ahnie:
There's this distant brother of mine (not related by blood) my family has known him for some months now.

He's the fire praying churchy type of person, he does normally visit my family, but we have never met his family.

He's a foreman that does any type of job, he's hardworking tho, not the lazy type.

So some days ago,when I went for an exercise on sight seeing organised by Nigerian army, it occured to us to check on him since he stays closer to the venue.

I rang his line and told him to direct me to his home,which he reluctantly did, when we finally located his home.

To say I was disappointed with the environment was an understatement considering what he was up to lately which prompted this post.

I met 4 of his kids, at home playing, they ought to be in school at that time and his heavily pregnant wife, we exchanged pleasantly, all thru our brief staycation there, the bros was uncomfortable, after some moments we took our leave.

This same man came to my hood to paint the apartment of a young beautiful big God female UBA banker who just moved in.

To my painment and chagrin, my brother didn't even collect a dime from this lady as wages for the job done, he only collected phone number and started chyking the lady, who obviously has a rich taste for big boys and my bros was pretty pained.

Simply put, he did a free job, a job that took him 2 days to paint ,

My brother said he wants to have as many kids as possible, I'm afraid he's not making the necessary moves to care for them, which really is bad, with the present situation of the country.

My question now is.... Why would the wife and my bros agree to littering the house with kids they cannot care for and the ninth one is on the way?

Why does low income earners always have energy to knack and produce kids without the necessary bucks to care for them?

Olaide1295:

I’m glad this person is not a Muslim but a church prayer person as an evidence it happens across religions.
Everyone should do family planning or use contraceptives. Yoruba says “Omo bere, oshi bere”

ahnie:
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My question now is.... Why would the wife and my bros agree to littering the house with kids they cannot care for and the ninth one is on the way?

Why does low income earners always have energy to knack and produce kids without the necessary bucks to care for them?

ahnie:
There's this distant brother of mine (not related by blood) my family has known him for some months now.

He's the fire praying churchy type of person, he does normally visit my family, but we have never met his family.

He's a foreman that does any type of job, he's hardworking tho, not the lazy type.

So some days ago,when I went for an exercise on sight seeing organised by Nigerian army, it occured to us to check on him since he stays closer to the venue.

I rang his line and told him to direct me to his home,which he reluctantly did, when we finally located his home.

To say I was disappointed with the environment was an understatement considering what he was up to lately which prompted this post.

I met 4 of his kids, at home playing, they ought to be in school at that time and his heavily pregnant wife, we exchanged pleasantly, all thru our brief staycation there, the bros was uncomfortable, after some moments we took our leave.

This same man came to my hood to paint the apartment of a young beautiful big God female UBA banker who just moved in.

To my painment and chagrin, my brother didn't even collect a dime from this lady as wages for the job done, he only collected phone number and started chyking the lady, who obviously has a rich taste for big boys and my bros was pretty pained.

Simply put, he did a free job, a job that took him 2 days to paint ,

My brother said he wants to have as many kids as possible, I'm afraid he's not making the necessary moves to care for them, which really is bad, with the present situation of the country.

My question now is.... Why would the wife and my bros agree to littering the house with kids they cannot care for and the ninth one is on the way?

Why does low income earners always have energy to knack and produce kids without the necessary bucks to care for them?

Emman08:
He's a grown man. It's his problem

Tokskob2008:
I don't know about anyone else o but as for me whenever I see a pregnant woman this days I just shake my head because no matter how capable the family is it will still tell on their finances. Baby foods, pampers, clothes, drugs and even delivery fee at the hospital has tripled now not to talk of when the child starts to attend daycare or regular classes, school fees too right now isn't child's play at all..

Tokskob2008:
I don't know about anyone else o but as for me whenever I see a pregnant woman this days I just shake my head because no matter how capable the family is it will still tell on their finances. Baby foods, pampers, clothes, drugs and even delivery fee at the hospital has tripled now not to talk of when the child starts to attend daycare or regular classes, school fees too right now isn't child's play at all..

sisisioge:


It's not about curing high libido fa, it's about being wise with family planning. 9 kids while living in the gutter....it is well.

We have a 26yrs old buffon here well on his way too. Awon ndi jakujaku

noble2faith:


Na so my bro, especially the northern Muslims. They tell you that family planning is a sin!

Tunjibalogun:

Your papa for abort you oo esp with this thoughts lol

MrHighSea:
Recently saw a similar case in a village in AKS

9 kids, 2 room mud house, drunk and very young.

Woman was popular because relatives forced her to hospital for family planning and she ran away.

ahnie:
There's this distant brother of mine (not related by blood) my family has known him for some months now.

He's the fire praying churchy type of person, he does normally visit my family, but we have never met his family.

He's a foreman that does any type of job, he's hardworking tho, not the lazy type.

So some days ago,when I went for an exercise on sight seeing organised by Nigerian army, it occured to us to check on him since he stays closer to the venue.

I rang his line and told him to direct me to his home,which he reluctantly did, when we finally located his home.

To say I was disappointed with the environment was an understatement considering what he was up to lately which prompted this post.

I met 4 of his kids, at home playing, they ought to be in school at that time and his heavily pregnant wife, we exchanged pleasantly, all thru our brief staycation there, the bros was uncomfortable, after some moments we took our leave.

This same man came to my hood to paint the apartment of a young beautiful big God female UBA banker who just moved in.

To my painment and chagrin, my brother didn't even collect a dime from this lady as wages for the job done, he only collected phone number and started chyking the lady, who obviously has a rich taste for big boys and my bros was pretty pained.

Simply put, he did a free job, a job that took him 2 days to paint ,

My brother said he wants to have as many kids as possible, I'm afraid he's not making the necessary moves to care for them, which really is bad, with the present situation of the country.

My question now is.... Why would the wife and my bros agree to littering the house with kids they cannot care for and the ninth one is on the way?

Why does low income earners always have energy to knack and produce kids without the necessary bucks to care for them?

ahnie:

I think the wife too needs to share from the blame too.

She has every right to rebuffed his sexual advances,or probably secreting going for family planning.

Sisi,kin ji ko,taking care of 9 kids ba karama magana ba.

folake4u:
The woman fück up abeg. 9 kids in this economy?? Going to the labour room 9 times??What!

olaks4real:
What I ordered Vs what I got , telling me to say sorry for challenging before he can make another for me

sisisioge:


It's not about curing high libido fa, it's about being wise with family planning. 9 kids while living in the gutter....it is well.

We have a 26yrs old buffon here well on his way too. Awon ndi jakujaku