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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 9:54am On Oct 30, 2022
I am sorry for you. You must either be a paedophile or be among those who take advantage of vulnerable women. God have mercy on you.


Ikennaford:

Op de fuuuck that girl too, forget this Long epistle he wrote up there, sweet 16 cuntus deh sweet nah

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 9:54am On Oct 30, 2022
zcee:
Shits happen...

Treat her the way you will treat your own child if she was the one...

Mind you, nobody died it's just a mistake that may have been avoided at her age if she knows th basic importance of safe sex...
She made a mistake at that age
Very bad!


Thanks
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:11am On Oct 30, 2022
awakmfon03:


So sorry but you are very wrong on this.
Note she was still having her menstruation. And the man's wife was the one buying her the sanitary pads. I've come across more than 3 adults who were pregnant without even knowing until it was about 4-5months and one of them is likely going to put to birth next month. She only discovered she was pregnant when the pregnancy was over 5 months meanwhile she was still seeing her period. She only found out when she started adding weight and feeling abnormal.

Exactly what happened in this case, only God have reasons why it escaped our detection, no signs, no symptoms, the girl was perfect fit and go about her usual duty as before

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:14am On Oct 30, 2022
Mercury12:
lol if not for IPOB and ESN miscreants dem. It wont had happen abi? cheesy
grin

At least the grandma of the boys would have traveled to stay in her home in Abia state rather than living in a rented apartment for 3 months in PH
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by jmichael259(m): 10:16am On Oct 30, 2022
DSS1335:


Thanks.

She will go back to the village and put to birth, thereafter return back to the city after weaning the child. Whatever arrangements to be made must involves that boy's family too.

Next year UTME, she will register and write it in the village.


Make she write am first sha but mind you, UTME is not an excuse incase her name no come out.

University Degree (distant learning, evening, weekend or sandwich) programmes do not require sitting for UTME.

Polytechnics evening and weekend programmes do not require UTME.

School of health/nursing/midwifery do not require UTME.

The list goes on, same certificate with UTME candidates. Unless you tell person.

Just go to the institution CCE (center for continuing education) or nearby sec sch, buy form & resume.

Being in her (& ur) position might find this option best for her to work and support herself while schooling and nursing the baby through infant and toddler stage that it needs the mother most.

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:18am On Oct 30, 2022
rollandben:
Oga, are you sure the pregnancy is not yours
Let's start our investigation from here

You are obviously a slowpoke! And a rape apologetic. In case you don't know sleeping with a minor (less than 18 years old) despite her consent is called a statutory rape, you risk 14years imprisonment without option

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:20am On Oct 30, 2022
jmichael259:


Make she write am first sha but mind you, UTME is not an excuse incase her name no come out.

University Degree (distant learning, evening, weekend or sandwich) programmes do not require sitting for UTME.

Polytechnics evening and weekend programmes do not require UTME.

School of health/nursing/midwifery do not require UTME.

The list goes on, same certificate with UTME candidates. Unless you tell person.

Just go to the institution CCE (center for continuing education) or nearby sec sch, buy form & resume.

Being in her (& ur) position might find this option best for her to work and support herself while schooling and nursing the baby through infant and toddler stage that it needs the mother most.

Thank you for this. I shall take that of school of health/nursing/midwifery. Thanks

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:26am On Oct 30, 2022
NigerianAngelo:


Don't throw the girl under the bus like that.

First, is the boy and the girl related?

Next still send her to some tertiary education from her village, even an OND program or so. Don't leave her like that after four years.

But if you ask for my honest advice:
Arrange for the boy and the girl to marry. What you are seeing as a dangerous case could turn out extremely light in six months. Just sponsor the boy to some work, or the girl to some work, ond or work-allowance support.

Do it for God. Imagine what Christ would have done and do the same.

Much appreciated sir/ma

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Plugsk(m): 10:28am On Oct 30, 2022
Your talk balance grin
Lastpharoah33:
I can understand the utter disappointment on your ward. Naivety and a little touch of youthful ebullience got the better of her.

Someone mentioned lack of supervision, you saying dude should put a tracker on the girl?
Or maybe have her be on leash to be dragged along, huh?

Life happened to her, if what you wrote up there is what really transpired (as regards to your benevolence towards your ward), I really think taking her back to her mom is a good step.

But am totally against going ballistic on the nig that did put her in the family way. It's a choice thing. Either he embraces with full chest or bounce. Nature/karma will always take it's cause.
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:29am On Oct 30, 2022
Annahh:
That's how one 14 years old girl I know got pregnant, she got pregnant in her JSS3, the worst part is that an old man with grown up children is the one that got her pregnant, whether he used jazz on her is what I still can't comprehend, well she dropped out of school and her mum struggles to pay her school fees cause she is a petty trader. Close your legs and zip up, they won't hear. It is well.

Grossssssss! This is so pathetic
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:37am On Oct 30, 2022
prophetfire:
. It's very pathetic. I support your move. If the boy's people would take responsibility, good and fine. If not track the idiot down and file statutory rape charges.
However, more important, don't abandon that girl.
Still help her to get something doing. Even if it's learn a skill and do something. And let her get close to God and start early to pick the pieces of her life together. It's so sad.

I won't abandon her sir

Thanks for you input sir

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Richy4(m): 10:38am On Oct 30, 2022
motionarena:

He better afford it if he knows what is good for is life.

This gorls are something else they keep multiple sex partners and pin pregnancy on any of their choice.

I almost feel victim of the scam b4
grin grin cheesy smiley
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:45am On Oct 30, 2022
Freethinker87:
I can feel your pain man. Someone will be working to improve a situation, one non-entity will just come from nowhere and spoil what someone have been working on for years. It hurt's man.

Why don't you file a case of statutory rape right now before you track this family. Then withdraw the case if they agree to settle peacefully.

I dont know where they lives in Obigbo in Abia state. The aunty to the boy lives in my neighborhood in PH. She has offered to assist in resolving the case and i will follow up. The statutory rape charge will the last resort if the boy and his immediate family refuse to be of help. Thanks though

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:46am On Oct 30, 2022
aboyj:
Pregnancy is not a disease.. after delivery she can still continue her education..

Sure, she will

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:47am On Oct 30, 2022
adontcare:
see that zee world alone make girls act foolishly. Eg my sis inlaw watches zee world from morning till midnight. After we secured admission for her, paid the fees, this girl get mind run away with our gateman that we sacked. She went to stay with the guy in abia State. After eight days, she reappear in d village with many fabricated lies. Right now, she is heavily pregnant for all these small boys that sag their trousers and be smoking igbo

Damm! So pathetic!!
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 10:54am On Oct 30, 2022
GoooodHardDick:


Are you this daft or what?

What is wrong with you Nigeria girls? Why can't you Nigeria girls always take responsibilities for your actions? Why shifting blames on the opposite gender? Brain dey pain you?

The girl clearly admitted that they both had sex (consensual) and she even enjoyed it more. This clearly means that she wanted it and has always longed for it and yet you're blaming the boy? Are you not mad like this?

Before you Rush to comment, learn to use your Brain and think

No matter how big the girl had gotten won't change the fact that she is still a minor according to the law and sleeping with such an underage kid is considered a statutory rape and punishable with 14 years imprisonment without option of fine.

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 11:02am On Oct 30, 2022
dontrulee:
@op, I understand how distressing the situation can be at the moment especially how it happened right under your nose. What has happened has happened, it's not the end of the world. After her pregnancy, she can still continue her schooling and do whatever she wants to do. Gone are the days when unwanted pregnancy can stop one from furthering their educations. This is the time she needs enough care, love and support. If you can do this for her, she will be grateful and it will stir up a seed of greatness within her because it's the nature of humans to express their best abilities if they're shown unconditional love and affection especially if they're undeserving of it. There will always be that feeling of indebtedness within them that pushes them on.

So, embrace it as part of life and move on. Isn't it interesting how the extremes of two sides of life can be at consonance with one another. You had to wait eight years before you had a child. Your maid didn't even have to get married before she had one. Life is not fixed in stone and anything can happen. Even the most taugt lady or most supervised lady can choose to rebel and get pregnant. No one has 100% control over anyone. Learn from this lesson so that your daughter (if you've any) will not follow this path and hope she won't follow it because if she follows it, there is nothing or little you can do. Wishing you the best as you resolve this knotty yet interesting issue. Gracias

Well written. Thanks sir
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by tiswell(m): 11:10am On Oct 30, 2022
ValCon888:
My advice is not for the girl, but for the boy.

That 20 year old boy should make sure a DNA test is carried out before anyone pins a pregnancy on his head.

Just like the OP was shocked that a "naive" 16 year old girl is pregnant under his roof, he'll be further shocked that child doesn't belong to the young man in question, but one of her multiple sex partners.
That girl has been having s*x with different guys,I just hope that OP.never partake grin
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by mariahAngel(f): 11:23am On Oct 30, 2022
Munzy14:

grin grin grin no be small one o..

O ya nu naa..O rie la ihe ahu gu ga ya..Ya na ura mewe zie...

First pregnancy Nwaanyi kwesiri ya na nwoke ya i noro..maka the care and pampering will help alleviate the stress and worries..
The pain of carrying pregnancy the man deny ga undecided can be traumatic. undecided

My uncle and his wife ones found themselves in OP's situation..I think av told you this before okwaya?

I swear, o wu otu Chineke jiri choo ya, mana ahu oñuña o ga e kwekwanu?
Pregnancy was never meant for one person to bear alone.


I gwara m.
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by dadamonie150: 11:27am On Oct 30, 2022
PJtech:
Lack of supervision from parent/guardian. A girl got 5month pregnant under ur roof, you negleted ur guardian role(ur wife should take 90% of the blame)

do have a talk with ur wife, never leave ur kids with same fate as this poor girl.... Learn from this mistake
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by dadamonie150: 11:27am On Oct 30, 2022
DSS1335:
I am writing this with a sorrowful heart!
This is quite a lengthy piece!!


In 2018, My wife brought a live-in maid toward the end of her gestational period as we eagerly anticipate the birth of our first fruit after 8 years of marriage.

We took the young girl as part of our family, she was just 13 years old in JSS2 at the time she joined us. She does minor household chores, like washing the dishes, keeping the house in and out clean, that's all. I made sure
her education was not interrupted, she continued her schooling from Js3 till she completed her SSCE this year. Outsiders thought she was my first child considering the way she was being taken good care of.

At 16 years age, the evidence of proper nutrition was so glaring in her physique, the young girl of yesterday was already a beautiful damsel. I protected her from ravenous men old enough to be her father. Even from her classmates. Perhaps the mistake i made was in buying her phone before WAEC exam started. Well, the need for constant communication can not be overemphasized because i and my wife go out for work in the morning. My wife comes back in the day while i return back in the evening. Living her our 2 kids in her care: My first Child is 3 years plus in Nursery, the second is about 2 years in Prenursery.

When her mother made a stop by to visit her daughter 5 months ago after 4 years, she was so full of praise and thanking us for taking good care of her daughter, and begged us to allow her stay longer with us rather than her returning back to the village after completing her WAEC. I and my wife plan that i will take up the responsibility to train her up in University so she can be light to her family. Her elder siblings didn't complete their secondary school!

Today, all those dreams and aspirations have been shattered! The innocent girl child i took as a daughter is 5 months pregnant without even knowing she was pregnant! How possible? I could have swear with my life that she was still a virgin and innocent. Damm it! Where do I start from eh??

Well, my wife was rattled up by a what she called a terrible nightmare, she dreamt that she saw her girl carrying a new born baby. That was around 3 A.M she woke her up from sleep and asked her if she was pregnant, the girl denied it ignorantly. My wife had no reason to suspect her as she always buy her pads for her monthly menses except for this month. Then examined her and her suspicion became heightened as she saw a remarkable changes, her bra can't fit any longer, her bellybutton was out with black line running down! She ordered her to pee and run her test kit, it came back positive! My wife broke down in tears.

That morning, we didn't go to work for the day. we grilled her with questions. She confessed to us that she had intercourse only once in the month MAY yet she was still seeing her monthly menses. That she had a boy friend whom they secretly communicate on phone every day. That she lost her virginity to the boy. And they did it only ones in less than 30 minutes as she came back to check the kids who were still sleeping in the afternoon.

The boy came to visit her grand mother who return from the USA, she refused traveling to the East due to insecurities and rented a flat opposite my compound for just 3 months from March to June. During her stay, all her children and grandchildren came to visit her. It was one of her grand son that lured my maid and took advantage of her innocences.

We contacted the boy on phone and told him what happened, he denied it that it is impossible for him to be held responsible that he had sex with her only once and that's not enough to get a girl pregnant! I swear,i could have dealt with him fatally if he were within my reach. Well, i was able to comport myself and explain to him in details after which he kept quiet. He is just 20 years old awaiting admission. We have informed the girl's mother too who became shock and cold! And asked her daughter to return back to the village!

Considering this scenario, i came up with the plan to make that boy and family take up the responsibility of the pregnancy, she can't remain with my family anymore so as not draw unnecessary attention. I will track down the boy and his family and file a statutory rape charge against them if all avenue to resolve this case peacefully fail. From Pregnancy to child care is no joke. My people that is no joke at all. I feel very bad and compassionate for the innocent young girl who will be forced to sacrifice her future to be in the family way.

Any honest advise on how best to tackle this issue at hand would be appreciated
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by TaoBalinga: 11:34am On Oct 30, 2022
fokudas:
I know how painful it is to have a child under your roof get pregnant without you knowing. Few things I will like to point out here:
1. The girl comes from a family that none of her siblings was able to finish secondary school.
2. The monther was happy that at least a light is about to shine in the family reason why when she came to see her, she pleaded you allow her stay longer with you people
3. The same thing that didn't allow her other siblings finish school has to strike in another way, by getting her lured by the boy to ge into sex which now resulted to pregnancy.........still that siege of no one must be educated.
4. You and your wife are the Deborah and Joshua sent to help this family through the girl to end that siege ans set a new path for the family.
5. To make a good end out of this will not be easy but it is achievable if and only if you and your wife will see this as a divine assignment from God to deliberate a family.
6. Dont change your mind regarding training the girl to university.
7. Get her to the village and take all responsibility regarding the delivery of the baby then ensure that the girl gets back to school and see her through school
8. The new baby should not be neglected, always reach out and get across stuffs for her upkeep (Like I said, this isn't gonna be easy but if you and your wife see it as a service unto God, heaven will sustain you both and make this a great testimony)
9. Pray for God to give you and your wife grace to deliver this project as I know within the next 4yrs to 6yrs when you and your wife look back you will be grateful to God.
10. Draw the girl close and assure her of your commitment to her future but let her know the plan for her to go have the baby in the village after which her education will still be pursued. She must get this assurance so that she doesn't out of no hope end up into another wrong vampire .
God will help you and your wife and this will be a project you will deliver with faith in God and to the shame of the devil.




you are the only person that made sense , I haven't comment on a post in a while, I had to login and comment..

you said it all
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by GoooodHardDick: 12:24pm On Oct 30, 2022
DSS1335:


No matter how big the girl had gotten won't change the fact that she is still a minor according to the law and sleeping with such an underage kid is considered a statutory rape and punishable with 14 years imprisonment without option of fine.


Ok na, Go and arrest those girls around 14, 15 and 16 years and above who are banging lots of guys far above their age. Esp those 15 years old girls in sec sch wey their pussy dey scratch them., So after those girls finish banging you will still blame the guy?

Seems like there are no sec sch girls in your area!
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Tinyemeka(m): 12:39pm On Oct 30, 2022
DSS1335:



I will track down the boy and his family and file a statutory rape charge against them if all avenue to resolve this case peacefully fail. From Pregnancy to child care is no joke. My people that is no joke at all. I feel very bad and compassionate for the innocent young girl who will be forced to sacrifice her future to be in the family way.

Any honest advise on how best to tackle this issue at hand would be appreciated

You're on the right track.

In the meantime, hear what the girl's mother has to say. It's maternal instinct that made her say you should send her daughter back to her. Don't send the girl back to the village yet, until you've settled the case with the boy.

I don't know what the outcome will be when you meet with the boy's parents, but at the end of the day (if I'm to give my little advice) let the boy not be "forced" to marry the girl. The boy is obligated to be responsible for his actions. So ask his parents what they are going to do about it. They might deny responsibility, then let them know that you have no option than to involve the police and treat it as a rape case.

At the end of the day, we are all looking for a peaceful resolution that will be favourable to all parties.

If the girl's mother is okay with taking care of the baby, all glory be to God. Her daughter will still grow up to achieve her potential. Only God knows what the baby will grow up to be in the future, but in these few years that I've lived on earth, I've seen cases like these, and the children turned out very fine and doing well. Let the girl continue with her education. The boy and his family has to be made responsible for the upkeep of the baby.

Whatever you do, let them not take only the baby and leave the girl. They are either in or out. If they're accepting the baby, they should also accept the girl.

It is well.
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by SURElee(f): 12:47pm On Oct 30, 2022
DSS1335:


Thanks.

She will go back to the village and put to birth, thereafter return back to the city after weaning the child. Whatever arrangements to be made must involves that boy's family too.

Next year UTME, she will register and write it in the village.


Thank you and God bless you and your wife.Amen
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Tzar91: 12:48pm On Oct 30, 2022
ecolime:
Chaiii

Few months ago, our 19 year old live-in maid ran off with a 20 years old boy. She packed and moved to a ghetto here in PH because of "love" shocked

Thank God we were able to track her, got her arrested and bundled her back to her family in Ijora, Lagos where we brought her from.

Once they turn teenagers, it's very easy for boys to deceive them.

This is a girl that had a big room, A.C, quality clothes and latest gadgets to herself. She wrote WAEC last year and was only awaiting admission.

My wife loved her so much and took her like a daughter. You will never know she isn't our blood. She flew and travelled everywhere with us but unfortunately, Penis derailed her life.

I was so grateful she didn't get pregnant else it would have been a different story.

Now, we don't do live-in maids again. It's cash and carry. Our new maid comes to clean up the house once we are back from work at 4pm.. (she works 5pm to 7pm). Then work on Saturdays too (8am to 5pm) Once you are done, go back to your house. While she's fully off on Sunday.

You always want the best of life for them but they don't love their lives enough.

It is well with you bro cry
You mean Penis derailed her life like a derailed train grin grin grin Don't you know that that Penis to her is sweeter than a big room with 2hp AC, good clothes, all the traveling etc grin grin

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Nickson6969(m): 1:37pm On Oct 30, 2022
Beey:
You taking the girl in and supporting her education is commendable. It sounds like she was a bit idle and that’s how she found time to meet with the young man. I want to believe that she’s not as naive as people may want to make it sound. At that age, she must have had some biology lessons. It was probably curiosity and the excitement of being told that she’s loved, that pushed her into that situation. Now with that said, my advise is for you to reconsider your decision. People fall down and then get back up again. Pregnancy though highly discouraged at her age, is not the cause for her to receive a lifetime of condemnation. Have her go to the village and have the baby. Let her stay till the baby is weaned. Am sure she’ll face difficulties that will force her to mature and focus. After that, she can leave the baby with her mother and go back to school. Please save her from becoming another addition to statistics of poverty and lack of education. Please continue to sponsor her studies as you had planned. Take her as if she were your own daughter who made a mistake and give her a 2nd chance. In the future, go for domestic help who are over 18 years old and can handle the consequences of their actions.
You highly spoke my mind..God bless you..for the contribution.. please sir follow this advice is the best..she probably has a great future and the devil wants to abort it..let her have the baby..and after that fulfill your part and train her up..give her a lot of advice..she will easily be broken by her actions...and for the guy push through with what you have in mind..let him feel it to..even though his parents will be the one to take.of the girl..
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by NaBanga: 1:47pm On Oct 30, 2022
Stop bringing children into your home as SLAVES. Also I hope oga isn't the real baby daddy. tongue
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Munzy14(m): 1:59pm On Oct 30, 2022
mariahAngel:


I swear, o wu otu Chineke jiri choo ya, mana ahu oñuña o ga e kwekwanu?
Pregnancy was never meant for one person to bear alone.


I gwara m.

Exactly @bolded...Especially that first one..Partners must be together to carry the cross.

Nti ga anu ya ihe after 9months.

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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by AlphaTaikun: 3:06pm On Oct 30, 2022
DSS1335:
I am writing this with a sorrowful heart!
This is quite a lengthy piece!!


In 2018, My wife brought a live-in maid toward the end of her gestational period as we eagerly anticipate the birth of our first fruit after 8 years of marriage.

We took the young girl as part of our family, she was just 13 years old in JSS2 at the time she joined us. She does minor household chores, like washing the dishes, keeping the house in and out clean, that's all. I made sure
her education was not interrupted, she continued her schooling from Js3 till she completed her SSCE this year. Outsiders thought she was my first child considering the way she was being taken good care of.

At 16 years age, the evidence of proper nutrition was so glaring in her physique, the young girl of yesterday was already a beautiful damsel. I protected her from ravenous men old enough to be her father. Even from her classmates. Perhaps the mistake i made was in buying her phone before WAEC exam started. Well, the need for constant communication can not be overemphasized because i and my wife go out for work in the morning. My wife comes back in the day while i return back in the evening. Living her our 2 kids in her care: My first Child is 3 years plus in Nursery, the second is about 2 years in Prenursery.

When her mother made a stop by to visit her daughter 5 months ago after 4 years, she was so full of praise and thanking us for taking good care of her daughter, and begged us to allow her stay longer with us rather than her returning back to the village after completing her WAEC. I and my wife plan that i will take up the responsibility to train her up in University so she can be light to her family. Her elder siblings didn't complete their secondary school!

Today, all those dreams and aspirations have been shattered! The innocent girl child i took as a daughter is 5 months pregnant without even knowing she was pregnant! How possible? I could have swear with my life that she was still a virgin and innocent. Damm it! Where do I start from eh??

Well, my wife was rattled up by a what she called a terrible nightmare, she dreamt that she saw her girl carrying a new born baby. That was around 3 A.M she woke her up from sleep and asked her if she was pregnant, the girl denied it ignorantly. My wife had no reason to suspect her as she always buy her pads for her monthly menses except for this month. Then examined her and her suspicion became heightened as she saw a remarkable changes, her bra can't fit any longer, her bellybutton was out with black line running down! She ordered her to pee and run her test kit, it came back positive! My wife broke down in tears.

That morning, we didn't go to work for the day. we grilled her with questions. She confessed to us that she had intercourse only once in the month MAY yet she was still seeing her monthly menses. That she had a boy friend whom they secretly communicate on phone every day. That she lost her virginity to the boy. And they did it only ones in less than 30 minutes as she came back to check the kids who were still sleeping in the afternoon.

The boy came to visit her grand mother who return from the USA, she refused traveling to the East due to insecurities and rented a flat opposite my compound for just 3 months from March to June. During her stay, all her children and grandchildren came to visit her. It was one of her grand son that lured my maid and took advantage of her innocences.

We contacted the boy on phone and told him what happened, he denied it that it is impossible for him to be held responsible that he had sex with her only once and that's not enough to get a girl pregnant! I swear,i could have dealt with him fatally if he were within my reach. Well, i was able to comport myself and explain to him in details after which he kept quiet. He is just 20 years old awaiting admission. We have informed the girl's mother too who became shock and cold! And asked her daughter to return back to the village!

Considering this scenario, i came up with the plan to make that boy and family take up the responsibility of the pregnancy, she can't remain with my family anymore so as not draw unnecessary attention. I will track down the boy and his family and file a statutory rape charge against them if all avenue to resolve this case peacefully fail. From Pregnancy to child care is no joke. My people that is no joke at all. I feel very bad and compassionate for the innocent young girl who will be forced to sacrifice her future to be in the family way.

Any honest advise on how best to tackle this issue at hand would be appreciated
You've done your bit.
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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by AlphaTaikun: 3:10pm On Oct 30, 2022
STARGREEN:
Admittedly it's not so easy to have absolute control of people, Yet being a minor under someone's tutelage please permit me to sight lack of close supervision.



For now let her be with the parents when the shock is over, kindly find a way to put her back to her feet.

Even if it's vocational education.
Last 2 paragraphs... SPOT ON.

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