Fiscus105:
Easy to move on for man unlike woman.

When u are under a man as a wife, you won't know the value until you become free ranger

..........I think, Toyin Aimaku, Tonto Dikeh of this world understand better.



When a woman is single (divorcee) her values lower considerably. Even guys that are not up to her younger brother mates would ask her out, and if she don't careful, her house may become mini-brothel as a result of "shop and go" from different men and guys.

general111:
Well, what do i know sef?
Afterall, i am only but a man...
But i think women are scared of divorce in nigeria because the nigerian society will not favour them.
Also, men are scared of divorce overseas because the system there favours female.So it is not about the gender, but the system and who it favours.

Fiscus105:
Easy to move on for man unlike woman.

When u are under a man as a wife, you won't know the value until you become free ranger

..........I think, Toyin Aimaku, Tonto Dikeh of this world understand better.



When a woman is single (divorcee) her values lower considerably. Even guys that are not up to her younger brother mates would ask her out, and if she don't careful, her house may become mini-brothel as a result of "shop and go" from different men and guys.

culf:
If not for abusive marriage and probably a chronic cheat, divorce shouldn't be an option

Jovialjune1:



The bolded is exactly what blessing's question is all about, it is the likes of you that keep on policing womens lives like monitoring spirit, stigmatising them on what doesn't put food on your table, how exactly is it your business what divorced women or any woman choose to do with her life and body?

How does a single or divorced women's value decrease considerably? What exactly is the value of being under a man? If older women are getting attention from younger men, common sense should tell you that's because she has an extremely attractive personality.

Fiscus105:




In psychology, there is something they called "denial by repression". Meaning, denying obvious as if it's not happening. At my bolded,it's nothing but truth in reality.

Fiscus105:


They asked about reasons why women fear divorce than men and I told you biggest reasons, if you like accept if you like deceiving urself from reality.

Jovialjune1:



Psychology is not 100% reality, so your bolded is the figment of your imagination

Being divorced has never killed anybody, but being in a useless marriage has killed so many people, that is reality.

Fiscus105:




One thing is certain, women scare divorce because perceived devalued outside marriages. Also, one thing is 100%, different kinds of guys and men ask divorce out farrrrrrr more than married women. They asked them out not for remarried on many occasions but just to use them to relieve tensions

Fiscus105:




One thing is certain, women scare divorce because perceived devalued outside marriages. Also, one thing is 100%, different kinds of guys and men ask divorce out farrrrrrr more than married women. They asked them out not for remarried on many occasions but just to use them to relieve tensions

Jovialjune1:


Exactly, I also don't approve of divorce, but when push turns to shove, being alive should be the ultimate reality.

Fiscus105:




In psychology, there is something they called "denial by repression". Meaning, denying obvious as if it's not happening. At my bolded,it's nothing but truth in reality.


They asked about reasons why women fear divorce than men and I told you biggest reasons, if you like accept if you like deceiving urself from reality.

Mindlog:


Uncle, in Psychology there is nothing like "denial by repression" as denial and repression are two distinct defense mechanisms.

Fiscus105:



Google is ur friend....browse denial (psychology

He will explain for u

Mindlog:


I do not need to google because it is part of Freud's psychoanalytic theory taught in details to those who majored in Psychology, they are part of my educational background and my daily working life.

Mindlog:


I do not need to google because it is part of Freud's psychoanalytic theory taught in details to those who majored in Psychology, they are part of my educational background and my daily working life.

Fiscus105:




Since u brilant than Freud that gave out the theory.....afterall naija always knowest than thou, yet society is going backward....but for me, I insist denial (in form repression)

That's (Something really happened to u but u behave as if not existence, if u re not mad u will know that its in existence)

One clear example, Nigeria is disunited but keep singing one Nigeria.

Bye .

Jovialjune1:




How does a single or divorced women's value decrease considerably? What exactly is the value of being under a man? If older women are getting attention from younger men, common sense should tell you that's because she has an extremely attractive personality.

Jovialjune1:


Exactly, I also don't approve of divorce, but when push turns to shove, being alive should be the ultimate reality.

Mindlog:


Have you pondered on the reasons, a Nigerian woman based with her Nigerian husband somewhere like in the UK, US etc will be more at ease divorcing from her Nigerian husband?

Persephone1:
The African society is not fair to women!

truthsayer009:


Do you think the Western society is fair to men?