I will be 21 on my next birthday
I'm also studying a very intensive course in school
I have a "girlfriend", but it's all smoke and mirrors because we are in different states
My body is screaming for sex whenever I see young ladies. I don't know what to do
I have tried fasting, I have even tried praying
I just have up when I convinced myself that the urge is natural and not spiritual or demonic
Masturbation is not an issue for me, at most I do it once or twice per month, so It has never affected any area of my life,other than the shame and guilt I feel when I'm done.... But I consume a decent amount of porn tbh

The bible asks young people like me to marry instead of burning, but marriage isn't even possible at this stage of my life
I am still a virgin.
What do I do?

MegaPlayBoy:
I will be 21 on my next birthday
I'm also studying a very intensive course in school
I have a "girlfriend", but it's all smoke and mirrors because we are in different states
My body is screaming for sex whenever I see young ladies. I don't know what to do
I have tried fasting, I have even tried praying
I just have up when I convinced myself that the urge is natural and not spiritual or demonic
Masturbation is not an issue for me, at most I do it once or twice per month, so It has never affected any area of my life,other than the shame and guilt I feel when I'm done.... But I consume a decent amount of porn tbh

The bible asks young people like me to marry instead of burning, but marriage isn't even possible at this stage of my life
I am still a virgin.
What do I do?

This is why sex education is very important. We demonize sex in Africa without giving an alternative for it other than God getting angry with us.

Chief, try know that no amount of prayer, pretense and focus can save you from what your body yearns for.

Try on your own study and know the good and down sides of sex that will help you make an inform decision.

Your body is only reacting to hormonal changes.

Have sex but take precautionary measures. Also know that once you start, stopping isn't easy.

Good luck

Werey said he's still a virgin

Zonefree:
Werey said he's still a virgin

By dictionary definition,he is.

Anonymoususher:



This is why sex education is very important. We demonize sex in Africa without giving an alternative for it other than God getting angry with us.

Chief, try know that no amount of prayer, pretense and focus can save you from what your body yearns for.

Try on your own study and know the good and down sides of sex that will help you make an inform decision.

Your body is only reacting to hormonal changes.

Have sex but take precautionary measures. Also know that once you start, stopping isn't easy.

Good luck

Boss that is my problem right now, many people have said it before that if you taste the fruit once,.it is very difficult to stop going back for more.. I don't know if I am ready, how I wish there was a healthy outlet for sex urges other than porn and jerking off

spencekat:
By dictionary definition,he is.

Biologicallly, there's nothing like male virgin.

Zonefree:

Biologicallly, there's nothing like male virgin.

Instead of learning, you dey argue.


Back to the topic. No one wears white clothes to sell charcoal that will not be stained.

To recapture your mind, always try to avoid situations that will make you feel the urge for sex e.g being alone, p0rn, wrong friends who indulge in sex, confide in your parents if they are (sorry to say) responsible enough to discuss such, and above all draw close to God in prayer after reading the Bible.



Consider the headache that comes with an immoral lifestyle:
1. Premarital sex brings guilty conscience,
2. Feelings of worthlessness
3.Dissatisfaction,
4 Fathering a child out of wedlock
5 Abortion(murder)


1 Cor 15:33
1Cor 6:9,10

Forget about sex.... We're talking about flood!

Wotoporiously speaking

Cut off your peninsula that's the only way

Google 21yrs olds who are already millionaires in dollars and read a little about their lifestyles. I promise you, your dick will not rise again in the near future even if a vaginarian pulls off her clothes before you. Try it my friend, such research worked like magic for me.

Have you tried programming
I no even know when last I get sexual urge because the bugs wey full my codes for sometime no dey even make me remember say anything like sex dey exist.
Joke aside eeh, OP try and get your mind busy. An idle man's heart na the devil working place

Nonexisting1:
Google 21yrs olds who are already millionaires in dollars and read a little about their lifestyles. I promise you, your dick will not rise again in the near future even if a vaginarian pulls off her clothes before you. Try it my friend, such research worked like magic for me.

una get bad mouth for this forum

MegaPlayBoy:

Boss that is my problem right now, many people have said it before that if you taste the fruit once,.it is very difficult to stop going back for more.. I don't know if I am ready, how I wish there was a healthy outlet for sex urges other than porn and jerking off

Ong bloodline I feel ur pain lmao