned but I don't like her idea at all. It shouldn't be a frequent stuff. Sometimw she will call and we will be talking for hours.

So, I am looking for the right way to let her go

What exactly do you want from her that you are not getting? Let's start from their.

The best of relationships starts as just friends.
Answer my question first for us to proceed to the next level.

Op you just want your share from the kpekus
I understand your view

The only way to make her go is to tell her that you are Hot and she should stay away from you for a time if not, you might rape her.

If she continue coming, make your move without fear, if she decides not to come, you win

Then ask her out point blank and if she say no
Tell her you can't be friends with her when you have feeling for her... Clean cut

NeckingNgulping:
Just ignore her completely.. You can do that by deleting her number from your phone, muting her social media notifications. Keep your distance again and never let her come close to you.

I know you have feelings for her, she knows that too, but she's manipulative, and it's going to mentally affect you..

Maybe, she's playing hard to get when she also wants you. That's insane.

Trust me, if she doesn't want you for a relationship and she keeps coming close to you, i can tell you that there's something she's getting from you that she ain't getting from the person that sleeps with her. It could be financial gains, laughter that makes her to unwind, you're helping to take away her boredom, etc.

[/b]I believe that a man and a woman can't be just friends[b].. If she doesn't want a relationship, then there's no point.

Yeah. I agree with you on everything but I disagree@bolded
No, a man and woman can be friends without any string attached to it

Adeleketj:
This girl has been so nice to me. And we've been friends in the past. I have asked her out twice and she said no.

And on both occasion I tried distancing myself from her. But she always find her way back(friendship). And this actually is affecting me psychologically because I always get to think about her and being in a relationship with her.

Now she's back and she always calls me even when I don't want her to. She call me for help on one thing or the other.( She doesn't ask for money though).

I know I have been friendzoned but I don't like her idea at all. It shouldn't be a frequent stuff. Sometimw she will call and we will be talking for hours.

So, I am looking for the right way to let her go

Adeleketj:
This girl has been so nice to me. And we've been friends in the past. I have asked her out twice and she said no.

And on both occasion I tried distancing myself from her. But she always find her way back(friendship). And this actually is affecting me psychologically because I always get to think about her and being in a relationship with her.

Now she's back and she always calls me even when I don't want her to. She call me for help on one thing or the other.( She doesn't ask for money though).

I know I have been friendzoned but I don't like her idea at all. It shouldn't be a frequent stuff. Sometimw she will call and we will be talking for hours.

So, I am looking for the right way to let her go

Adeleketj:
This girl has been so nice to me. And we've been friends in the past. I have asked her out twice and she said no.

And on both occasion I tried distancing myself from her. But she always find her way back(friendship). And this actually is affecting me psychologically because I always get to think about her and being in a relationship with her.

Now she's back and she always calls me even when I don't want her to. She call me for help on one thing or the other.( She doesn't ask for money though).

I know I have been friendzoned but I don't like her idea at all. It shouldn't be a frequent stuff. Sometimw she will call and we will be talking for hours.

So, I am looking for the right way to let her go

you let go by letting go. Get busy with you life!

Sweetvie:
Yeah. I agree with you on everything but I disagree@bolded
No, a man and woman can be friends without any string attached to it

One of them will definitely catch feelings.. It's just a matter of time..

NeckingNgulping:


One of them will definitely catch feelings.. It's just a matter of time..

Fine. I agree

Op I understand how you feel, it will be hard to let go even if you forcefully push yourself away from her, it will not be easy, but pls try, hard.

Adeleketj:
This girl has been so nice to me. And we've been friends in the past. I have asked her out twice and she said no.

And on both occasion I tried distancing myself from her. But she always find her way back(friendship). And this actually is affecting me psychologically because I always get to think about her and being in a relationship with her.

Now she's back and she always calls me even when I don't want her to. She call me for help on one thing or the other.( She doesn't ask for money though).

I know I have been friendzoned but I don't like her idea at all. It shouldn't be a frequent stuff. Sometimw she will call and we will be talking for hours.

So, I am looking for the right way to let her go

She dey press your Mumu Button

ask her what does she want from you

So, a man & a woman can't b friends except they're in a relationship? Stop being a bitch nigga. If she wants friendship b a friend. If u want relationship & she dosn't, go out there & get a woman that wants a relationship, there are many women out there. I hate it when a man b forcing a woman into something. It only defines weekness. Finally... One woman was not specifically created 4 a man. If one isn't interested, ask d other. The one that accepts is the one 4 u. Be a man & stop being a pussy.

Let her know wassup if she no give u beta reply......block her everywhere

It’s pointless being a friend with a woman who is not your family , colleagues , business associate , girlfriend etc.

Sex go dey involve or else count me out ..

emnite:
Can't you just be friends without you Knacking her?

I find it difficult to believe this advise is coming from a male gender.

So he shouldn't go for what he want? But allow himself to be manipulated by the lady, so we can say he is a nice man?

The lady knows he really love her, and she is using it to her advantage while neglecting his feelings..That is pure manipulation.

I can't deal with such a cunning lady..

@ Adeleketj since you have madr your intentions clear, she declined...Just move.

Move and never look back...Focused men don't waste time on frivolous stuffs.

Two can work only if they agree..She want friendship, you want relationship...

@OP why not overlook her....forget about her..she is manipulative, look for someone to feel your ......... avoid her, block her off.

I wonder how a guys let themselves into friendzone that's a sign of weakling.
Boobs and pucy all looking at you and you'd be pretending good guy.
Tell her you're a very sexual person, if she comes close tell her she has nice boobs you can't help but want to touch, talk very hungry but don't look hungry, she won't take you serious, with all your sexual dirty matured talks and flirts it wouldn't come as sudden or surprise touching her ass or signaling boobs, if she insists coming close na sex be next and na she go begin ask you are we in relationship? do you love me?

obinna58:
I wonder how a guys let themselves into friendzone that's a sign of weakling.
Boobs and pucy all looking at you and you'd be pretending good guy.
Tell her you're a very sexual person, if she comes close tell her she has nice boobs you can't help but want to touch, talk very hungry but don't look hungry, she won't take you serious, with all your sexual dirty matured talks and flirts it wouldn't come as sudden or surprise touching her ass or signaling boobs, if she insists coming close na sex be next and na she go begin ask you are we in relationship? do you love me?

Hmm

tell her her closeness is hurting u since she's not interested in your kind of person that deserve her love, so therefore she should give u covid 19 social distance space to avoid infection of loving u by fire by force, trust me if she love u maybe she's just playing hard to get, she will either accept you or give u a lifetime space, shikena.

Tear her pant she go run far from you.