I am facing a dilenma lately,there is this church girl that has being on my neck since last year the day she came to preach to us we were about 5 guys we all came to her church the next sunday but as time goes on we lost interest including me because the church was more like christ embassy, ladies dont cover their hair,they speak too much english and sing only english songs like its an American church i am used to churches that sing Nigerian languages yoruba and igbo.
Ever since i stopped this girl has being on my neck trying to bring me back,she is trying hard to blackmail me with Feeling like i am rejecting Gods word,i keep telling her i have another church that she should let me be omo this one no gree ooh, she can call 50 times daily even though i no longer pick.
I have even try giving her attitude,like frownimg whenever she is around but this girl still chuck her for my matter she no dey give up she still keeps coming
This time around i dont think its about church anymore there is something else she is not saying.my guys are telling me she is in love with me but sorry i dont like her,she is a graduate and a practising lawyer and i am yet to even have my first degree so we just dont match.

Oga stop lieing,she doesn't have any interest in you,she is just after you because she wants to draw you close to christ,that how i also chase after my new converts,not that i have any interest in them i just want them to draw closer to God.

kollinzgee:
I am facing a dilenma lately,there is this church girl that has being on my neck since last year the day she came to preach to us we were about 5 guys we all came to her church the next sunday but as time goes on we lost interest including me because the church was more like christ embassy, ladies dont cover their hair,they speak too much english and sing only english songs like its an American church i am used to churches that sing Nigerian languages yoruba and igbo.
Ever since i stopped this girl has being on my neck trying to bring me back,she is trying hard to blackmail me with Feeling like i am rejecting Gods word,i keep telling her i have another church that she should let me be omo this one no gree ooh, she can call 50 times daily even though i no longer pick.
I have even try giving her attitude,like frownimg whenever she is around but this girl still chuck her for my matter she no dey give up she still keeps coming
This time around i dont think its about church anymore there is something else she is not saying.my guys are telling me she is in love with me but sorry i dont like her,she is a graduate and a practising lawyer and i am yet to even have my first degree so we just dont match.

Does the emboldened part of your writeup make you less of a man?

Self condemnation.... SMH!!!

kollinzgee:
I am facing a dilenma lately,there is this church girl that has being on my neck since last year the day she came to preach to us we were about 5 guys we all came to her church the next sunday but as time goes on we lost interest including me because the church was more like christ embassy, ladies dont cover their hair,they speak too much english and sing only english songs like its an American church i am used to churches that sing Nigerian languages yoruba and igbo.
Ever since i stopped this girl has being on my neck trying to bring me back,she is trying hard to blackmail me with Feeling like i am rejecting Gods word,i keep telling her i have another church that she should let me be omo this one no gree ooh, she can call 50 times daily even though i no longer pick.
I have even try giving her attitude,like frownimg whenever she is around but this girl still chuck her for my matter she no dey give up she still keeps coming
This time around i dont think its about church anymore there is something else she is not saying.my guys are telling me she is in love with me but sorry i dont like her,she is a graduate and a practising lawyer and i am yet to even have my first degree so we just dont match.

I don't think she is really into you but but

Let me guess the church!

Is it Good life nation?

Na so they dey drag me. I don surrender until I am out of the town.

virginprincess:
Oga stop lieing,she doesn't have any interest in you,she is just after you because she wants to draw you close to christ,that how i also chase after my new converts,not that i have any interest in them i just want them to draw closer to God.

I think you are right. I have one that always come around and drag me like old generator. Even when I give excess excuse, they still come to my house with reenforcement.

Most of them do it for the sake of soul winning, if there is any motive again it is a bonus for them (if you know what I mean).

For my case, the girl wan turn me to church boy. Everything she keep telling me to come for soul winning, frequent church meetings etc. But me I stubborn and I no get time for those things.

virginprincess:
Oga stop lieing,she doesn't have any interest in you,she is just after you because she wants to draw you close to christ,that how i also chase after my new converts,not that i have any interest in them i just want them to draw closer to God.

But do you know it is a sin to do so do you read the bible?

kollinzgee:
I am facing a dilenma lately,there is this church girl that has being on my neck since last year the day she came to preach to us we were about 5 guys we all came to her church the next sunday but as time goes on we lost interest including me because the church was more like christ embassy, ladies dont cover their hair,they speak too much english and sing only english songs like its an American church i am used to churches that sing Nigerian languages yoruba and igbo.
Ever since i stopped this girl has being on my neck trying to bring me back,she is trying hard to blackmail me with Feeling like i am rejecting Gods word,i keep telling her i have another church that she should let me be omo this one no gree ooh, she can call 50 times daily even though i no longer pick.
I have even try giving her attitude,like frownimg whenever she is around but this girl still chuck her for my matter she no dey give up she still keeps coming
This time around i dont think its about church anymore there is something else she is not saying.my guys are telling me she is in love with me but sorry i dont like her,she is a graduate and a practising lawyer and i am yet to even have my first degree so we just dont match.

she’s not interested in you, that’s just how those church agents generally do to win members to their church. it’s not about you, check well she does it to other guys

PlayMaker14:
Does the emboldened part of your writeup make you less of a man?

Self condemnation.... SMH!!!

Bro i am a realist
When a woman is above you in social status you will suffer in that relationship talking from experience.

kollinzgee:


But do you know it is a sin to do so do you read the bible?

It is now a sin to win souls for christ,you should be the one to read your bible properly.

kollinzgee:
I am facing a dilenma lately,there is this church girl that has being on my neck since last year the day she came to preach to us we were about 5 guys we all came to her church the next sunday but as time goes on we lost interest including me because the church was more like christ embassy, ladies dont cover their hair,they speak too much english and sing only english songs like its an American church i am used to churches that sing Nigerian languages yoruba and igbo.
Ever since i stopped this girl has being on my neck trying to bring me back,she is trying hard to blackmail me with Feeling like i am rejecting Gods word,i keep telling her i have another church that she should let me be omo this one no gree ooh, she can call 50 times daily even though i no longer pick.
I have even try giving her attitude,like frownimg whenever she is around but this girl still chuck her for my matter she no dey give up she still keeps coming
This time around i dont think its about church anymore there is something else she is not saying.my guys are telling me she is in love with me but sorry i dont like her,she is a graduate and a practising lawyer and i am yet to even have my first degree so we just dont match.

Please, take your mind off that insensitive thought that is blackmailing your mind. From your narrative, it obvious she is trying to win your soul for Christ, nothing more,,ok? Thank God, career wise, you have agreed that she's ways ahead of you. Black man with black sense. That's how some of you go about raping innocent souls, with the sole believe that she's in love with you.

virginprincess:
It is now a sin to win souls for christ,you should be the one to read your bible properly.

The bible says somewhere in the book of matthew when you try to convert someone and the person refuses strongly dust your feet and leave for your work is done ,but you churches of this generation are becoming manipulative and authoritaritian you are forcing people, you are just looking for members that all you are not true christians.

imadiyi:

Please, take your mind off that insensitive thought that is blackmailing you. From your narrative, it obvious she is trying to win your soul for Christ, nothing more,,ok? Thank God, career wise, you have agreed that she's ways ahead of you.

Is it by force?
Even jehovah witnesses do not force people this way .fyi being above me in social status doesnt mean she is better than me,i may be happier and healthier than her and i am happy and grateful thats what matters the most.

kollinzgee:


Is it by force?
Even jehovah witnesses do not force people this way.

Yes, of course it's not by force. But it's by force for you to know Christ Jesus, believe in him for you to be saved,,ok? Jesus loves you, and that's why he died for you.

However, if you are in love with her, open your mouth and tell her, she won't kill,,ok? It's evidently clear that you came to nairaland for validation. Perhaps, some persons here might tell you to shoot your shot, which you are indirectly seeking.

imadiyi:

Yes, of course it's not by force. But it's by force for you to know Christ Jesus, believe in him for you to be saved,,ok? Jesus loves you, and that's why he died for you.

However, if you are in love with her, open your mouth and tell her, she won't kill,,ok? It's evidently clear that you came to nairaland for validation. Perhaps, some persons here might tell you to shoot your shot, which you are indirectly seeking.

So you force people to believe in your church what makes you different from a jihadist And what makes you think i am an unbeliever didnt you read the writeup?
You have no right to tell me how to worship My creator.

kollinzgee:


So you force people to believe in your church what makes you different from a jihadist And what makes you think i am an unbeliever didnt you read the writeup?
You have no right to tell me how to worship My creator.

most ladies quoting you, proudly refuse to hear that their gender would do the chasing. It's not really a matter of religion anymore.
I think you should ask the girl directly what she wants from you cause you've firmly concluded you ain't going back to her church.

Donmobi:
most ladies quoting you, proudly refuse to hear that their gender would do the chasing. It's not really a matter of religion anymore.
I think you should ask the girl directly what she wants from you cause you've firmly concluded you ain't going back to her church.

Thank you bro
I have sat her down i talked to her she nearly cried that day.

What did u say to her that almost made her cry?

Enny2013:
What did u say to her that almost made her cry?

I told her i want to go back to mountain of fire my family church.

so wetin you want make we do

kollinzgee:


I told her i want to go back to mountain of fire my family church.

OK...Dat's my church too

If you don't take care, that insistence could lead to the bed soon. That's how some agents of darkness go about looking for people to drag into fornication, under the guise of inviting them to church.

Who knows? she could be your soulmate, a lot of people that are happily married now didn't like each other when they first met.

For some it even took years for them to finally fall in love.

kollinzgee:
I am facing a dilenma lately,there is this church girl that has being on my neck since last year the day she came to preach to us we were about 5 guys we all came to her church the next sunday but as time goes on we lost interest including me because the church was more like christ embassy, ladies dont cover their hair,they speak too much english and sing only english songs like its an American church i am used to churches that sing Nigerian languages yoruba and igbo.
Ever since i stopped this girl has being on my neck trying to bring me back,she is trying hard to blackmail me with Feeling like i am rejecting Gods word,i keep telling her i have another church that she should let me be omo this one no gree ooh, she can call 50 times daily even though i no longer pick.
I have even try giving her attitude,like frownimg whenever she is around but this girl still chuck her for my matter she no dey give up she still keeps coming
This time around i dont think its about church anymore there is something else she is not saying.my guys are telling me she is in love with me but sorry i dont like her,she is a graduate and a practising lawyer and i am yet to even have my first degree so we just dont match.

You asking a question women themselves don't have an answer for.
Every mallam to his kettle abeg

Naso one Christ embassy girl lure my guy man through preaching for 100l. Cell leader dey Bleep boy wey she invite come church.

Please I need someone like you to draw me closer to God because I feel I am distance away from the Kingdom of God.
Help wherever you are!

virginprincess:
Oga stop lieing,she doesn't have any interest in you,she is just after you because she wants to draw you close to christ,that how i also chase after my new converts,not that i have any interest in them i just want them to draw closer to God.

virginprincess:
Oga stop lieing,she doesn't have any interest in you,she is just after you because she wants to draw you close to christ,that how i also chase after my new converts,not that i have any interest in them i just want them to draw closer to God.

which church u dey go?

kollinzgee:


The bible says somewhere in the book of matthew when you try to convert someone and the person refuses strongly dust your feet and leave for your work is done ,but you churches of this generation are becoming manipulative and authoritaritian you are forcing people, you are just looking for members that all you are not true christians.

We are going after the lost sheep, that's all. The more you lost, the more effort we make to bring you back. And I can guarantee you that by God's grace there shall be no loss